Episode 82-83:Arnav's parents barsi.
It is said no one can really replace your own parents unless you allow them. I was also thinking no other show can really replace IPKKND. I watched Chanchan and I also watched Barun's interview and I guess watching them in the same period as watching episode 82 was a bad idea. Because I was thinking- what the this is not my Sanaya Khushi and our Arnav Bitwa Barun. Arnav looks aeons better in IPKKND then now and there we all were ok with his break because of his health, and Sanaya was more visible with even rags in Khushi then in Chanchan who was so well dressed. I hope no one was offended, but I was really missing my ARSHI.
During the Barsi- About Arnav : I understood one thing- Arnav never let anyone to replace his mother till Khushi came. He never let anyone understand because he never thought anyone would. But when he saw Khushi and Anjali togather he understood that Khushi understands, and probably is the only one who understands. I felt as if he was jealous of Khushi- having one thing parents who love and adore her, for whom she can do anything and he does not have them. On the day of his parent's anniversary he learns she does not have her parents but an adoptive one- and he never even guessed in the small encounter he had with them. He knew he left her job in his office at his office inspite of herself because of a family who were willing to pay the one lac she owed him rather then let her work for him a single day. He knew she had a family who sent her away from Lucknow to Delhi so that she does not have to endure the burnt of disgrace he caused her. He knew she had a family who had paid for her to open a sweet shop because she wanted to. He saw her aunt confronting him when he went to give money for her to work.
It is said that a mom always knows a child's heart. It really showed that even from hereafter Arnav's mom was trying to pacify her son by diverting his attention and ridiculing him with his hidden love for Khushi. He was putting flowers when Khushi had understood that it was his patent's death anniversary. Khushi was pouring the Gangajal for his parents when he interrupted her and took it away. Those same flowers and gangajal drop during the prayers. It seemed as if when he was really missing his parents- his mom- his mom came and diverted his attention by things which would be associated with Khushi.
The love of Gupta's for Khushi. She was their baby and though she was working they still knew she was their baby. When she came back home mom and aunt knew she was going to break down for dad and more concerned for her then dad. When she hugged her dad, he said-so petulantly- I am still breathing, more concerned about her daughter's pain watching him sick then his own sickness. It showed that she had fully accepted this family as her own. The Gupta's were happy to have Khushi and Khushi was happy to have them. They loved her antics, her pagalpaan, her Sanak and all. In seemed as if they knew , Arnav had shared with her his worst nightmare and pain and she still does not know what to think or do, and when her father got sick that opportunity was thankfully taken from her.
Hypocrite Shyam : There he was attending Shashi because of Khushi and on the other had was not even caring to be beside his already wedded wife Anjali, who was paying for his whims on her parent's anniversary and had the ego to get upset because Anjali was cutting the telephone.
Sweet Nani : I was actually smiling at Nani's subtle actions in the beginning. Guess she is still having Khushi in mind for Arnav and Raizadas. She knows that Barsi things are done only by family members so that is why she asked her to bring Gangajal, not La or Mami or Anjali. It seemed as if she wants to tell her daughter, Arnav's Mom, "See what I have chosen for your son. I hope you approve. She she took all the things from me when I could not." Nice way of a grandmother to introduce a prospective bride to mother in law. It must be very painful for her to loss her daughter so tragically and on the same day she was missing her though the rest of the time she was trying her best so that Arnav and Anjali never remember the tragic past associated with their mother.
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