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Originally posted by: Learrntowrite

Tashi you manage to capture in a better way what I was trying to say ♥️♥️♥️🥰 Yes, I absolutely forgot about the part where Khushi was so happy coming back from Lucknow 💔💔

to think of it, had the Lavanya episode not happened, Arnav’s notion that Khushi is not happy with him would have gone away because she was so excited and happy that even the family didn’t want to pressure Arnav anymore. Things could have gone okay just like she thought because Arnav really is emotional about getting his parents in Mumbai with him. 💔💔💔

this makes me so mad at Lavanya for showing up and lying that day. Bloody b*tch ruined everything. Both my babies suffered so much because of her. They were finally on the verge of solving all their problems. Khushi was reaching out despite the hurt and Arnav would have figured out he always mattered more. Even ultimately to his parents who just wanted their son back now at this age. I hate her sooooooo much 😭😭😭😭🤬🤬🤬🤬

I guess we both are bipolar 🙈🙈

Or may be there are no sides, it’s just sad that they have to go through this.

Originally posted by: Arilip

I think he said lunatic about the divorce because he thought after all this there was no way back to her. Also he never decided on divorce, he was contemplating that’s what he told aakash but same night they ended up kissing. He stayed in the party because this contemplation itself was too painful for him.
And if lunatic didn’t happen we wouldn’t have story to read.😊

And I already wrote in my comment that his guilt made him disclose about his decision of divorce to the lunatic team.

But things he actually did out of his guilt are the things which have caused khushi more hurt and which in turn are going to increase his guilt.

Hopefully they forgive themselves and try to save what is more important rather than just wallowing in guilt.

Originally posted by: Arilip

I agree to what you said in the whole post but here’s what I think. Khushi behaving normally!!!! Things weren’t normal between them!!! In those four months khushi saw the half hearted Arnav, still she didn’t realise that what she hoped is not going to happen. Things will never be normal between them, this was the time for her decision, she also took the cowards way of pretending all is normal between them. She almost had decided while holding Leher that she will be happy to have her nieces and nephews around her enjoy but she still went ahead with Arnav’s decision for the baby. So no she didn’t decide not going for baby during nov/ dec. She was using those four months to get her Arnav back!! As good as the thought was it played a huge deterrent . Hope is a big thing and I am not saying she was wrong in hoping she had all the rights. But this hope had put enormous pressure on Arnav, think about the guilt of not being able to do that comes to humans naturally… no wonder he thought he didn’t love her anymore. It takes a lot of courage to let the one you love the most go.
khushi though wasn’t wrong in trying to bring the relationship back but her way was completely wrong. Unfortunately that backfired. And the cooling period was when khushi wanted her Arnav back but couldn’t tell him and Arnav wanted to call quits so she can have fuller life.

I absolutely understand Arnav’s pov. Heck I have been fighting over here in this comment section for the same. I am team Arnav through and through but he does need some work. Only communication. He feels trapped and he feels guilty. Whatever decisions he took were taken with Khushi’s best interest in place. I am rooting for him!!! He loves Khushi A LOTTTT! He doesn’t deserve what he went through.

But he did shut her off and assume things. I am ONLY blaming him for creating this gap between them. And instead of my assumptions I am using writer’s words here. I am taking them on face value. I don’t get to say what could have happened when writer is telling me what actually happened, she gave us Arnav’s pov but she gave us Khushi’s too.

First of all, Arnav walked out of the first time she even brought it up. She said it’s news to her which meant she had no idea. The baby issue is so big to Arnav he doesn’t even see who started a fight before punishing Khushi (his mom said something on the phone and he walked out on Khushi)

also, Khushi absolutely did want a child at that moment when Arnav said yes. She wanted him back first but she did think until he’s ready. She was making things normal not by pretending but wanting to spend time with him. Where does it say she was pretending when around leher’s delivery, she is shaken by Arnav’s sudden decision to go incommunicado for a whole week. Which has never happened before. She was terrified. and then I think it has been said enough times that she kept asking and asking and trying to talk and he kept sending her away. This has gone on for a year.


