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Posted: 10 years ago
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I don't understand why Ragini is telling Aarav that she will not let him have his own way after Nishi.
I don't understand that part. Nishi and Jignesh were in love. and they got married.

Aarav wants to marry Shilpa . First thing he is too young. and then Shilpa herself is in love with Ranbeer. It is her own choice. That being the case what can Ragini do in the matter? Can she get Shilpa married to Aarav or at least engaged?

Why do not the Indian audience think that marriage or "love" is not one sided or the boy's wish or whether he was friends with the girl first or even whether the other boy is faking his love.

Even whatever it may be still Shilpa's wish is her wish. Nobody can compel Shilpa to marry Aarav or be his girlfriend . Least of all Ragini

Ragini need not say that she will not let him have his whims and fancies. She can just say that Shilpa loves somebody else.

So what Aarav knows Shilpa before? Does that give him any right over her as a human being? Even if he was married to Shilpa or engaged even then it does not give him any right over Shilpa. She has the right to choose.

I hope Ragini makes Aarav understand that he cannot do anything about Shilpa getting led on by Ranbeer and even she Ragini cannot do anything about it.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I completely agree with you.

It seems Aarav is madly in love with Shilpa. He feels that Ragini is someone who is greatly respected by Shilpa and has a lot of influence over her. Aarav probably wants Ragini to talk to Shilpa and convince her that Aarav is the most suitable choice for her.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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She knows that shilpa is respecting her very much but she thinks that shilpa is not her daughter then why she force to do marry with aarav so she think is not fair to force shilpa and she's right

So how aarav think that and being naughty and angry with her mother.

And aarav is so madly for shilpa and I know he do sucide atempt once a more time.

, Btw ragini knows that ranbir loves shilpa or vise versa ??

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I would love to know what actually ragini taught her kids...they are rude...arrogant and materialistic...getting married at a very young age when they don't know the meaning of marriage...its stupid actually...aarav is just 17 yrs old...at this age studies...sports activities...ambition of future...build up for career should come into his mind rather than love and marriage...at this age teen crush...infatuation does happen...its part and parcel of that certain age...but to such extend of marriage and love...it shows how immature aarav is...
thank god...though pam took care of ranbir-agam-suhani...and neil being absent as a father for them...the 3 kids are brought up so well...ranbir is a little screw up...but he values his family and siblings first and very protective abt them...lets keep the accident issue aside...than he thinks abt himself...marriage...love is not in the mind of the kids...agam loves to fool around and enjoy life to the fullest...suhani loves to study...ranbir is responsible as a elder brother for his siblings...very well-mannered...polite and well-cultured...ranbir hates ragini...he has his reason...but with others...he is polite...should give credit to pam...good upbringing of the 3 kids...the 3 kids does what normal kids at their age does...nishi-aarav are simply disappointing...

lastly...i completely agree with you...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yes you are right ranbir he is very polite and he asamed in his faults and I know he Is love ragini very much but the fake badness of ragini pam full in his mind and he is very polite because Neil care , not Pam the villain , I know he loves shilpa but he is not hurry to marry with shilpa.😊

And agham is interested in fun and enjoying life and he is so nice too , suhani she is not interest in love she is only interest in mother love and she is suffering for do this.

But nishi-aarav they both hurry for marriage first nishi hurry for marry and then she realize.

I think when Suhani track finish then ranbir and ragini bond track will start.
Edited by shanaya953 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mages

I would love to know what actually ragini taught her kids...they are rude...arrogant and materialistic...getting married at a very young age when they don't know the meaning of marriage...its stupid actually...aarav is just 17 yrs old...at this age studies...sports activities...ambition of future...build up for career should come into his mind rather than love and marriage...at this age teen crush...infatuation does happen...its part and parcel of that certain age...but to such extend of marriage and love...it shows how immature aarav is...

thank god...though pam took care of ranbir-agam-suhani...and neil being absent as a father for them...the 3 kids are brought up so well...ranbir is a little screw up...but he values his family and siblings first and very protective abt them...lets keep the accident issue aside...than he thinks abt himself...marriage...love is not in the mind of the kids...agam loves to fool around and enjoy life to the fullest...suhani loves to study...ranbir is responsible as a elder brother for his siblings...very well-mannered...polite and well-cultured...ranbir hates ragini...he has his reason...but with others...he is polite...should give credit to pam...good upbringing of the 3 kids...the 3 kids does what normal kids at their age does...nishi-aarav are simply disappointing...

lastly...i completely agree with you...


Mages agree with you.

I feel kids of single mothers are more responsible and mature, as they see their mother's efforts and hard work in bringing them up. Here i see just the opposite in Nishi and Aarav.

