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Originally posted by: tashi26

No this is the secret that Arpita madam is still not ready to disclose, we will get to know about in future when the time is right. 😉

Saw too many tags.

I just want to do flamenco on Korean pop music right now.😛

Will be back when I am fully aligned after it😁

Originally posted by: VeiledWords

sorry I missed. which photos are you talking about?

Originally posted by: SwatStar_Arshi

If La was really pregnant, she will start showing up by 4th or 5th month ie. by Feb 2016 and she cannot hide pregnancy after that. Lavanya being the celebrity with an excellent saint image in public, Manali would skinned Arnav alive if he did not come clean and accept the pregnancy publicly by then and La and Arnav coming up with a joint statement. There is no question about how Khushi feels here, he will be forced to accept the baby is his in public. They both are public figures so they have to acknowledge their actions. Khushi would have been then too hounded with media, and labeled infertile permanently. Had he been standing with Khushi accepting the news as his one time mistake under influence and said we will support the baby would have been different situation for Khushi.

Why do you think I called him narcissist, selfish and what not? He never thought anything from Khushi's perspective and how the world will treat her for his grave mistakes...

Originally posted by: SwatStar_Arshi

If La was really pregnant, she will start showing up by 4th or 5th month ie. by Feb 2016 and she cannot hide pregnancy after that. Lavanya being the celebrity with an excellent saint image in public, Manali would skinned Arnav alive if he did not come clean and accept the pregnancy publicly by then and La and Arnav coming up with a joint statement. There is no question about how Khushi feels here, he will be forced to accept the baby is his in public. They both are public figures so they have to acknowledge their actions. Khushi would have been then too hounded with media, and labeled infertile permanently. Had he been standing with Khushi accepting the news as his one time mistake under influence and said we will support the baby would have been different situation for Khushi.

Why do you think I called him narcissist, selfish and what not? He never thought anything from Khushi's perspective and how the world will treat her for his grave mistakes...

That is the point swati. That is exactly the point.

She being infertile would have been stamped in that case. The whole world would have laughed at her that what she didn't gave her husband in 10 years, he has that with another woman now in just some months, even before they are divorced. She would have been a laughing stalk.

But however saying all this, no i don't think he is narcissist and selfish (we just have to agree to disagree here). I just think he made some GRAVE mistakes and miscalculations when it came to khushi, may be because he is too guilty and love her too much (in his crooked way) and when it came to her he lost his power of thinking and rationality. His heart was never in the wrong place though.

YES, had la or any other woman for that matter been pregnant the repercussions on khushi would have been HUGE, in a way that arnav has no idea and so what he did is just securing her financially and from the media but the thing is, he did protected her from media all these years as arpita said, but nothing even close to a SCANDAL like this had happened in all this years too. It was different with just him and khushi's private life but now it is different when such a huge actress with a child is involved.

Arpita is right the fact that he thought this way would shatter khushi. I don't even feel like using the word hurt anymore for khushi, things are much more worse than just hurt for khushi.

I guess I didn’t read carefully enough although I read it twice before I even commented. I wanted to make sure of the the details and also take stock of my emotional reactions. As I said in my first reactive post, I felt almost physically sick at Arnav’s pain when he found out about the pregnancy. Then my thoughts kicked it in about the baby’s well being in all areas. That is where my rub with Arnav was not how he handled the financial, lawyers, dealing with Lavenya aftermath.

He is taking financial responsibility for the supposed baby but where does it say or give the idea that he will take responsibility to the public? Did I miss that? He and Manali both are masters at suppressing unwanted publicity. She has been linked to her costar, never with him. Of course, the make believe boyfriend would deny it. Lavenya just needs to keep her mouth shut. There are many actresses in the US that have babies and never name the fathers. There is probably speculation in private circles but the general public doesn’t know.

If Lavenya and him both stay mum who would know as they have never been linked.