Think from Khushi’s perspective too. Your marriage is going fine and your loving husband gets up one day and decide that the most troubling issue between the two of you doesn’t require a discussion and shuts himself off. Goes to the limit of telling her that she was stressing him out by trying to talk and waiting for him in the bedroom. That must sting and her love is beyond imagination that she isn’t bitter to him about it. She’s a human. She has self respect. Even then it’s always her making the efforts to reach out.

She loved him enough to keep up her efforts for a year. That is INSANE. imagine doing it for someone who is deserting yiu every other night and not get bitter about it. Arnav said she did not create a fuss whenever he came back. She literally did love him that much. She’s happy about the prospect of niece and nephews because in her near future, her own child is a question mark. Why would she think of that?

She had to guess everything and arrive at the conclusion because Arnav didn’t talk. I’m impatiently waiting for his reasons because it had made him hurt Khushi who I’m sure he loves a lot. More than he understood.

I’m taking author on her words and believing both Arnav and Khushi when they look back at the whole year. Khushi trying and fighting and reaching out and Arnav retreating into a shell. This has been confirmed by both characters.

As I quoted, pill episode only made Arnav realise he didn’t want kids. In fact that was the only time he was least guilty because he was finally taking the step for Khushi. The only guilt was his absolute relief when she didn’t get pregnant.

They both need dr Meera and her therapy. 🤣

Originally posted by: Pujakrishna

She ofcourse needs to after all that she put us through for 3 months straight with the illusion of it being a story on infidelity.

GODDDDDD can't believe i suffered soooo much thinking of it all as infidelity, an affair and what not. I feel bad for myself man, the amount of tears i have shed, sleepless nights, crying in the middle of my AD, in middle of my exam, in middle of a class full of audiences, getting dark circles even UFFFFF. 🙆‍♀️

I was literally mind f cked and heart f cked.

This is arpita's redemption now 😈

She needs to tie all the loose ends now that she so cleverly put for making us belief that it was indeed an affair.. 😂😂

YOU ARE VERY CHALAK BRO, CHALAK BRO CHAALAAK. 🤣

IKR..the reason i started commenting was this that i was not able to wrap my head around the cheating Arnav. i said that so many times. i think Puja we bonded on this thing only.i was thinking about the story day in day out because of the why Arnav cheated..

GOD those 3 months were bad. Now though i am looking forward to their resurgence i am relived that at least his character is preserved and he has not gone over to darkness completely

i am with Ari here. The Pill episode didnt sit well with me too. Yes arnav felt relief the moment khushi used to tell him that she is not pregnant but imagine the guilt rearing in his head immediately. The guilt must have been doubled during that period first because he didnt want kids and second because he was relieved about it.

The second point of khushi i didnt really like was when her father in law basically called arnav coward. After everything the family had put him though he was taunting him and khushi didnt react. Very politely she should have reminded them of what all arnav had to let go for the family.

In both the cases i understand her love for arnav, her need to build the relation again before trying for baby, her upbringing where u dont talk back to elders etc and i am ok with that. But we generally dont give that same understanding to Arnav. He was also conditioned to solve every problem that they faced. He was conditioned to protect khushi and keep her happy. That's why it might feel as if he has taken those decisions but now we know he hadnt and he wanted to discuss.

We expect everything to be done by him. No he is not right and he has a lot to atone for but we have to agree that they both slipped up here. Arnav to the larger extent yes but khushi too imo. Does she deserve to go through the pain because of it. NO Absolutely NOT. but so did Arnav.

Arpita had moved me from team khushi to team Arshi now successfully

Originally posted by: Ashviniv

i am with Ari here. The Pill episode didnt sit well with me too. Yes arnav felt relief the moment khushi used to tell him that she is not pregnant but imagine the guilt rearing in his head immediately. The guilt must have been doubled during that period first because he didnt want kids and second because he was relieved about it.

