a simple love and damn the... - Page 4

Originally posted by: sheanuzz

My dearest Indi... could relate to the pain in your post as I feel it as much. In fact many and many of us do. Dealing with it is sometimes so difficult. I always wonder if the cast,crew, PH and channel really understood the impact of IPK and the huge following it had and still has. If they did,they probably would have worked harder to keep it afloat. 😔

Am not sure about others but my fam thinks that I have lost it in terms of my love for just a show and still watch and rewatch episodes and visit IF. They don't get it that for me it is not just a show but something that is an important part of my life.😃

Originally posted by: Horizon

@red: you said it right. I don't think so. They didn't understand a bit of it. As much as this is all creative stuff and most of the folks involved are supposedly most sensitive to out of ordinary creations, paradoxically that never seemed to have happened. Except the viewers no one really would have sat and watched a few episodes in peace. It was just another product of the en masse production of all the so called daily soaps. but alas.. this didn't belong there!!

Originally posted by: iris_iris2

Nice post. Yes a simple love...but you see it was played with heart to a perfection.

For me after first few episodes it was no more a play it was the passion that was reflected in the acting,direction(especially) and off course the writing. Combined with...excellent human beings who were coincidentally all together as co-actors but more like family made it an excellent product.

I feel once watched the show people would hardly recover from shocks...the way show ended.

Originally posted by: Ipoona

Indi,

Another lovely post from you, but one that reminds me of a time I am so glad is past. Loved and totally relate to bold red below...

when it was taken from me, i couldn't believe it. impermanence, etc., other philosophical thoughts i toyed with... but nothing would assuage the hurt... nothing would fill the gaping hole in my heart.
my voice choked whenever i thought, this is it.
even though so much had been robbed of the pristineness of iss pyaar ko kya naam doon? even then.
for it was untouched at some level, always pristine. forever pure.
a thing i loved so simply and without prejudice.

What a time that was ... All I could think at the time when the rumor mill was churning out nightmarish scenarios with clockwork like regularity, how did I get pulled in so deep ? How can I be feeling this ! I would scold myself ! It is a soap, for gods sake ! Get a grip on yourself ... And to top it all I was on vacation. All I could think of, how do I get to an internet connection. It was in the midst of this upheaval that I joined the forum ... To make a post on my own version of a sapno ki duniya vali ending ... I, as I am sure many of us, couldn't stomach any of the outcomes being presented ... I don't even want to go back there ...

It is sometimes embarrassing to think that I, a grown mature woman, cried all the way back from my vacation, just coz of that horrid photograph ... It was like a promise had been broken. I felt robbed ... Cheated ...

But aren't you glad that there are people like you, who have kept this alive, well and kicking for you ? I, for one, am having the time of my life ... Still as addicted as I was when the show was going on ...

I am just grateful that our story survived ...

Thank you again, for a lovely post, makes me appreciate these times even more ...😛

Originally posted by: ArshiHamesha

Hey Indi,👏

A lovely post as always but why bina shakar keh chai...[tea without sugar]...black and white movie wali post..😕.I res it because I was thinking you are not done yet but bhut happend Indiji where is any visual...mere liye hi sahi...[just for my sake]...😛

I am going to be honest with you as I w that's why didn't give you response on the thread or our Blasters new hang out place.😭

The show ended last year and we sign for keeping it alive.Days , nights, weeks , months, and a year or so has been passed away yet we are feeling the pain in the same way ever, at least I do.Nothing has been changed and at the top there is a thirst , a hope, a demand in me to see and fight for more.

I am an IPK fan as a whole as you all know, if Barun is my heart as ASR , Sanaya is the apple of my eye as Khushi.Mamimi spreads colors in my life , Naniji stands for a wisdom Tower which is throwing light in my way.Learnt a lot from her.Mamaji stands for a patience , Anjali stands for a reality of life. Should I say something about my most fav Villan of all...Shyam who I adore to call, Spidey, Slither, Scorpion and much much more.Awww..Buaji and her Nand Kishore are always with me .Babuji's "Dil keh Rishte" gave me a perspective to dissolve my pain of years being away from my parents and raised by who was and is everything to me...My aunt...

