INSECURITY....divorce reason

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Posted: 10 years ago
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according to nivedita ragini was insecure and blamed nachiket for having some kind of affaire i guess with rupali..
is this the only reason??? just cz of insecurity filing for divorce seems impossible...it has to be something other than this as well...

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Posted: 10 years ago
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She's also responsible for Rupali's death I think..
must be the culmination of one big misunderstanding!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I will never say insecurity can be the only reason for the divorce. In a husband and wife's relationship - the fault is always from both the sides unless of course it is physical abuse. If Ragini was insecure, it was her misunderstanding - though if my husband was anything like Neil, I sure would be insecure too. For me, Jealousy is love. Trust is a different issue all together. If Neil does believe that Ragini has a habit of putting down men in her life (like he thinks she does with Aman) then he is wrong too. They both have their faults and they both have their positives - that is what makes them adorable.

On the other side, I have a strong feeling, Pam is the one who is responsible for all the misunderstanding. She is hell bent on not letting the two together. Whatever the reasons may be, it is very clear that Neil and Ragini love each other and that is why they have not moved on. Insecurity is a very small reason for divorce - it is something that can be resolved through compromise. There has to be a bigger reason.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: --Anna--

I will never say insecurity can be the only reason for the divorce. In a husband and wife's relationship - the fault is always from both the sides unless of course it is physical abuse. If Ragini was insecure, it was her misunderstanding - though if my husband was anything like Neil, I sure would be insecure too. If Neil does believe that Ragini has a habit of putting down men in her life (like he thinks she does with Aman) then he is wrong too. They both have their faults and they both have their positives - that is what makes them adorable.


On the other side, I have a strong feeling, Pam is the one who is responsible for all the misunderstanding. She is hell bent on not letting the two together. Whatever the reasons may be, it is very clear that Neil and Ragini love each other and that is why they have not moved on. Insecurity is a very small reason for divorce - it is something that can be resolved through compromise. There has to be a bigger reason.


The death has to be the reason..
Pam must have created misunderstanding around it.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Insecurity may have been there...but the actual reason has to be bigger. We'll have to wait and watch! 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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insecurity...jealousy...tiff...fights...are minor reason for Neira to take the decision of divorcing each other...
even if suhani is the reason whom is not Neira's biological daughter...ragini MU as neil's illicit relationship result...to prove her wrong and being a doctor himself...he can do a DNA test and prove ragini wrong...that will be a slap on her face for suspecting his character...

it has to be something deep and bigger happened b/w Neira that lead them to divorce...my bet is on roopali's death...since during Neira's confrontation abt shilpa's issue...neil angrily mention abt how the cause of their divorce was due to someone's death...i feel its becos of roopali's death...neil held himself responsible for her death due to his wife suspicion nature
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Pam...she did something and it worked to separate Neira all these years...plain and simple
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Neil right from the beginning has shown signs of being angry and heart broken about being distrusted he even once said that women never trust their husbands. And ragini shows signs of insecurities and even said that men make you fall in love with then and break your heart by deceiving you. And further ragini has on many occasions had blamed or misjudged neil and has this image of him as a wrongdoer and untrustworthy.And neil has said something on the lines of dont you remember the reason i divorced you, dont you remember the woman who died becuz of you or something like that ane ragini always looks guilty when he mentions that. And ragini has said several times that whenever she used to question him about something he always had a ready made answer, i didnt know about it.

Considering all these points u can assume that ragini probably wrongly suspected and blamed neil to have an affair with the woman who died but she probably did not distrust him instantly cuz they loved each other deeply and madly and to top it all were married and love comes with trust, its intertwined and as ragini says "u always had the readymade answer, i didnt know about it" we can say that a sequence of suspicious and troubling events and ragini's judging by the book by the cover nature + like in all ekta dramas some thirdwheels who deliberately tried to create misunderstandings ( this could have very well been the woman who died herself or maybe niveditha who might have also fuelled pam against ragini 🤔 ) + neil's readymade answer might have increased the misunderstandings and the gap between the couple and ultimately the woman who was accused of having an affair with neil died and somehow ragini was involved with that or maybe if the woman was good but i highly doubt that, she could have committed suicide cuz of the accusation and maybe that got neil to give ragini a divorce once again probably fuelled by a thirdwheel, maybe pam and they got divorced without them sorting out any of their misunderstandings so to this date ragini feels he broke her heart by deceiving her and then leaving her and neil thinks that ragini never trusted him
Edited by zainabawoon - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Pam is involved for obivious reasons but I think to some extent even Nivedita is involved in this divorce drama. Jealousy and Insecurity is very minor and NR know each other's weaknesses as they purposely instigate each other using it.. the reason is bigger and deeper.. Rupali's death I am assuming for which Ragini is guilty.. Kuch Toh gadbad hai

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