Aman: stupid, naive or shrewd?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Why do I feel Aman is not as dim and brainless as it's thought of him but rather too sharp. He wants someone as his wife who doesn't feel the same for him but he waits for an opportunity to attack and he does at the very first one. He's smart enough to realize this has to be his best chance as she is vulnerable, alone and emotionally disturbed.

Secondly he claims to love her but he's not a fool to be unable to see Ragini is not happy with him yet he is forcing himself on her only because he WANTS her. Where is he thinking about Ragini's happiness which he knows he is not but Nachiket? He can even try to make things better for them? He can try to make Ragini understand if he feels she is wrong? But he won't do all that because that will get in his own way of getting Ragini. He can not care she will not be happy with him after marrying him, at least he will get her for himself and that's enough to make his own selfish self happy and satisfied. Nachiket once had asked Pam to be nice to Aman only because Ragini wanted that. So much for Ragini's happiness even if the very thought of her being married to Aman was killing him. I'm sure he was not expecting anything from her in return but doing it for her sake. And this sly man is doing all what he does for her only because one day she will marry him for all those favors. He can even be there for her and take care of her as he wants to without being her husband but then what will he be getting in return nothing much.

And why is he getting so physical with her already? Been just 2 episodes post leap and he is making me sick. Always found him to be a creep and he proves me right. look at his desperation to marry her. Why is Aman behaving like a hungry dog that after lots of searching has finally smelled food around and now cannot wait to get its hands on it.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well said Filza!

You are definitely not the only one who thinks like this.
To be honest, Dr. Aman was okay pre leap. Matlab, yes at times he could really push himself on her and his dependency on Ragini was also not very manly like. However, he was a far more better friend for Ragini in comparison to Karan, Dimpy and RK for Nachiket.

BUT!

Post leap, this man is getting on my nerves. It all started with mouthing more or less the same dialogues as Nachiket (Sunny Tai's dream). Then, to make things worse, he openly and directly asked Ragini to marry him ASAP. Like seriously dude, where are your feelings for her now? Dost aise karte hai kya?

First of all, you know Ragini does not love you and will never do so. Second, she is compromising big time aur uppar se Nishi clearly stated that you can never become her father, so don't try to act like on.
Yes, your love for Ragini is very much clear and we can see that. One sided love hurts but aren't you a friend first? He should have decided whether to stick with Ragini as a friend (and control his feelings) or to end the friendship when she had rejected his proposal (in order to ''protect'' himself and her).
But no, he chose to be around her 24x7 and get himself and her in a relationship which will kill her first.

It is so annoying and irritating to see a male friend being so pushy and needy for a relationship when it is so clear that the lady in question isn't doing this out of love.

Wasn't love supposed to be selfless...???


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Mark my words this is just the begining.Once Neil enters he will touch her delibrately ,infront of him becoz now he is engaged and will show that he has full rights on her.I never liked him since day 1 and he is becoming worse than Nivedita post leap.

He want to upload that selfie at insta,thats exactly what he said day before yesterday.

Neira will go through lots of emotional pain once they come face to face not just because of what happened 9 months ago and the bitterness of that,along with it Langoor will show his haq on her and she wont be able to say anything too as she committed.

I have a fear,we need to mute Pam scenes as well as Langoors once Nachiket is back in India.

Even in that Sbs segment ,i ddint felt Neil is jealous,but i felt he is heart broken and if you see clearly the expressions of Ragini in the car says the same.

Whats more,he changed his dress style and copying Nachiketh post leap.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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He is gonna be negative.. I see signs of it. No normal, good man in his right mind propose to Ragini knowing that she is madly in love w another man. Rishabh Bajaj loved Prerna but he knew he was negative, he changed for Prerna. But this guy is gonna become negative from positive for Ragini.

I just hope that later on they don't show that it was Ragini who proposed to Chamanlal
His love is just a fail. I agree w pavan da he is gonna touch Ragini and Nzchiket should remain calm and just let his Ragini carry on - it was her choice.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Oh no Pavan, he better get not touchy with her... Eww, keep your hands off her!
what kind of man is he if he forces himself on Ragini ?! 🤢
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: metoyou

Oh no Pavan, he better get not touchy with her... Eww, keep your hands off her!
what kind of man is he if he forces himself on Ragini ?! 🤢



He touched her delibrately for that selfie,he is a gone case,will soon go to mental asylum.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: RonitPallaviNR

He is gonna be negative.. I see signs of it. No normal, good man in his right mind propose to Ragini knowing that she is madly in love w another man. Rishabh Bajaj loved Prerna but he knew he was negative, he changed for Prerna. But this guy is gonna become negative from positive for Ragini.

I just hope that later on they don't show that it was Ragini who proposed to Chamanlal
His love is just a fail. I agree w pavan da he is gonna touch Ragini and Nzchiket should remain calm and just let his Ragini carry on - it was her choice.



Yes samz,but but

Rishabh Bajaj kaha yeh Langoor kaha?

Langoor has no personality.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: goldstar678



He touched her delibrately for that selfie,he is a gone case,will soon go to mental asylum.


Yup .. Just like what FL2 was doing .. But Ragini is not Neil ... So she'll oblige to whatever Langoor wants or does to her .. no matter in front of anyone or everyone ..

I want him to kiss her in front of Neil and the children .. 😃
Edited by BlueMoon8 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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See, I have been saying this from Day one. I hated him. Good friends are not like this. I didn't like him pre leap, I don't want to look at his sick face post leap. However, I do know if I watch any episodes now, I will have to watch him. I haven't watched the last 2 episodes,, so I managed.
He is a sly person. He doesn't care for Ragini's happiness and feelings at all. If he had been a good friend, he wouldn't have taken advantage of Ragini. He is always around her, suffocating her, clouding her. I am not covering up for Ragini's mistakes, but I just hate Aman to the core.

Sad but true, FL2 was much better in this respect.

Pre leap, during the fake drama thing, Chamanlal has enjoyed himself to the fullest. If being with N was such a pain or him, he could have always excused himself from the situation, which he didn't. A loser character to the core.

I do not, even for a single minute, agree to the fact that R played with his emotions. Langoor is no kid - if he believed what was happening is wrong, he should have told Ragini so.

I am so sick of him, that the post leaps are like a horror to me.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: BlueMoon8


Yup .. Just like what FL2 was doing .. But Ragini is not Neil ... So she'll oblige to whatever Langoor wants or does to her .. no matter in front of anyone or everyone ..

I want him to kiss her in front of Neil and the children .. 😃


@ Bold - 💔

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