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ARSHI"S INDEX
EPISODE PART 146-PART147
La's departure..
"Khuch rishte meant to be nahin hote 'usmein kissi ki koi ghalati nahin hoti" [some relations are not meant to be and its no one's fault] La's words are ringing bell in my head as this is a true reality.It's not only true for La but also for Anjali indirectly.
In GH Family was discussing the shame which Shyam is prevailing around everyone without realizing his mistakes and how Anjali has no clue about his evil deeds.Love Buaji as she is true to her character as always.She will be a biggest obstacle for Scorpion from now on. [True Arshi, and i love her myself...esp when she is in form! Buaji is a dynamic woman..a breed we call "dhaddaledaar" in Punjabi 😊 Whatever she does, she does with conviction... sometimes that's a cause for concern like it became when she pushed for Khushi's alliance with Shyam, but on most other occasions, she is a pillar of strength. Pure intentioned and emotion-driven woman!]
In RM ,Khushi tries to convince La for not going back to London yet she refused to listen to her.La thnx her for teaching the values which she was not aware of.There is no question their friendship grew over time into inseparable one.Khushi asks her the reason to fix but she does not disclose anything to her.
Khushi inquires "why did he fight for you for bringing home,why did he agrees to engage with you and then why right before engagement he refused..he did wong with you Lavanyaji.."
La disappointedly," May be'and during their convo Khushi reveals her broken engagement news as a same pinch'..which surprises La and she apologize to Khushi over this..
Khushi by keeping her chin up,"There is someone for me and you and we have to see I find my Rajkumar first or you"'.
[Arshi,amazing imagery above! Juxtaposing Lavanya and her precise moments of reckoning...when she saw ASR in a new light, his world clearly rocked by Khushi, is just fantastic above 👏 And you describe it beautifully below!]
With Khushi's words ,La's mind reverberates moments of Arnav's concern ,realization and attraction for Khushi'.which brings tears in her eyes'."mein nahin aa paoongi"[I won't be able to come']
She holds Khushi's hands and asks her a favor'
"Tumhain mera eik kamm karna hoga'ASR'.tumhain ASR ka khiyal rakhna hoga'[you have to do something for me'ASR 'You have to take care of ASR]Which puts Khushi in dilemma'. And she pulls her hands off.. [Khushi's action speaks of her awareness in this moment that there is something between her and ASR! Instinctively she pulls away, for she must feel there is something ambiguous, something unspoken yet undeniable when it comes to him]
La continues to make her realize,"sirf tum hi jo usse who sab keh paati ho jo who nahin sunna chahte'[you are the only one who can say things to him which he doesn't want to hear]
Kushi in bafflement and confined state'.yet listening'"ASR ko kya chaiye yeh unhain khud hi nahin pata'par tum tou samjhdar ho na Khushi[ ASR does no know what does he want..but you are wiser']
Disconcerted Khushi'."jee"[what]
La holds her softly,"aaj nahin tou kal yum samajh jaogi ..chahe ASR samjhe ya na samjhe[you will understand either today or tomorrow whether ASR gets it or not]
Pause here:La's words did come true 'there is no doubt Arnav fell in love first but realization seeped deeply in Khushi first and she was the first one who put this Fadak aside to accept it at the airport'"kyuonke baat aapki hai '" Arnav was still in dilemma'
They both hug for their friendship for forever pinch' [Awww 'forever pinch'...heartwarming that is!]
La is setting a divine relation in between these two as her words later came true for both of them.
Other parallel scene as drilling questions are being asked to Arnav and he can't give any straight answer because of his confused state which La just described.He doesn't know himself either what is happening to him and What does he want?'it's the realization that he can't commit to La and definitely because of Khushi but he is not sure as he said"jis rishte ke bar mein khud hi sure nahin hoon '."[ The relation about which I am not sure ']
Anjali is refusing to accept that and Arnav rages out when she presses the issue,"bata daita agar'."[ I would tell you if.]
