hi Swati. I am not dodging any questions. I just tried to clear Arnav’s stance that’s all. And I have already agreed that even if the news is false, his actions and even thoughts alone might hurt Khushi to the point of no redemption. She isn’t aware of Arnav’s conditions either. For her it will seem like what you’re saying is right. But we know a bit more than her, right?
reiterating my points by your comments - 1. I have explicitly mentioned he is part of an industry where these things are common. You said so yourself. Happens at a rave. He left early. And I gave my reasons for not suspecting Lavanya will ever take a legal or malignant action. But I will reiterate once again.
- It’s a rave organised by her at her house. To accept such a thing happened there where Arnav took advantage of her would be opening a can of worms for her. a woman who has an extremely clean image in public
- Why won’t he think pregnancy might be an issue? He said this to Lavanya and I said this in my response. Sex is too common in the industry, he isn’t wrong to assume an actress like lavanya wouldn’t take precautionary measures. (And may I point that he is right. She does have an IUD, when she got pregnant she aborted, why would he think that even if she gets pregnant with a married man’s child, she would even want to keep it and ruin her career? He doesn’t know what he is to her!)
- He isn’t even thinking about Lavanya or himself after waking up. He is a man who is trying to do right by a near stranger. He had just hurt Khushi in a way he didn’t think was ever possible for him. For such a man, that he did this to his wife is enough to paralyse him with guilt. Which is the only emotion he’s feeling at the moment before he fled to Nepal
- No, he didn’t suspect Lavanya of any foul play. Pregnancy wise or otherwise. I have already accepted and established that. He chose to trust a woman who initially wasn’t asking anything of him and simply stating her wish of keeping the child. He offered his support himself. Lavanya’s clingyness bothered him later. Here, he has made himself a target by being too trusting is true. But Lavanya was quick on her feet to agree to a DNA test and assuage his initial doubts.
- you need to understand his POV at pregnancy revelation. for him Lavanya is coming to a married man to tell him of this big news. For him Lavanya has no interest in him. For him, it’s Lavanya who is in a more vulnerable position. He is even concerned before sharing her name with extreme professionals and even Aman at first, simply out of concern for her reputation as a woman
- Arnav’s parents are aware that it’s Arnav’s decision to not have babies. He has never hid it that it’s his decision. It’s society’s finger that points to a woman. And I will say once again, he tried agreeing for a baby. Not under any societal pressure, but because he thought he owed it to Khushi
- And all this while, he is ignoring Khushi because he can’t meet het eyes. I’m not saying it’s not wrong to Khushi who has no idea what the hell is going on. I am the one who wrote Khushi’s pain over this ignorance too. It’s not right in any way to her. But that’s not the intent of my comment. Whether what Arnav did was right or not. The chapter and my comment both were meant to show what went through his mind during the time. What called for duty towards Lavanya, was hurting and unfair towards his wife.
- I will absolutely disagree over the suggestion of calling Khushi and telling her over phone. You don’t do that. Also, his marriage was not normal. I’ll say it again. Divorce would be happening even if Lavanya was not in the picture. He wasn’t lying. He was already done with the marriage
- Again, the story agrees to your point. He did not trust the freelancer and still kept tab. He even told Akash that sh*t could hit the fan as someone had his pictures. This was after he took care of the guy supposedly. Let’s not forget, he’s still trying to trace back to the root of the photos. To him, this was a way to extort for money, not hit his wife who he keeps away from public eye anyway.
- Again, he admitted several times that he does not feel the sympathy towards Lavanya or the baby as much as he should. He is driven by the sense of duty
Originally posted by: SwatStar_Arshi
You are seeing things from Arnav's perspective, see it from a third person's or Khushi's angle, he is the biggest culprit here and NOT a savior. He failed miserably.
- I’m the one who wrote Khushi’s pain too. Despite knowing Arnav didn’t cheat the way she thinks. I will see things from her POV when it’s her POV😂😂😂. That’s not the intent of this chapter or my comment. This is just to clarify what went through his head and why he did what he did. It doesn’t take away anything from Khushi’s pain. I agreed to bollybabe didn’t I? He was willing to do so much for so many people. What would he do for Khushi now that he knows how gravely he has hurt her by misjudging why she was unhappy?
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