Too much love - a cause of concern. Updt pg5 - Page 7

Originally posted by: incandescent

Thank you for appreciating my post Rima,

I always value your opinion. Even we disagree on certain things at times; you and I can always have a mature discussion. I read your posts regarding the issues about Sanaya's show and I commented there too. When you state your POV, I can see where you are coming from. I commented in your post two days ago and I agreed with most of the things you've said, sadly I couldn't agree with many others because of the manner in which the views were presented.

I agree on the aesthetics part, many others have said that too. So if you say it I can understand.

But I have seen comments about other romantic scenes too, even the rain dance which I found very nicely shot.

I am not against criticizing at all; I do it all the time. I appreciate when I see you criticize because you are able to do it in a respectful manner.

Barun was bashed for taking up movies and his movies were made fun off.

As fans you and I can also criticize his movie choices or his PHs. But what will differentiate me and you from a Barun basher are the way you and I say it.

No matter whom Barun and Sanaya works with, nothing will ever beat Sarun for me.

I know there are others who complain about the old chemistry and old Jodi, it's their choice. I can't make them change their opinion. I know that some of these people want Sarun fans to move on. But just because they do it, I don't have to do the same to others who like new Jodi and new chemistry because if I do, how does that make me any different?

Originally posted by: rima

Thanks for the reply Fari

There are fans for the new pair

But they treat as if fans of the old pair are useless

as if they are all rumour mongers

as if they have all not moved on

Many behave as if they are sanaya's guardian angels

If people who are adivising about er show are not her well wishers

Then people who are blindly supporting its flaws are also not doing it any good

look where the show is today

hardly 4 months and speculations about going off air

If we had loved it healthily without always wanting to prove the old show and old fans wrong, then we would not see this day

as for sanuj pair

if they have this much attachment to a pair that is just one month old

how much attachment should sarun fans have?

They constantly go on about the chemistry whereas the hero hardly came a month ago?

fact is many are hung up on disproving the old pair and chemistry

there are few genuine lovers of the show

and I know who the real lovers are

the real ones are always balanced on both sides

some sarun fans too become aggressive

but again it is both sides

and the other party acting injured doesn't work

because they are as much responsible for this mess

with their constant comparisons with the old show

though CC was supposed to be a fresh start for sanz

Originally posted by: rima

A very well written post Fari

But of course I differ

Who says people are not allowing Sarun to move on?

The fact that we are still discussing them says we all still love them both as a couple

Where does it say that you should let go of old love to embrace new?

I have childhood friends whom I love

I also made new friends

And they made too

But when we moved on, there was always that grief for the good old days

If CC had showcased Sanaya's talent and also had a gripping story and the romance had been gradually developed no one wuld crib

But it came bang on the face with a belly scene which was shot badly (aesthetics is always a perspective. for me that scene alone was bad and the rest was fine)

But the fact is it is not giving her tetalent enough scope

so why can't a fan feel that way?

And who is to say who should care more or less?

Every individual is different

when barun left the show many of us were supportive

But many weren't

They became downright crude about it

Isn't that an overreacting fandom too?

Just as critics of CC or any show can exist and can show the mirror to what is wrong

The fans can claim all is well

But the true mirror is always the audience who are the best judge

And no matter how many people some are paired with

audience will always love a pair for its uniqueness

in every industry there are such pairs

Kajol-shah rukh

Amitabh rekha

Uttam Suchitra (Bengal's hearthrbs)

Jyotika Surya (South's fav pair)

---everywhere some pairs will remain popular and will be in demand

Even people in UK and US haven't moved on then because Rajan has used this to rerun the show

The youtube hits shows people haven't moved on

So if your definition of moving on is forgetting them, then no

But if your definition is to support them in future ventures then everyone does

CC got its fair share of followers till story went downhill

Even today people are bombarding MAMR to ask when is Barun's movie releasing

But if you are asking people to forget

then like some epic couples this too won't happen

nd this move on should be a mantra to other people

who are stuck on this couple and the love people have for it to blame every problem on the fans o this couple

if a show is not up to the mark, a blame game won't help

suggestions and healthy criticism will

And let me end it by saying the people supposed to be supporting the new shows haven't moved on as well

They even want the blue mug to appear and make sanaya sip witht he hero

in a desperate love to rove that Barun was nothing and their friendship meant nothing

Why harp on an old friendship when they say they have moved on?

Why not look at new facets of the friendship?

Why compare and contrast and always drag the old fans

Question is who has moved on?

Because those comparing and complaining about an old chemistry and friendship also have not moved on

Originally posted by: RashmiNM

Okay It's not about having a problem with seeing Sanaya with someone else ya Barun with someone else... As far as I know, SARUN fans are matured enough to handle these things... They never act silly... Yess the problem they had with CC was it was not shown as it's promised.. Indulging romantic sequences forcefully doesn't make any sense... Did it do anything to increase TRP's? No naa... Fans are unhappy because CC is not doing anything to Sanaya... It's obvious ki they get hurt because of it... I wish PH concentrates on the story rather than forcefully added romantic sequences which are only liked by certain set of audiences... Romantic sequences are enjoyable only when they are meaningful n comes at right times just like it was in Sanaya's previous show.. We all witnessed how much people loved it.. We all know noone can even come closer to SARUN when it comes to chemistry... But that's not the case with CC... N moreover all other characters are merely a props in this show.. Noone is being utilised properly n we could not relate to any character just like we did in IPK... The story has no grip... One more thing, Sanaya is not a kid, she is in her 30's now... She may get married soon.. So it's better for us to give her respect n stop drooling over her n all her co-stars...

Originally posted by: incandescent

Well I am dignified enough to know what is the difference between Love n Lust... I know on what to drool over n what not.. I know the difference between cheap n grace... Sanaya is not some s**t to drool over her n all her co-stars.. I drooled over only one couple n that's SARUN.. Even U did right.. They are the ultimate n one n only one couple for me... I am proud to say that I am capable enough to understand the meaning of Love n live with it n cherish it...

Originally posted by: RashmiNM

Excuse me,

How can you even use that word?

Yes, I drooled over them, because I loved them and I still do. My love was never selfish. I respect them as people and I respect their profession. Unfortunately I can no longer say the same thing about some people.

Sanaya and Barun are actors, they will work with different actors and even they will expect their fans to accept them with other people. If they didn't, they would have quit acting.

My love isn't about actor's personal equations...what I see onscreen, when I drool on something I see onscreen, I am sane enough to know that it is acting.

It was never about a romantic show or a saas bahu or why Sanaya chose this show.

All this opposition from some fans were simply for one reason. I had this feeling when all this negativity started. Now people like you have proved it yourselves.

God save Barun and Sanaya from certain fans.