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Posted: 12 years ago
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Fari, it was a wonderful post. I am sure you are aware about people who are creating problems for the actors and reading through your post, i got that impression too.

Loving a pair does not mean that you should stop supporting their individual works, but unfortunately things are different here, at least as far as I am concerned things are not good in that way. Many wants both of the actors to be stagnant in their career and stop pairing up with others.

It was a nice write-up. Nothing to add.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#12
superb post..
i too feel dat.. i think we shuld
not expect somthing which they cnt fulfil.. they r actors & they hav to
move on with other projects...
we shuld accept wat dey r..
in deep heart i will always b a sarun nd arshi fan...but cnt blame dem for anything..everyone has a career so be it wat dey r doing...:)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Fari and princess thanks for the post, 👍🏼
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Brilliant 👏
The sanest post i have read on this forum in a long time.

Yes they created magic together and we will always cherish that and will hope that it happens again. But they are too good as actors to be just bound by that and it is really unfair to them.

Wish the fans pay heed and stop acting as their bodyguards...they are mature adults and can handle themselves..no need to take up cudgels on their behalf for every small thing.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: princessunara

BRAVOOO Fari!!


Since the last few days this has been EXACTLY what has been in my mind!!
THANK U THANK U so much for typing this!!

You are a SaRun fan, a SaRun fan who loves them equally and is known for it. A SaRun fan who unlike me don't even have a few more friends on one group which makes people sometimes think I may be biased just cz of friends though I am not..

BUT you are in a position no1 can point a finger at and I cannot say how glad I am u broached this subject.

The condescending tone, the active sabotages, mud slinging it is unbelievable! The past few days made me aghast seeing the things that happened!!

Let them go!! Let them live their lives!!

We will love them forever! Loving means loving unconditionally. respecting their wishes, allowing them to be who they want to be, go where they want to go to.
TO LIVE LIFE ON THEIR OWN TERMS and NOT OURS.

Like You Fari I have not moved on either, neither would I ever fully.
BUT that does not mean I will become a stone that entangles around their necks and sink them either! Cz as u said this huge online fanbase has become a double edged sword and indeed it is scary what has been happening these few days!!

Let Sanaya go and get along with her show, her new co star, her new romantic scenes and ANYTHING ELSE she wants to do!

And it makes me scared what people will do when Barun's movies will release! What will people stoop to? Will they send petitions ? Wish for box office failures? What?

if the nasty reactions to Sanaya's show is anything to go by I feel scared for movies cz they r one day releases and this so called love can do a lot of harm if limits are not drawn!

Yes relive IPKKND.. watch episodes every single day/ watch VMs, read stories, chat with friends, share photos, celebrate milestones and love it unconditionally

BUT do not force having to live in IPK on either of those 2 actors we love.

For us its life, entertainment and fun and a joy, but for them it is a career, a career which is not and should NOT end because of or after IPKKND.

IF we truly love them let them go..
If IPK 2 is supposed to happen in a future date it should not happen cz fans did everything to destroy their individual careers for their own selfish desires. It should happen naturally once both of them fulfill their personal career goals.

Sanaya is not a child for u to preach moral conduct.. She is grown up enough to handle her own co stars, it is her life let her live it. I am telling this specifically cz this has not yet started for Barun. but it has for Sanaya.

Leave her alone. Don't be condescending and superior and sit in judgement! Its so selfish!
If u ever ever loved them an iota u wouldn't do all this to destroy their individual careers,

Learn that u can be a SaRun fan as well as a Sanaya fan & a Barun fan. Please let them go and live their lives in the way they want and do not force ur own desires on them.

Finally Fari once again thank u so much for writing this 🤗



Thank you Sunara. 🤗🤗

My post is bound to raise some eyebrows but I had to write this post because my priority is SaRun. This has been on my mind since the last couple of days too and I can't hold it inside me anymore. If six months ago someone told me fandom's love can become detrimental in some ways, I would have laughed it off. But I can't help but question a few things now.


Love means loving unconditionally and love means setting people free especially when two people are adults and are fully capable of thinking for themselves.


There is no harm is criticizing scripts and characterizations and voicing disappointment if expectations are not met, I do that all the time and I see a few other doing it too in a healthy way. Not every fan will like every project of theirs, that's perfectly fine too. But to criticize off screen interactions or thinking that fans know what's best for them professionally and personally is something else entirely.


Barun's movies are yet to release. I don't know what will happen then but a few incidents have happened already. A few months ago his PRs FB page and PHs FB was spammed to cast Sanaya in one of his movies. I was not aware of this incident. I came to know about it later from a friend. It's one thing to expect them to work again in future but a different thing to expect them work together every time.


Let them decide for themselves and let's not judge them.


Edited by incandescent - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: GanBarunFan



Awesome post!!! Loved what you said here...wish people would think reasonably like that and stop having unrealistic expectation ... Let them breathe.. Let them grow... If there is another show, another time with them together.. It will happen till then let them flourish in their own space and hope they get projects that do justice to their immense talent as actors.. Individually.. Till *touchwood* something good happens...


Thank you.

At bold - Amen to that.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Agree with whatever you have said, but I can see little hypocrisy here.. People who are disgusted with this obsession now are the same people who support certain team whose main aim is to spread rumors and asking fans to call SP for IPK 2 in their Jodi obsession. What for? SI should stop acting in CC and BS should forgo his movies so that they can back for season 2. Or spamming on Mitali's FB page to cast SI opposite Barun and we all know who these people are..
I am not saying all Sarun fans support the spamming or mission IPK 2, but indirectly supporting it by lending credence to the team by their actions or taking support of that team when defending an actress actions.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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well said...

If you love them ... set them free! Don't try to be their mother/father/guardian... they are adults ... and they have a long career ahead of them ( inshaallah!)... and let them go out and try new things ... some may fail , some may succeed... but as fans we should wish them only the best with all their ventures!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: saalu1

Agree with whatever you have said, but I can see little hypocrisy here.. People who are disgusted with this obsession now are the same people who support certain team whose main aim is to spread rumors and asking fans to call SP for IPK 2 in their Jodi obsession. What for? SI should stop acting in CC and BS should forgo his movies so that they can back for season 2. Or spamming on Mitali's FB page to cast SI opposite Barun and we all know who these people are..
I am not saying all Sarun fans support the spamming or mission IPK 2, but indirectly supporting it by lending credence to the team by their actions or taking support of that team when defending an actress actions.



Thanks for reply. I hope your not assuming I am being hypocritical here. I support anyone or anything as long as I feel it's right. If I think someone has done something right I will appreciate it and criticize it when I feel otherwise. There was a time when I wanted Sarun in a new show after IPK ended. It was before Sanaya took up CC and Barun signed 22 yards. There were both free at the time, so I thought why not?

The moment they signed new projects, I accepted that it can't happen now but I still have that wish.

I don't what happens on FB because I am not there. I came to know about the spamming incident later from a friend and I don't know who participated in the spamming and who didn't.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: KittenRose

Fari, it was a wonderful post. I am sure you are aware about people who are creating problems for the actors and reading through your post, i got that impression too.


Loving a pair does not mean that you should stop supporting their individual works, but unfortunately things are different here, at least as far as I am concerned things are not good in that way. Many wants both of the actors to be stagnant in their career and stop pairing up with others.

It was a nice write-up. Nothing to add.



Thanks Kittenrose,

I hope fans understand it's not wrong to wish to see them together again, but it is wrong to interfere in this way. I am sure every fan means well and love them in their own way, but at the end of the day, they are individuals and we don't own them.
Edited by incandescent - 12 years ago

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