Ans turns around as always when he does not want to show his vulnerability [Keen observation and well said!] and has no straight answer'."mujhe force mat karo Di'"[Don't force me Di]
Nani is drilling him the same way as Khushi was doing in front of La and she is right about one thing "iske peeche bohat badi wajhe hogi'"[There must be a big reason behind all of this]
She wants answers and he just have flaring nostrils as he is baffling about his feelings and had no solid answer here.
Mamaji and Akash tries too but in vain.
Anjali asks Shyam 's help who couple of minutes ago gulped down the bitter truth'when she said"youn itni asani se rishte tod daite hain kya"[ it's so easy to break the relation like that"''.]
He just jumps up from his own stance as someone caught him on a wrong foot'.hunnn'.."Salesahib ki apni zindagi hai ..aur unhain yahi theek lagta hai tou"[It's his life if he thinks this is right for him]
Everyone gets shocked with their favorite Damadji's answer'No one knows he is saying for himself'..Jerk😡 [A jerk like no other!!!!!!]...but one thing is my grabber, he is saying it right it's his life to make decisions for himself... [If one didn't know his character better, one'd be impressed. His words are ever so smooth and his ideas on relationships, always so agreeable! He's a slimy operator!!]
Arnav's convulsion mixed with rage is so visible.Jijaji's words are helpful here to sooth him though with courage.He turns around trying clearing his point of view ,"La did so much for this family and that's why it wasn't fair to lie to her'.so I told her the truth.."
Anjali requests Arnav for making an effort with La and Naniji forces him to accept his mistakes but La intervenes'.."there is no need for that Naniji'I love that scene'she comes with Lakhmiji '.."This is our mutual decision so don't just blame him "'Arnav's concerns and embarrassment is very much visible but Khushi is not satisfied with that'..but I couldn't figure out the reason of annoyance of Shyam here '.What the heck is his problem?...Anjali tires to ask her the reason but La answers with hurtful voice,"Kuch Rishte meant to be nahin hote.kissi ki koi ghalati nahin hoti 'bas who ho nahin pate'[ some relationships are not meant to be..it's no one's fault '.these just don't happen]
Love the way Arnav looks at Khushi ''His eyes are reflecting so many feelings here for her'.His decision is painful yet shows his will power and honesty at every step.
He really does have a lot of respect for La mixed with concerns''.while Khushi's tears have no limits which are another concern for Arnav's look'
La says good bye to family and stops at Anjali,"Plz Di trust me and don't blame ASR'" and that makes Arnav to lower his eyes as he can't take this any more'.
But He jerks up by her next statement,"woh shaadi karainge unhain jab lage ga keh unhain kar laini chahiye"[HE will marry when he will feel like it]..That makes him think what did she say just now'.and how is so sure'She knows you more than you know yourself ASR' [Lavanya saying this to Anjali was quite a deft touch on the writers' part 👏]
Her cab comes and She bids good bye with heavy heart'..
Pondering connected Dots:Arnav brought her against his family and today she does not want him besides her yet whole family is in her favor'..[Amazing that! As they say, life works in mysterious ways!]
He comes out and apologizes to her one more time sincerely.But La's words here have deep impact for the future'
"But agar tumhari life mein khabi pyar aajae tou hold on to it ASR 'kyuonke pyar nafrat se bohat bada hote hai'sab se bada hota hai'.make sure keh tum usey apni life se khabi jane naa do"
Translation:But if you find love in your life ,then hold on to it'because Love is greater than hate..make sure you never let it go out of your life'
Love her dialogues are following Khushi ''as these are trade mark of IPK for future.
Pause here: "Make sure tum khabi usey apni zindagi se jane na doo" Arnav from now on will never let Khushi out of his life'.from forced marriage till the very end''he keeps her always besides him ..love or hate ..whatever''.even when Khushi leaves him he brought her back either hook or by crook
Above all La's words play really big time during revelation of Garima on his wedding day'along with all the flash backs her words play big role including her mom's " agar tumhari zindagi mein pyar aajaye tou hold on to it ..kyuonke pyar nafrat se bada hota hai" played that day'..
Music changes with their exchange of looks..as new day is waiting for him'..
