Too much love - a cause of concern. Updt pg5 - Page 5

Originally posted by: princessunara

dear that is not what Fari is takking about. Yes no matter what they do they will 1st n foremost be ArHi for us.
But this denyong pleasure does it mean to give us pleasure SaRun have to give up their careers? Do u expect them to never again play another role so that 'the pleasure' remains for us even if it destroys their careers? Is that what we should do ? Sure 1 cannot be expected to love all they do post IPK. But just cz of that does it give fans the right to actively sabotage those indovidual careers? Mock their future onscreen partners?
in the hopebthat once both indicidual careers fail they will have no choice but to bow down to oir woshes and xome back together? How selfish s that thinking!
What would u feel if sm1 did that to u in the name of retaining their own 'pleasure'?

and such fans say they love our SaRun! Id u actually love sm1 their hapiness should be more imp to u tjan ur own..at least in my world that is what love is

A very logical post Fari which is very much needed at this time...Sarun have their respective lives to lead, they have the right of decission making...Post IPK Sarun have moved on to different projects but there are a bunch of fans who are still unable to understand this fact...A true Sarun fan will respect their decission and not try to sabotage their careers by constant spamming, bickerings. This will not help us in getting our Sarun back...If they are destined, they shall be back definitely, god willing...They have given us some beautiful memories to cherish as Arshi...Sometimes, I feel that these very so called crazy fans may become a reason for Sarun not to act together in future projects...i just hope it doesn't reach that stage where Sarun may consciously make an effort not to act together

Originally posted by: Jammy-

The "pleasure" that I refer to is, the "pleasure" of remembering them as ArHi.

Did I anywhere say that they should give up their careers?

as for what others hope and pray, I cannot justify things I have not said or done. Neither anyone else has the right to. So what if someone cannot accept them playing anything else? I myself don't watch Chanchan because I am yet to "move on". Now, again, I am not saying people who are watching it love ArHi anyless... I am just saying I am not done with ArHi and I don't think I ever will... does that make me any less of her fan?

What exactly is a fan? A person who is crazy about their work so much so they watch everything they do? I am sorry I am not that person. I don't watch CC because the"story" doesn't appeal to me... but do I wish Sanaya had never taken this project? Well who am I to tell her what to do and what not to... its her life... for me she will always be Khushi and Barun will always be Arnav... I appreciate her and his talent and for me thats what a fan should foremost do.

I don't how to share my views,

Originally posted by: princessunara

dear that is not what Fari is takking about. Yes no matter what they do they will 1st n foremost be ArHi for us.
But this denyong pleasure does it mean to give us pleasure SaRun have to give up their careers? Do u expect them to never again play another role so that 'the pleasure' remains for us even if it destroys their careers? Is that what we should do ? Sure 1 cannot be expected to love all they do post IPK. But just cz of that does it give fans the right to actively sabotage those individual careers? Mock their future onscreen partners?
in the hope that once both individual careers fail they will have no choice but to bow down to our wishes and xome back together? How selfish s that thinking!
What would u feel if sm1 did that to u in the name of retaining their own 'pleasure'?

and such fans say they love our SaRun! If u actually love sm1 their hapiness should be more imp to u than ur own..at least in my world that is what love is

hi dear...
but who wants to sabotage their career???
we love sarun... and they will remain the best for us ever,,,
but tat doesnt mean we dont support sanaya in her new show...
remember one thing,,, we also have watched all the episodes of the show
and wats wrong in voicing our opinions tat the show is not doing justice to her talent and its offtrack...
if we are wrong ...why are the trps so low.?
why is raj badhan tweeting about the show being under scanner???
dont have the right to express our concern??
it was not us who compared CHanman with arhi...
we never did tat,,, bec for us ...ARHI are incomparable ...

our post on the new show... and our opinion ... always gets misunderstood..

we are not going and telling ppl not to watch CC.. why is the trp low.. if everything is so wonderful in the show?

Originally posted by: riti4u

@bold- On one hand you say you appreciate their talent and on other hand -you bind their talent to only Arnav and Khushi. I may not like future work of these actors..but I dont restrict them to just Arnav and Khushi..Yes they were epic and like you I have also not moved on...but that doesnt mean I want them to be in shadow of Arnav and Khushi always.They were part of their career and for the sake of their success in future ,I really hope they are not restricted to it..Noone said here that they are done with Arshi I think..All they said here is that in their future work dont find or compare with Arshi..or restrict them in their careers,that doesnt mean you have to watch each and every show/movie of theirs.In this post only a person said she doesnt watch CC like you but she wishes them all the best for future.Our career choices sometimes go wrong that doesnt mean people are not free to take their own decisions .I think TM pointed out mocking/bashing of actors and people associated with them in their new ventures by fans who claim to love the actor/actress. If you are not involved with it, then I dont think TM points to you in any case or infact to any particular fanbase.