All the servants, from Raheem Chacha to Parakash Bros...who are enlightening the fact that everyone is equal in this show and in this world.How can I forget Payal and Akash , simple yet complicated ones who show me how simplicity is a complex notion itself.

Uhhh...Lakhmiji...who was the reason to show us how elders need to hang on to something for their extra love...or when you have no one to talk with ,she is there...

My Destiny lover and favorite...DeviMaiya and Ghanesh ...a symbol to tell us hang in there as they are watching you over as God never leaves you and remains close to your heart more than ever...

My journey started from Epi 100^th as most of you know that.Since then I never turned on My TV .I never watched any serial and had no plans either.It's not that what ppl think , because for my complex brain you have to have something to grab my attention.None is out there to do so.Nothing is there which is offering me to sit and watch...Time and events, the elements like Pickle jars or a KEY...mannat wali...I don't have chakarvyue of Diwali where all of the events are tied together.PEARLS...Earrings...Duppatta...Ghade ka paani..in Naniji's room or Arnav's plants...Roses, Garden...bring all these to me and I will be yours.

Is anyone out there can eat Pakodas, kheer, puris, Pasta, Laddoos, mirchi wali daal, Lassi and JALAIBIS and doesn't remember them ...not me as a smile always spreads on my lips to declare me insane in front of everyone but gives me pleasure...and you guys say MOVE ON..."itna easy hai tumhare liye.."[is it so easy for u?]

Sarun or Arshi which made me to have this name of mine"ArshiHamesha"...Do u think it's for one day or just for bragging ...no it's damn serious for me you all morons out there who destroyed my show.Besides all the odds, illogical stuff, BDs, lack of resources, disaster wardrobes and ghatiya fashion my eyes always land on the message of love and all...I am not romantic..but may be I am some where...as I don't want anyone to chase me for this...but I do have this feeling of love and to be loved...

I never get emotional over a serial yet any one says anything or post anything against them , makes me to do the damage.I laugh, cry and do dance with them and was pretty much aware of that these are start crossed lovers and all the symbols, and events were pointing at that they will not be together alive.That I have to bear but when Time came and his PIC came with his extended hand to save his Khushi, I extended to save both.I protested by any means, cried at loud , called everyone, emailed every one without thinking and without even caring what the heck I am doing just one thing was in my mind...I have to save em as I was fighting for my own.

I don't know about you all but for my life one IPK is enough.Dammit ... 👏 👏

I want to see em together , yes I do but I am fine with their journey of their own.I want them to succeed in every venture...for me there is only one...venture of IPK ...bas keh diya...

I can't move on but as I always learned how to deal with the pain by walking through it.. and I will be stronger than ever...My Mantra.

Originally posted by: indi52

at those pink words.. i almost wept. again.

53... jaded... nothing much reaches me any more... but this mad show just does what it does.

which horrid photograph...? i am dying to know.

i am glad we didn't let anything matter and certainly didn't let "common sense" hamper us in any way.

ipoona, thanks for reading, i am rambling i know, but what the... needed to.

so glad all of you came and got talking.

a serial that not only thrilled me to the core, but opened a new universe almost... all this, all of you... and a peek into what might be... maybe i won't be here... but there in the distance a sense of the future... exciting.

i no longer seek to understand why i had to feel the way i do about ipk, i just do... a certain calm in just accepting it. some day, like all things in life, maybe this will also go... but till then... oh yes, ipoona, i am ecstatic to hang around and just ipk.

ha ha that vacation... reminds me of my 5 days in bali last year... i barely saw anything other than my phone, desperate to reach wireless zones all the time. husband quite perturbed, but he knows when not to bug me. 😆