Originally posted by: BollyBabe75

that’s the thing. It’s still india, Not US. even the most famous person here who society gave hell for being a single mother did not/could not hide the name of the father (Nina Gupta and Viv Richards). Arnav will have to come forward. Nobody was going to not know who the father is. And as again the author pointed out, he wasn’t running away from responsibility. Just the attachment

“But be very clear Lavanya. I don’t want kids, ever. I have never wanted them. I might be able to provide financially since it’s my duty and I can’t run away from it, but that is the extent of my involvement. If you want to go ahead with it, please know that you will be a single mother. I want nothing to do with this child. Thankfully you don’t run in a society that is going to come after your throat for this. However, you are a public figure and I hope you have thought this through. Even if I come forward claiming to be responsible for this child, this could be career ending. Frankly I am surprised you chose this.”

“I want this baby!” Lavanya said with utmost certainty.

Edit - also by this time when Arnav said this, he had not informed Lavanya about his divorce. He said it afterwards, easing her mind a little bit. Also why would the make believe boyfriend say anything. That was just a publicity stunt for dariya which Lavanya already blew up after Arnav stopped talking to her. Exactly what Manali told him in his office that Lavanya blew the whole thing up with Jatin by refusing to be seen with him at all.

I know about Nina Gupta and Masaba because I saw Masaba Masaba on Netflix. I don’t know all of the details from 30 SOME YEARS AGO. But they were publicly linked, Viv Richards is another race so the baby born would have some of his features, he was a foreigner and not as rich as Arnav. I am sure his cricketer fraternity had lawyers that protected him but not in the league that Arnav has at his disposal.

India is much less liberal than the US but even India has moved ahead in 30 plus years.

Originally posted by: BollyBabe75

I guess I didn’t read carefully enough although I read it twice before I even commented. I wanted to make sure of the the details and also take stock of my emotional reactions. As I said in my first reactive post, I felt almost physically sick at Arnav’s pain when he found out about the pregnancy. Then my thoughts kicked it in about the baby’s well being in all areas. That is where my rub with Arnav was not how he handled the financial, lawyers, dealing with Lavenya aftermath.

He is taking financial responsibility for the supposed baby but where does it say or give the idea that he will take responsibility to the public? Did I miss that? He and Manali both are masters at suppressing unwanted publicity. She has been linked to her costar, never with him. Of course, the make believe boyfriend would deny it. Lavenya just needs to keep her mouth shut. There are many actresses in the US that have babies and never name the fathers. There is probably speculation in private circles but the general public doesn’t know.

If Lavenya and him both stay mum who would know as they have never been linked.

I am with you here. Though it's India these days Bollywood is too rife with rumours of such things. Though there are rumours people don't publically accept these things. I think if lavanya kept mum there was no need to go public as well.

May be the people in inner circle might know but these people do have their own skeletons. It's like Teri bhi chup meri bhi chup.

So I would say there is a chance lavanya can very well hide the baby's parentage if required.

These days it's a fad in Bollywood to have 'surrogate' babies isn't it

Originally posted by: BollyBabe75

I know about Nina Gupta and Masaba because I saw Masaba Masaba on Netflix. I don’t know all of the details from 30 SOME YEARS AGO. But they were publicly linked, Viv Richards is another race so the baby born would have some of his features, he was a foreigner and not as rich as Arnav. I am sure his cricketer fraternity had lawyers that protected him but not in the league that Arnav has at his disposal.

India is much less liberal than the US but even India has moved ahead in 30 plus years.

He says EVEN if I came forward as part of his argument about whether she keeps the baby or not. He doesn’t say he will.

They have never been together ever before the party and even at the party it wouldn’t have been apparent that they were together. He moved away from her when she tried to get too friendly, left for the balcony without her and they went into one of the nearby rooms.

A woman can’t escape pregnancy detection but a man can. As I said, other than her and Manali and Arnav’s camp no one else knows. EXCEPT, the reporter who was bought off and was under Aman’s radar and who ever sent Khushi the photos.

Modern day India is certainly not like the US but has become less traditional than 30 years ago. Nina Gupta’s career has revived and her daughter has her own fashion line and reality TV show.