Sorry for intruding but wanted to give my 2 cents on your thoughts.

Originally posted by: saaruipk

hi dear...
but who wants to sabotage their career???
we love sarun... and they will remain the best for us ever,,,
but tat doesnt mean we dont support sanaya in her new show...
remember one thing,,, we also have watched all the episodes of the show
and wats wrong in voicing our opinions tat the show is not doing justice to her talent and its offtrack...
if we are wrong ...why are the trps so low.?
why is raj badhan tweeting about the show being under scanner???
dont have the right to express our concern??
it was not us who compared CHanman with arhi...
we never did tat,,, bec for us ...ARHI are incomparable ...

our post on the new show... and our opinion ... always gets misunderstood..

we are not going and telling ppl not to watch CC.. why is the trp low.. if everything is so wonderful in the show?

Originally posted by: Jammy-

The "pleasure" that I refer to is, the "pleasure" of remembering them as ArHi.

Did I anywhere say that they should give up their careers?

as for what others hope and pray, I cannot justify things I have not said or done. Neither anyone else has the right to. So what if someone cannot accept them playing anything else? I myself don't watch Chanchan because I am yet to "move on". Now, again, I am not saying people who are watching it love ArHi anyless... I am just saying I am not done with ArHi and I don't think I ever will... does that make me any less of her fan?

What exactly is a fan? A person who is crazy about their work so much so they watch everything they do? I am sorry I am not that person. I don't watch CC because the"story" doesn't appeal to me... but do I wish Sanaya had never taken this project? Well who am I to tell her what to do and what not to... its her life... for me she will always be Khushi and Barun will always be Arnav... I appreciate her and his talent and for me thats what a fan should foremost do.

well u contradic urself. Fari talked abt fans who r so stuck in ArHi that they even go to the lengths of destroying their individual ventures in the hope that they can force them to come together again.
And u said u dont agree with her.
So considering that the whole post was about letting them live their lives the way they want. When u disagreed on it i replied to that point.
So tell me how come u didnt tell that u being able to hold on is more imp than thr lives?

Neither Fari nor i have moved on either. I carry every single ArHi scene on my phablet wherever i go. I watch them every damn day. I watch IPK 2 times a day once dubbed n once in hindi. In cannot move on either.
I watch chhanchhan too just like i will watch every single movie arun does. Not liking their future ventures or liking them..watchibg them or notnwatching them is not a yardstock on how big or true a fan u r.
This postnis not about it! This is aboit a set of SaRun fans who go out of theirnway to force SaRun to give up theirbpersonal choices.
Read fari's post again if u didn't realize this.

Cz u have disagreed with the point of letting SaRun live their lives professionally separate despite us wishing they came together. This post is about that. Not ti measure if 1 is a bigger fan if theh watch their future ventures or mot.

It is simply saying u r not a fan if u actively try to dictate to them what to do. Telling that if u actively try to destroy their new ventures by doing negative things just to force their hands u r less of a fan z if u do these things u r just a selfish person who is only after her own pleasure.

My this reply me using 'u' to explain does not mean specifically u. U probably never was inolved with this destructive brigade. N thus didnt understand why this post was made today.

So any of the others who were doing this reads this..ask urself wha5 kind of love is this if ur own happines matters more than their free will and lives

sorrry 4 typos. Ts hard typing on the phab while traveling

Gr8 post dear... Yes too much of anything is good for nothing... I love arshi so much... I always wished IPK to air forever... But it doesnt mean the whole world should end as IPK ended. IPK & arshi will remain my favourite forever. I hope to get IPK 2 one day... But what they think it really matters... They are really talented & they deserve all the success that they dream to achieve... Monaya fans were initially disappointed when Sarun finalised as arshi. I am stating this just for an example... How to decide b4 even giving a chance... Both jodis cannot be compared & both are lovable in their own way. I love sarun as arshi a lot. If monaya fans didnt give sarun a chance, started bashing sarun & IPK b4 it started, how we wld have got this epic? I am sure Sarun will prove their acting skills with their newer projects too... Maybe their future projects may turn better than IPK also... But we should all encourage & support them first. Few obsessed fans are spreading negativity... Hope they understand the difference between love & obsession.

Woah... Take it easy.. I wud have love to reply if my arguments are held with respect. Thus will just end it by saying Sorry if I hurt any sentiments .Take Care