The second point of khushi i didnt really like was when her father in law basically called arnav coward. After everything the family had put him though he was taunting him and khushi didnt react. Very politely she should have reminded them of what all arnav had to let go for the family.

In both the cases i understand her love for arnav, her need to build the relation again before trying for baby, her upbringing where u dont talk back to elders etc and i am ok with that. But we generally dont give that same understanding to Arnav. He was also conditioned to solve every problem that they faced. He was conditioned to protect khushi and keep her happy. That's why it might feel as if he has taken those decisions but now we know he hadnt and he wanted to discuss.

We expect everything to be done by him. No he is not right and he has a lot to atone for but we have to agree that they both slipped up here. Arnav to the larger extent yes but khushi too imo. Does she deserve to go through the pain because of it. NO Absolutely NOT. but so did Arnav.

Arpita had moved me from team khushi to team Arshi now successfully

I don’t expect everything to be done by him. Not at all. He has done too much for people all his life. He needs rest. He needs to relax.

As I said in numerous of my commutes, unlike everyone who thinks their relationship is not balanced, I am a HUGE believer THAT THEY ARE PERFECT FOR EACH OTHER.

imagine Arnav, a man who thinks he always needs to keep doing things and making himself useful for people all the time. And then there’s Khushi who says all you need to do is exist and I’ll love you as is. She is terrified with his behaviour and still, during leher’s birth she tells him that he doesn’t need to run around. That the friends only needed his presence and nothing else. Maybe this is why she was his anchor and he felt safe. Thinking not all can be doomed in a world where she exists. That’s such a powerful line to say for a character like Arnav who is vary of the world.

She is not weak. She is PERFECT FOR ARNAV AND A VERY STRONG character. Why strong? Because they way Arnav behaved last one year, she should have hated and doubted him at every step of the way. She didn’t. She kept reaching out until she just couldn’t anymore. There was still one last attempt. The woman forgot the whole misbehaving (from her POV) right before their anniversary. Contemplated what she did wrong and believed that Arnav will be there because she still trusts him.

And Arnav. He is so beaten down by his life and still when it comes to Khushi everything changes. From his demeanour to his thoughts. He thinks of her before he thinks of himself because Khushi never thinks of her at all. Yes, he has made assumptions and mistakes the past one year but every single thing was done keeping Khushi in mind. He loves her to the point of letting her go, shielding her from everything and then not be selfish when Khushi was almost on the verge of getting married. Because he held himself back and confirmed that a better life was not waiting for Khushi before going to her is an act of pure selflessness. If only he TALKED instead of ASSUMING. I am also sure he has a good reason for this as well.

plus, IMAGINE Khushi also talking back to his parents. The relationship was severely strained. Ratna said Khushi didn’t need to come back but she did it for Arnav and Arnav had accepted that she was right. He did miss his dad a lot.

I went on a rant earlier as well. Khushi’s refrain from confrontation doesn’t come off as a mistake to me. She did run to her husband to comfort him, not stay back. She told him papa doesn’t mean it, who goes on to admit in the last chapter that he hurt his son in just anger.

they both are the endgame for me. They have to be. There is too much love to go to waste like this . ♥️♥️

Originally posted by: Learrntowrite

Again, you’re getting me wrong because maybe I am not able to articulate properly.

I absolutely understand Arnav’s pov. Heck I have been fighting over here in this comment section for the same. I am team Arnav through and through but he does need some work. Only communication. He feels trapped and he feels guilty. Whatever decisions he took were taken with Khushi’s best interest in place. I am rooting for him!!! He loves Khushi A LOTTTT! He doesn’t deserve what he went through.

But he did shut her off and assume things. I am ONLY blaming him for creating this gap between them. And instead of my assumptions I am using writer’s words here. I am taking them on face value. I don’t get to say what could have happened when writer is telling me what actually happened, she gave us Arnav’s pov but she gave us Khushi’s too.

