Isn't Neil Responsible More Than Ragini For Aarav And Nishi Condition - Page 3

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I used to feel that both Raagini&Nachiket were equally responsible for what all happened in Aaravs life...Now,reading the complete thread changed my view!If Nachiket wouldn't have come to India,neither Nishi had to face all this nor Aarav! He provoked der peaceful lives!Though he didn't do anything intentionally, it was his irresponsible nature that lead to all this!
First of all,a 17yr old is not matured enough to enter this business thing.To establish a successful business,u need to get experience first,one doesn't simply get started like this!It was wise of ragini to ask him to complete his education first,and foolishness of N to encourage him!N CMG to India,gave aarav all dese hopes! Lyk mere papa ke paas paise hai so I can do it!He was actually expecting some financial support from N,uske directly bola hai,but N is least bothered abt dat! Bas kehdiya ki beta if u want smthng ask me!Kaise pochega,dad comes aftr 15yrs,ders no emotional attachment wid him,though nishi was attached to her father bachpan me aarav wasnt!How will he ask him?N shud sit and discuss wid him,BT no,he doesn't get to know anything till d end,Aarav end up wid wounds&gunde uske peche! N is completely responsiblw for this! R knew this wud end up smthng lyk dis&aarav shud have listened to her!Even in such
Shilpas matter,R ne aarav ko samjane ki koshish ki! R did everything she cud as a mother& also a father to some extent! I feel aaravs mess is bcoz of N! & leaving his son in dat situation,he is packed n parceled to US?what kind of a father is he? Parents get so worried for d smallest things in der kids lives,BT N? To satisfy his ego,he leaves everything n everyone apne haal pe and leaves! And his dialogue in one of d epi boiled mu blood..."bachon ke liye jithna b Karo kam hai" tune kiya kya haiii? Play videos games and provide dem dollars?dats it?
Now Nishi, she was 18&she wants to get married?Shes gone razy,dats clr! R ne phir samjane ki koshish ki,bt wid some wise advises frm brother,lover n sunny Thai,she called N! N ko kya hogaya?He shud have used some brains?I feel ki a girl or a boy is nt matured enuf to get married till 24! And R was wise to ask her to complete her studies,bcme independent, bcme matured enuf! Lekin nai,R ko ha bolne ko majboor kardiye sab milke&Nishi end up wid an unsuccesful marriage,commits suicide& is thrown on ragini to handle!N doesn't even bother wats happening in his kids lives! Not only the ones in India,BT I feel ki he doesn't bother the US ones too! Pam aagayi uske saath bachonko sambalne&behen pe thop diya sabko! He never tried to understand dem too!Providing dem wid money is not everything rite?I bet if Ranbier or aagam we in aaravs place,dey wud have been in d same mental situation! Dey have everything, except ma ka pyaar so aagam&suhani loves R so much!N ke hote hue b dey never felt der dads love too! Lyk smone menrioned, even I wud luv to see some probs in US kids lives too,and N end up Coming down to R,why always R is bothered abt everything? N is least bothered! He is the most irresponsible father I've ever seen on my life!
Now Ranbier!why did he carry a gun wid him?a licensed gun is provided only if d person has some threat frm smone rite? What threat does this idiot have?padai karra hai abhi! Uthna b bada nai hai! Y does he need a gun&How can N allow him to keep one?When questioned by R,den she doesn't even have a rite to! Ranbier is such a spoiled brat!I donno who is to be blamed for Ranbier!
Suhani too comes up wid a not frnd now!
Y always blame R for everything?she has actually done more Dan she shud always! Being strict was someone essential as she is a single parent wid no male head in d family! Yes she proved ki a male head is not needed,a women can manage everything!
I feel ki N is responsible for everything that has happened to der kids! Ha N &R ke MUs me both r equally blamed,bt for kids...only N is to b blamed!
Glad he came to India for nishi atleast now!

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: poetic


He is totally responsible.
He never allowed Ragini to interfere this much with his side of kids, but he really gave bad advice to both Nishi and Aarav. Maybe it was unintentional on his part, he wasn't the correct person to offer advice ,s since he himself was no way involved with his kids in US. But he did meddle which ended badly for these kids.

R was too strict with the kids I realise, and she chose to make decisions for them. That was more because she knew that she had to fulfil a Father's responsibilities as well. If R's own father had been alive, she could probably have let her guards down. But with no senior male member in the household, she had to step up to the situation which she did. She had her own set of problems, like any other human being.

Outside the court, N was not happy when R asked Ranbir what was he doing with the gun at the railway station? If he as the Father couldn't even tolerate the Mother asking the son a valid question, how could he then hide such big things about Aarav from R to begin with? The most mind boggling question - how did he not know that Aarav was the event planner for his roka, engagement and probably wedding, if it had happened?

Ragini takes the entire blame for the situation. Even now. In the recap, she tells N, who is unconscious, that it's her fault that Nishi's Father is not contacting with her. It's absurd.
How could a Father not call his daughter back?Especially when he knows her now? If it was after the 15 years hiatus, I would have understood. he was damn here for the wedding.


I feel the same...NK is to be blamed more...




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