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Posted: 10 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1
I would not say Pam has done a good job at all with Ranbir, the boy is rude and disrespectful, lies and is now conniving against his own brother in an attempt to hurt his mother, with Pam's blessing. I hope it back fires on him and Pam big time.
Yes, Nishi acted spoilt the first few episodes, she seems to have changed course midstream. Aarav was rude that instance of the birthday party but other than that the kid has been a normal 16/17 year old. Aagam is a sweetheart. Suhani seems to be a doll though she seems to have a temperament of her own if we go by the recent conversations about her disappearing from home in the past when she is upset is to be taken seriously.

Kids raised with love tend to act spoilt and selfish with their parents (not excusing Nishi's earlier brattiness or Aarav's outburst) more so than kids who are raised by a dad with his emotions bottled up and a surrogate mom/aunt ago does nothing but spew evil against their mom. Aagam and Suhani both yearn for love, and Ranbir too, to give him the benefit of the doubt, is probably acting under an abandoned child syndrome.

I absolutely agree! Ranbir is Rude, Disrespectful - Period. I do not know whether he loves Shilpa or not - for I have still not seen any genuine feelings at all. Even if he has - he is definitely showing it off to Aarav and not for any good reason at all. In my opinion if he really liked Shilpa - he would have had no reason to bother his younger brother with flimsy ways to attract his attention. I despise the attitude. At least I can say one thing, Nishi and Aarav do not want to intentionally (being here the main focus) hurt either of their siblings. Ranbir - be it the accident case or now - he is just being an spoilt, arrogant brat.

I did not like Nishi in starting too - but she has changed her ways and I liked that. I could imagine that she was madly in love with Jignesh and she wanted her way - and hence she acted the way she did. Same goes for Aarav. He is being unreasonable because he is in love (so he thinks). Yes he is 17 - and he should not be thinking about marriage - but that does not reflect on his upbringing. That reflects his insecurity of losing the love of his life to Ranbir. I think Ragini has done a good job with her kids. If she does refuse to support Aarav - I would totally understand.

Aagam and Suhani are sweet people but lets also remember they are completely not in control of Pam. Sure Pam has raised them - but the influence that Pam has on Ranbir - is incomparable to what she has on Aagam and Suhani - and that is why they crave for Ragini.

I loved your last paragraph! :)

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pyaaribehna

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Posted: 10 years ago

#12

May be Ranbeer is faking it . May be he is not faking it. we do not know. whatever it is is of no consequence.

But what Aarav is doing that is what I am talking about. Aarav is doing wrong. He thinks Shilpa is proposing to Ranbeer only because Ranbeer is there otherwise Shilpa will be will with him Aarav.

Also Aarav thinks Ragini can do something to fix Shilpa as his girlfriend using her influence.

Which is not true. May be marriages can be fixed using influence. But girlfriends cannot be fixed using mother's influence.

Also even if Shilpa is making mistake it is up to her. If ranbeer is not there does not mean she will consider Aarav.

Aarav is only thinking of his likes and dislikes does not think that he cannot proceed in this direction.

Whatever relationship he has with Shilpa is what he has. Nothing more.

Throwing tantrums worse still asking his father to help him start a business abandoning studies these are disgraceful things to do.

he is a spoilt kid. selfish and opportunist.

Edited by pyaaribehna - 10 years ago