First of all, Arnav walked out of the first time she even brought it up. She said it’s news to her which meant she had no idea. The baby issue is so big to Arnav he doesn’t even see who started a fight before punishing Khushi (his mom said something on the phone and he walked out on Khushi)

also, Khushi absolutely did want a child at that moment when Arnav said yes. She wanted him back first but she did think until he’s ready. She was making things normal not by pretending but wanting to spend time with him. Where does it say she was pretending when around leher’s delivery, she is shaken by Arnav’s sudden decision to go incommunicado for a whole week. Which has never happened before. She was terrified. and then I think it has been said enough times that she kept asking and asking and trying to talk and he kept sending her away. This has gone on for a year.


Think from Khushi’s perspective too. Your marriage is going fine and your loving husband gets up one day and decide that the most troubling issue between the two of you doesn’t require a discussion and shuts himself off. Goes to the limit of telling her that she was stressing him out by trying to talk and waiting for him in the bedroom. That must sting and her love is beyond imagination that she isn’t bitter to him about it. She’s a human. She has self respect. Even then it’s always her making the efforts to reach out.

She loved him enough to keep up her efforts for a year. That is INSANE. imagine doing it for someone who is deserting yiu every other night and not get bitter about it. Arnav said she did not create a fuss whenever he came back. She literally did love him that much. She’s happy about the prospect of niece and nephews because in her near future, her own child is a question mark. Why would she think of that?

She had to guess everything and arrive at the conclusion because Arnav didn’t talk. I’m impatiently waiting for his reasons because it had made him hurt Khushi who I’m sure he loves a lot. More than he understood.

I’m taking author on her words and believing both Arnav and Khushi when they look back at the whole year. Khushi trying and fighting and reaching out and Arnav retreating into a shell. This has been confirmed by both characters.

As I quoted, pill episode only made Arnav realise he didn’t want kids. In fact that was the only time he was least guilty because he was finally taking the step for Khushi. The only guilt was his absolute relief when she didn’t get pregnant.

They both need dr Meera and her therapy. 🤣

Hey we’re not divorce attorneys 🤣🤣🤣. There’s not team . I guess I am also not able to articulate, maybe I didn’t understand . He did say he didn’t want children and she kept her hopes up that he will come around, but this was the big elephant that they both ignored!!!

She wasn’t a bitter person I hope she isn’t too broken to become one now!!!

But anyway it’s not going anywhere, they both need help!!!

Originally posted by: Arilip

Hey we’re not divorce attorneys 🤣🤣🤣. There’s not team . I guess I am also not able to articulate, maybe I didn’t understand . He did say he didn’t want children and she kept her hopes up that he will come around, but this was the big elephant that they both ignored!!!

She wasn’t a bitter person I hope she isn’t too broken to become one now!!!

But anyway it’s not going anywhere, they both need help!!!

I think we absolutely do need to team up though and tell Appy di to give us a happy ending. She has put both of them in this dump. She needs to get them out 😂😂

Originally posted by: Learrntowrite

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I think we absolutely do need to team up though and tell Appy di to give us a happy ending. She has put both of them in this dump. She needs to get them out 😂😂

Really!!!! I was reading any other ff and then thinking this Will happen after HEA 🤣🤣🤣🤣
But true , their situation is really unfortunate!!! It’s even worse than one of them being infertile at least th then there was more hope, they could have gone for adoption. That’s what makes it all too tough.

Originally posted by: Pujakrishna

She is very chalaak bro. 😂

She would be like, is it the resurgence of arnav, is it khushi's, or their marriage, is it this, is it that.

She once even told me does arnav even loved khushi ever? Imagine my khushi loving poor heart hearing this.

That is why i didnt ask anything on that 2 qstn thing that she gave us. 😉

Btw, I stand corrected in my question. Does Arnav love Khushi? Or was he just doing the right thing which he thought was letting her go? Right thing that he always does by everyone? 🤷‍♀️