Aagam, Suhani and Ranbir on the other hand are more balanced and act their age.

Someone should make Aarav understand that Shilpa does not love him, she is in love with Ranbir, and he has heard it from her own self, so now he must let go of Shilpa. Maybe when Ranbir hurts her she will come back to Aarav.

Maybe they are showing too much of Aarav / Shilpa / Ranbir to create more tension between Nachiket and Ragini.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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SO this triangle is next bone of contention between the two sets of estranged families.
Aarav's feelings are alright, but what he is not realising is that Shilpa has made the choice herself. It's true that he probably realises that Ranbir is simply fooling around. But he should understand that even if that is the truth, this is no age to marry.

How is is he? 16 only? Shilpa seems to be older than him, anyway, but that is not the point of contention.

Ragini did not say that she will not let Aarav marry for love, she just wanted to make it a point that he doesn't rush headlong into this mess.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I would not say Pam has done a good job at all with Ranbir, the boy is rude and disrespectful, lies and is now conniving against his own brother in an attempt to hurt his mother, with Pam's blessing. I hope it back fires on him and Pam big time.
Yes, Nishi acted spoilt the first few episodes, she seems to have changed course midstream. Aarav was rude that instance of the birthday party but other than that the kid has been a normal 16/17 year old. Aagam is a sweetheart. Suhani seems to be a doll though she seems to have a temperament of her own if we go by the recent conversations about her disappearing from home in the past when she is upset is to be taken seriously.

Kids raised with love tend to act spoilt and selfish with their parents (not excusing Nishi's earlier brattiness or Aarav's outburst) more so than kids who are raised by a dad with his emotions bottled up and a surrogate mom/aunt ago does nothing but spew evil against their mom. Aagam and Suhani both yearn for love, and Ranbir too, to give him the benefit of the doubt, is probably acting under an abandoned child syndrome.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mages

I would love to know what actually ragini taught her kids...they are rude...arrogant and materialistic...getting married at a very young age when they don't know the meaning of marriage...its stupid actually...aarav is just 17 yrs old...at this age studies...sports activities...ambition of future...build up for career should come into his mind rather than love and marriage...at this age teen crush...infatuation does happen...its part and parcel of that certain age...but to such extend of marriage and love...it shows how immature aarav is...

thank god...though pam took care of ranbir-agam-suhani...and neil being absent as a father for them...the 3 kids are brought up so well...ranbir is a little screw up...but he values his family and siblings first and very protective abt them...lets keep the accident issue aside...than he thinks abt himself...marriage...love is not in the mind of the kids...agam loves to fool around and enjoy life to the fullest...suhani loves to study...ranbir is responsible as a elder brother for his siblings...very well-mannered...polite and well-cultured...ranbir hates ragini...he has his reason...but with others...he is polite...should give credit to pam...good upbringing of the 3 kids...the 3 kids does what normal kids at their age does...nishi-aarav are simply disappointing...

lastly...i completely agree with you...



Totally agree with you, wonder what Ragini taught her kids, love and marriage what an 🤢🤢 these kids are. She couldn't give good sanskar to them and on the other hand Pam has brought up the kids very well 👏👏. A boy of 16 not even an adult wants to get married to a girl who does not love him. this is pathetic, what are the cvs showing to the audience. The funny part was Nishi crying on her bidai for her mom whom she was so against. From the looks of her sasural people it seems she is going to have a tough time there.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

I would not say Pam has done a good job at all with Ranbir, the boy is rude and disrespectful, lies and is now conniving against his own brother in an attempt to hurt his mother, with Pam's blessing. I hope it back fires on him and Pam big time.
Yes, Nishi acted spoilt the first few episodes, she seems to have changed course midstream. Aarav was rude that instance of the birthday party but other than that the kid has been a normal 16/17 year old. Aagam is a sweetheart. Suhani seems to be a doll though she seems to have a temperament of her own if we go by the recent conversations about her disappearing from home in the past when she is upset is to be taken seriously.

Kids raised with love tend to act spoilt and selfish with their parents (not excusing Nishi's earlier brattiness or Aarav's outburst) more so than kids who are raised by a dad with his emotions bottled up and a surrogate mom/aunt ago does nothing but spew evil against their mom. Aagam and Suhani both yearn for love, and Ranbir too, to give him the benefit of the doubt, is probably acting under an abandoned child syndrome.


Absolutely. I wonder how Ranbir's upbringing can be seen as proper when all he is doing is being spiteful - not only trying to hurt his Mother, but also hurt his own brother. A brother who is of the same age as Aagam, and who is absolutely not at fault for this separation.


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