Originally posted by: psarada
Okay let me go back to what was in the post and why my answer so effected some people - who didn't even bother to read and like the first post but were there to like posts that attacked me.
Kyun Dard hain itna tere post main Ria - behen ? What to do ?
Went through the main post - Ria talked about Fandom hypersensitivity which we all saw from 2012. For that I agreed and said that too much water has flown down the bridge.
Then Ria talked about IPK Jashn being a shoddy product as it was put through in less than a day and the whole thing was shot without proper script. This too I totally agreed on and said that jashn was done to milk the IPK fandom one more time. This was the same thing I have written on Archana's post. And Ria being my friend I took the liberty to mention that even though I didn't like the Jashn in the beginning I have loved it because it gave a glimpse of Barun in it and I said that because Ria knows about me being a Barun fan. So where and when did - Putting down Sanaya or Mocking her has happened ? People who didn't even bother to read and like the first post were there to attack me. Isn't this the exact meaning of HyperSensitivity ?
And yes the last para was my wish of not seeing Sanaya - Barun together and that too was not to put down Sanaya. I don't understand why everything has to be taken into a twisted context and that is why I was so good off IF. Uff kya headache.
This is a neutral post and as long as one member is not putting the other explicitly down which I didn't do I don't know why the other fandom should get so offended. Anyway my intention was not to start fights neither to put down anyone that is why I have explained myself. If someone gets hurt because of their assumptions that my words have inherent meanings then I am not to be blamed. It is high time people stop attacking members because of their posts - Have been through 2012 where esteemed members sat in CCs and mocked and bullied fellow members. Oh yes I do remember it and that was the reason I was so away from this whole crap and I want to stay away forever from it.
Sorry Ria if you feel this post is too much - I will edit it out.
Psarada Di .
Hugs.
I totally agree with u .
Infact I know u since 2012 for ur sensible posts.
U did not jump on people who attacked barun .
U tried to sensibly answer back then also .
But having said that I never misunderstood u .
And there was nothing wrong or offensive about the post .
But if people do get offended somewhere around they do .I can only put a stop to it by explaining to them this is not an offending post to sanaya .
But I can't do that by supporting u or opposing u .
I can just do that by talking what their point of view is from a third person point without offending u .
I understood it . u understood it .
But they should understand .
They will when we calmly explain to them.
Which u did .
And hence the world war three ended .
So on that note hugs
Cricket
Anupamaa
