Why Not A Fighter - Page 4

Originally posted by: iamcurious

Truly speaking they have just not understood what single parents actually are. Instead of showing a wrong message that such parents are failure both - in sustaining a relationship and bringing up children well they should have conveyed a message that they are equally capable and much stronger to live alone and that they don't really need a partner to live life or parent their children.

Today we see so many single parents around us. In fact women who aren't married for the longest time are opting to not just adopt children but are willing to go in for an IVF procedure to experience motherhood first hand.

Does showing all this encourage them? Forget encouragement, does all this even reflect the current "REAL" society we live in? 😆

I have seen other BT shows where they dealt with single parent issues so well and that is because it did not have expert inputs from lady in question. 😆

I frankly don't think that the credit goes to Nachiket for Aagam and Suhaani and blaime goes to Ragini for Nishi and Aarav.

Originally posted by: iamcurious

I understand that you understand but she doesn't understand that we understand all this and we want her to understand this.

Do you understand? 😆

Ok am off sorry for the stupidity.

Originally posted by: poetic

I would have ideally liked to see both N and R trying but not being able to fulfil the complete roles of the other. And that though the kids udnerstand them, yet they do carve for the other parent.

Something like that.

Originally posted by: d3c3nt

I agree.

Bold: that is the point, did kids really think that they could talk to her. Nishi just recently blamed R for Aarav being in Jail, cause she felt he went to Dad for help as he felt he could not talk to her or come to her.

Sometimes it is very necessary to show that feeling of openness to your kids that they can come to you for anything.

Nb can show whatever she wants too but the truth us that both of them are worst parents and their divorce has effected kids big way someway or other.

It is the nature of children that whatever mother does it is treated as duty and whatever father does will be treated as love. Even though all requirements are fulfilled by Mother it is always fathers love they expect. Thats the sentiment of children.

Also if any problem arises with Ranbir, Aagam and Syhani,will Ragini will go to US for them? No way.

Under contract ... We never got to know whether this was legally decided upon or just a stupid decision made by them.

Yes they had their differences and misunderstandings but then why punish the kids for your own mistakes? Poor kids were the victim of something which they had no control on! As parents, They can see the outcome of it now ...

Pavan,