In GH Payal tells Khushi her concerns for her about Shyam while she was in RM'Khushi intervenes with annoyance ,"I don't want to talk about him ,he is the person of the family where you are going to be married'.That's why I want to forget that I had ever any relation with him 'for me he is just Anjali's husband"
Payal diverts her attention to La but her words here have really deep meaning'..
"Rishton ki dor bohat nazuk hoti hai..do logon keh beech kya huwa ,kyuon huwa ..koi nahin bata sakta [I love this line...so many times we judge relationships...esp when it comes to friends...we take sides which is fine but do we really know ... the truth is you never can know what really goes on between two people. Things are way more complicated than they appear to be]
{Relationships stand on a thin line .what ever happens in between two people ,no one tell..}
Payal agrees with Khushi about La's goodness.The moment Payal takes Arnav's name..Khushi jumps at pickes her words.."Rakshus'..uss Rakshus ko to aisi ladki milni chahiye jo unko seedha kar de..unki ache se khabar lai'wohi sunnai jo who sunna nahin chahte'.unhain itna bhi nahin pata kiss sai kaise baat karni chahiye"[Rakshus'he should get a gil who corrects him ..tells him what he does not want to hear''.he does not know how to talk to anyone.].Payal hits her to stop and Khushi just plays along with her Jiji'
Pause here : Unintentionally Khushi is describing herself [ 😊😊 ] with inner happiness and Haq...as La said the same to stamp on her feelings for her LG as her smile is expressing her inner feelings with different angle.
In RM Arnav calls La to make sure she landed safely and then after her answer tells her in stern voice,"take care Lavanya"'
Closes his eyes for a while and when open ''..Life maintenance manual..I mean car maintenance manual [with chamkile cover] catches his eyes'.as his Khushi is waiting for him like a shining and a direction star who canto direct the way of love and happiness besides the odds [ So well said!! ] He reads her letter and can't read the manual as he has no idea what to do and how to direct his way towards this path of thorns yet Khushi is the one who changed the tire so she is the one who will bring approximately this whole 360 degree change[round tre=360 degrees] in him.Each word of her letter has a deep meaning'..
"ye pustaak, humari taraf se eik bhent hai, taakeh jeevan mei apko gadhi ka paiyah badalne mein takleef na ho, Khushi Kumai Gupta."
Translation: this book is a gift from me so you will not face any difficulty to change the tire of your car, Khushi Kumari Gupta
Anjali comes and agrees with his decision which brings a soothing satisfaction in him as always his Di knows the best yet he is not ready for another lecture of "sansain ruk jana " but he is a heading towards it with new "neuta" [wedding card].hmmm ..interesting he is taking the card himself to Khushi as this is future indication of their union though this is the first step'.Anjali's comparison to his Scorpion was a bit too much to digest at this point as the huge commitment by her towards him is unbearable to watch'..[ Seriously!! "Oh come on!", is all i kept saying to her in my head every time she talked such! ]
Pondering connected Dots: He is going to say and admit this to his DI that without Khushi it seems to him he can't breath
Other side Khushi is busy with her Jiji in playful mood.The whole towel scene is hilarious yet meaningful. [Great scene 😆 Very cute! And loved his dumbfounded expression as she was going ballistic 😆] Arnav gives her the towel because he thinks she really needs it yet she screams as he saw her without clothes'..but point is she is without Dupatta''.
Symbolism and connection: The Dupatta has its significance since from the beginning .She has towel on and thinks herself exposed meaning her respect is about to be at stake which she will cover temporarily by keeping her mouth shut yet it is visible and hard to hide ,it means she will be stigmatized ''.as she is going to be under attack during forced marriage from all across. [Hmm.. great observation!]
Arnav is asking her to stop because she has clothes on and later telling her to change towel with Dupatta''He is providing her shade of respect as he will be defending her all the time during forced marriage no matter what ,regardless in his extreme hate.They both will cover each other during that time as they always do.
Evil is settling his games with new angles by using the weakness of Anjali''as she is a bait here as always.Lets see how far he can go this time'..White shirt is banned...hmmm..White symbolizes purity and he is declaring he is impure...👏
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