Isn't Neil Responsible More Than Ragini For Aarav And Nishi Condition - Page 2

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ms.S.K.

very well said TM and all the comments. Unfortunately we are lumbered with know it all NB.

oh ya i know this is a BT show...but this is different from the rest ...i always felt . But opinions are changing...thanks to the storyline . Hoping for somegood in next week as dr nachiketh khanna is back into miss ragini patel's life.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: zorrro

Agreed with the comments. ragini and Neil both had different set of values in life and that led to all the difference in POV that caused all the trouble. Moreover Ragini's children Nishi and Aarav come across as quite immature and somewhat selfish.

Yes ...completely agree with your first line ...their different set of values and their different way of thinking is setting them apart...they need to understand they need to think collectively if they wish to reunite. Its high time they act like parents of five kids . Yuppp but i still dont get how are the other set of kids mature ...ispam that good mother ????? i am always confused about the character pam...sometimes she sounds evelish...sometimes she is caring .i love her and rk scenes though ...but i am hating the fact that rk is no normal about saying no to the marriage promise he made to devika. If he loves pam so much...why has he said yes to devika in the first place. Marriage isnt a joke afterall...why playing with her emotions.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: EtherealRati

yup ...and he got angry aise hi...i mean common she was trying to say that as she asked him to move out of her life ...thus she isnt forcing ...she wasnt trying to prove that she was a good mother or he was a bad father . But he went on different path.


I guess the distance between them has embittered them so much that N couldn't think straight.

Of course, he should have thought about Nishi, if not about anything else.

As for RK, he should not be stringing Devika around, if he still cares for Pam and is waiting for her.

Why did he say YES to Devika then? She seems pretty innocent and it's not right to break her heart.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: poetic


I guess the distance between them has embittered them so much that N couldn't think straight.

Of course, he should have thought about Nishi, if not about anything else.

As for RK, he should not be stringing Devika around, if he still cares for Pam and is waiting for her.

Why did he say YES to Devika then? She seems pretty innocent and it's not right to break her heart.

exactly...their distances are the reason for that . Yup and thankfully he thought and came back for his daughter . I loved how ragini referred nishi as "tumhari beti" while describing her condition . It was like pleading him to be back for her .
Regarding rk...exactly...why is he doing this to devika . What has she done to deserve this ???if he doesnt love her and not willing to marry than why he said yes in the first place . Neither he was drunk nor she put him on a gun point . So why is it so simple for him to say to pam that if you say yes for marriage ...i will breakoff the marriage ...devika is seriously involved in all this and she will be the one heartbroken in the end ...if he want to wait ...wait for pam all your life but dont give wrong hopes to another innocent human being .
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I know, the Devika thing is so not done.
Why bring her into this entire mess and break her heart? Wonder who proposed to whom first?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: poetic

I know, the Devika thing is so not done.

Why bring her into this entire mess and break her heart? Wonder who proposed to whom first?

its devika who proposed ...they showed that but he should have simply said a no and told her that he loves someone else there and then instead of smsing her a yes ...thank you for the request . lol ...I like his and Pam interactions but this hurts that in all this mess ...bechari devika will be heartbroken .
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Oh ok. That sounds pretty hurtful. he should have simply said No.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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A really nice post EtherealRati
Yes N is more responsible for the mess Aarav and Nishi are in. When he landed in India and went to meet R he made it clear that he is going to honor the deal of "Tumhare Bacche and Mere Bacche".

Ragini did honor the deal, she never tried to interfere in Aagam / Ranbir, but he did in both the lives of Aarav and Nishi.

N was never an hands-on father to his set of kids, just gave them material things, thats what he did with Aarav, just gave him the money to do as his business. Pam was there for his set to give some guidance here Aarav ignored R. If Aarav had gone to R for some guidance instead of thinking he can do it all on his own he would not have landed in a mess.

Now why did Aarav not go to R, or why did Nishi not listen to her Mom reason of not marrying early. i feel that maybe R is too authoritative with them. They are not kids now but teenagers and you need to discuss calmly. R loses her cool very soon and get angry.

I hope now after the mess these 2 kids are in, coming out of it they will realize that their Mother was right, but i dont think so.

N should not have left Aarav and gone back, should have stayed away from R but tried to help Aarav. Just cutting ties with your kids is beyond my understanding. Its being shown that N has cut ties with Nishi and Aarav, but i find that here R also has cut ties with Aagam / Ranbir / Suhani, never once has it be shown that she misses any of them. N looked at the family pic, here R has not even done that, though i dont blame her as for her life is in too much turmoil right now.






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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: poetic

He is totally responsible.

He never allowed Ragini to interfere this much with his side of kids, but he really gave bad advice to both Nishi and Aarav. Maybe it was unintentional on his part, he wasn't the correct person to offer advice ,s since he himself was no way involved with his kids in US. But he did meddle which ended badly for these kids.

R was too strict with the kids I realise, and she chose to make decisions for them. That was more because she knew that she had to fulfil a Father's responsibilities as well. If R's own father had been alive, she could probably have let her guards down. But with no senior male member in the household, she had to step up to the situation which she did. She had her own set of problems, like any other human being.

Outside the court, N was not happy when R asked Ranbir what was he doing with the gun at the railway station? If he as the Father couldn't even tolerate the Mother asking the son a valid question, how could he then hide such big things about Aarav from R to begin with? The most mind boggling question - how did he not know that Aarav was the event planner for his roka, engagement and probably wedding, if it had happened?

Ragini takes the entire blame for the situation. Even now. In the recap, she tells N, who is unconscious, that it's her fault that Nishi's Father is not contacting with her. It's absurd.
How could a Father not call his daughter back?Especially when he knows her now? If it was after the 15 years hiatus, I would have understood. he was damn here for the wedding.

That also True... But I felt that Neil is mainly responsible at present.
Edited by aditya_anjaana - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: poetic

I know, the Devika thing is so not done.

Why bring her into this entire mess and break her heart? Wonder who proposed to whom first?

According to d track...devika said she herself proposed to RK first!

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