Originally posted by: aati1429
but what he is telling pam, he is not showing same to his kids. How can one be so insensitive to kids feelings. atleast Ragini welcomed Agam with open arms!!
I think Neil is hardening himself also because of Ragini as he thinks she is married and that is adding to his behaviour and insensitivity to Aarav.
Yes, Neil or Neel is not disclosing his emotions to his children.
He realises that they crave for his love and affection and that they also probably seeks some sort of acknowledgement. But again, there is this ugly divorce between the parents and the conditions attached. He cannot show Ragini that he too is succumbing to his feelings towards his children - in fact, it's an emotional roller coaster ride for both Neil and Ragini right now.
And God, yes, their constant bickering does indeed make their relationship interesting. They have probably loved each other too much - too much for their own comfort and well being, and that love is like a festering, open wound which refuses to scar even. It is often said that the opposite of love is hate. In case, somebody falls out of love, they become indifferent. And whatever it is, neither Ragini nor Neil are indifferent to each other.
After the separation both needed to heal, but they probably concentrated their entirety to the well being of their children. Hence, they never got healed. The pain, loneliness and anger thus keeps on rearing it's ugly head whenever they are in each other's presence.
