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Isnt neil more responsible ??????? if we look at everything today ...he says he has just three kids ...after putting those two in biggest problems of life ...after leading them to those problems ...he has just backed out of his responsibility leaving everything on ragini ...what is her mistake to deserve this ????? she put her whole life for her kids and now she is seeing her kids trying killing themselves and neil enjoying with his share of kids ...buying chain of hospitals ...it is as if he came to take revenge on ragini ...to spoil her kid's life , so that she cannot live in peace ever ...the wayyy he is behaving ...15 years back , he couldn't set his priorities right ...lied to his wife about something ,he should have never lied ...stick to those lies ...blamed her for not trusting him after she saw him holding hands with his ex-girlfriend and him lying when she called ...never gave right explanations ...asked her to leave to mom house ...choose his friends baby over his babies and left her to suffer...divorced her ...but all i saw her before their uniting was ragini saying sorry sorry ...and him saying galti meri bhi thi...and that's it ...it was more his mistake ...any wife would have reacted that way ...and all she demanded was explanations...he could have done that anyway but he choose to divorce ..???? ...still cant forget those tears in ragini's eyes when pam was putting salt on her wounds saying nachiket took the right decision to divorce her ...and today ...he is again back to be that looser ...again blames her for everything in the world...and has broken ties with those children whom he put in trouble...who feel he is there superhero...couldn't digest that he didn't take nishi call...neither gave importance to the fact that ragini called when he guessed rightly it was raginiii...
And why in the world is he doing this ...because ragini said that he dont loves his children...is partial towards them...doesn't care ...wow isn't that great ?????...ragini said the same thing when they divorced ...than why the hell he tried showing concerns for nishi then...tab phek deta woh family photo why now ...what is kids mistake in all this ...today after being responsible of all this...he is easily backing out ...
A mother who put her whole life for her children...was not financially stable but did her best , work endlessly ...got her children admitted in best colleges /schools ...took loans for them...worked hard ...didn't even let her children know about her everyday struggles...that women childrennn...her children trying to kill themselves ...i cant even imagine what pain she must be going through ...and PK ...she justifies it to T...its her children who aren't able to fight back...but is she actually responsible for puttting them in such situations ???????? or it was their supercool dad whom they worship...??????
Nishi wanted to get married ...ragini denied...she knew that was not the right age , she was protective ...she fought with nishi , when lost there as she was adamant ...put an act in front of in laws so that they deny the marriage themselves even when she knew she would look wrong and will have to go through harsh comments for that...she did it ..."khud buri bani woh"...but wanted to save her daughter ...she wanted her daughter to stand on her feet so that she could fight the hardships in life ...achievements always help in building confidence ...she wanted her daughter to be independent first ...to study first...to be something in life first ...she saw immense love of jignesh and nishi but still couldnt agree to take such big risk...she knew her daughter was too small for marriage ...she wouldn't be able to handle ...she allowed but requested that that marriage will take place after 5 years...she was right...by that her daughter would have been independent ...would have been confident ...could have fought with hardships better...but ofcourse as at this age , its damn difficult to understand our parents ..nishi fought ..choose to call her dad...thought may be he could help , not realizing she is gonna hurt her mother too badly in this...she did that ...and the superdad who was not interested in kids for the last 15 years ...suddenly calls ragini...talks all the shit in the world , make her feel miserable ...ask her to get nishi married to the person of her choice so that "usse dobara call na karna pade "...dint even try understanding her reasons for saying no...that wasnt a discussion...she was told she has put her kids in a jail , a jail of her rules ...and they can't breath and what not and that too by a person whom she loved once...hated it...cried badly , couldn't believe her daughter did this...in ultimate despair and sadness ...agrees for the marriage ...and wow nishi is happy ...did neil ever asked reasons before ragini previous decision ????? was it actually ragini decision to get her daughter married at such a small age ...no it was that hurtful words which he spoke which lead her to agree to such a decision ...and that's how nishi got married...she as a mother again did everything ...was ready to sell her house for her daughter wedding as well...she did her level best to make it special for her daughter...now when she is getting married...she wanted her marriage to be a dream...decided n number of functions even knowing that she is financial crisis...but no...she had to do her best and yesss she succeded in that ...
and second issue , Arav loved shilpa...ragini got to know that ...explained him that he is too small for all that...tried to calm him down...talked to him aloneee...he decided to prove himself by doing business ...she knew he is too small for it ...interfered in between ...asked him/ordered him not to proceed in such a direction...first finish his studies...not letting him go that side /stopping him with all her force...catching his lies , being strict and alasss his dad came to his rescue and says let him do business if he is interested . No discussion nothing ...he supported aarav secretly as well...ragini was unaware , he kept her unaware . Ragini still tried , he said things supporting arav infront of ragini ...winning over Aravv..ragini tried to argue that she is worried but aarav nachiket become a team and he continued . She was scared if he loose at such stage , he will be broken . Its not his age for doing business and she was right but become helpless because super daddy cool was supporting ...she told nachiket "tum chale jaoge " as well...but alas he never listened . Aarav first project was nachiket wedding and nachiket was not aware of it...when he supported him in such a dangerous idea , how could he let himself be so unaware about it ...it was his wedding for which he had to take loan from outside and it was his fiancee who never returned the money he put into wedding . I have never seen wedding planners not getting money if wedding gets broken...and the people involved in wedding not knowing who is the wedding planner . That irresponsible was nachiket towards arav . Arav dint got any money ...landed into a biggg trouble...knew dad has money , may be he can help him...went to him with wounds for help...dint wanted mom to know as he know she was right and he was all wrong and she will be heartbroken...but it was nachiket's responsibility to tell...she told him even the small issue regarding ranbir as well...that was not life risking but he never cared to tell. Instead asked his wounded son to go in the mud house and went for dinner with ragini . What kind of father does that ??????? he was his son , all wounded...he should have cancelled the dinner ...get ragini in and they should have stayed with their son ...arranged for money ...kaise bhi...but no he was relaxed ...he didnt cared ...he was busy romancing with ragini...when ragini got madly worried ...he lied ...lied yet agin . In such a crucial situation . That bhai reached there , got arav loacation...instead of pleading that bhai or running to his child ...he told arav to run from there...was showing attitude to that bhai ...which ofcourse was a dangerouss thing . Ragini listened and got to know .They all rushed ...aarav was heartbroken...was not in sesnses at all...he was of that age ...that was what was bound to happen.That was what ragini feared . Ranbir comes ...who never loved shilpa ...suddenly decided to propose her...i still dont believe he ever loved shipla ..it was only to make arav fall in a miserable condition ..and on the top of it , ranibir .brought a gun along with him ...all the mess happens...the son accepts he was wrong and wish to kills himself ...shilpa dies in all this mess...arav gets jailed...ragini fires nachiket for doing this ...and he tries a bit...as her " mera ghar intezaar kar raha hain"...i mean "mera ghar "...and then happily moves to america ...without caring that the son is in jail...without ever trying to do anything for him...leaving a mother who was shattereddd...just because she said ...
Now you decide ...wasn't he much more responsible for this condition of kids than ragini herself...he took them to such a path ...why couldn't he be protective of them...and now when they are in a mess ...he left them on their own and living a happy life in america .And kids are dying here and so is ragini . She is bearing the burnt of things she never wanted . Kids got support in nachiket and thats why never listened to their mom ...taunted her , insulted her . But that's how most of kids are , they are most of the times unable to understand that what their mothers want is for their benefit . My heart goes to ragini and I fume seeing Neil all happy and not caring at all about his family in India when he himself is somehow the reason of them landing in such troubles .
