Why Not A Fighter

Originally posted by: iamcurious

The problem is the kids saw and picked up only the weakness from mother instead of learning from her strengths. They saw her failure in marriage but did not see why the failure and how she struggled through to it to bring them up. They saw her being strict and indifferent but did not see what made her that way.

Its what they saw and not shown. Its not their fault altogether, sometimes the children need to be shown what they cannot see or understand simply because of immaturity.

I remember initial episodes, Aman tried that once, he had this conversation with Nishi, how her mother struggled to give her and Arav a good life. The thing is such things should come from family and that is when it has its meaning.

I feel very sad both Arav and Nishi never respected all that Ragini did for them instead always complained how the father was not around to understand. Nothing wrong in their expectations but its equally unfair to be so biased to the parent who has brought you up all alone fighting all odds.

Originally posted by: Vidya_Bng

Yes... Infact d3c3nt ... Please start a new thread for this... it's very Imp to Know and understand

This discussion is needed ... Most of Us wants to Know , what Forced both of these kids to such an extreme step ???

Ragini Failed as a Mother ?? 😕

Because Nachiket's Share of kids are Bit Cool, Positive and full of life ...

Ragini's Kids are always Scared, Negative and not ready to face or challenge Life ...

Originally posted by: sun29

and not only one but both the kids...which is equal to impossible in any universe...how is that they are so disrespectful of everything ragini did...and hero worshiping a father who never was around and which was his conscious choice...am just waiting for aarav to come out of the prison and blame his mother for destroying his life too ..NB has made a complete mockery of single parents...it is like sending across a message that it is only money that matters...i could have understand if only one of them was inclined but showing both is like showing ragini as a complete failure as a mother and she needs neil to set things right...whereas ranbir who is a bigger mess gets away and gets rewarded without even a question asked...

and showing neil has caring a hoot about aarav in prison ...

Nivedita Basu in order to show drama has destroyed the relations and emotions to this extent that one doubts if anything can revive it back...

Originally posted by: visrom

I don't think in reality the kids would have been like this. This is fiction so they show it like that.

Only thing wrong with Ragini is that she was probably too strict with her kids and they were scared of opening up to her.

I remember in the first episode when Jignesh's parents came to see Neeshi Ragini had created a big scene asking for all the money she had spent on Neeshi's education. Why didn't Ragini try and explain things to Neeshi properly and why didn't Neeshi try to see her mom's POV? I feel at that point, Neeshi desperately wanted to get out of her mom's house.

Pam may be a vamp to us, but she is sweet to Ranbir, Agam and Suhaani.. That's the difference.

Pam gave this 'I am there for you' message, whereas Ragini gave this 'you have to survive on your own like me' attitude to her kids.

If you start a new thread, I'll repost this there.