Originally posted by: ArshiHamesha
@Indi
Thnx I don't think I was strong but when Life dump you like that then you just take it as it is and if you are a fighter you can fight but if not then other options you know what but I always seek guidance from God and no one else.He is always there for me.This is my Faith.Yes as a human sometimes I do collapse but thats what life is all about for me.@AmiThnx but I never thought I can inspire anyone and still don't.One day at a time and seriously as I always say take care of you first and then others things fall into its place .Trust me.@samin I never felt regret what I did and doing now as I say My kids are my 1st priority and you know PhD and job and home all three are not possible as you know In US job is demanding and as I have two jobs,Thats why you guys don't see me a lot on Wed, thur...so right now I have way too much in my plate.Of course I will .When I take step forward never look back thats it.Yes I am too honest and that sometimes ppl don't like and I can't manipulate.Straight forward.Either its day or its Night.That's why I am stubborn in that sense.Proud of what?? If I survived and learning each day to do so...that is a miracle itself.@DurgaThnx "issi ka naam zindagi hai" I learned later.I can feel the pain of your friend because even its done ,the wound remains within you forever." rista huwa Nassor"@GoofyThnx dear but I am no hero just a normal person tackling life and all .You are so young but trust me I was worse than you just like Khushi nobody could survive from my pranks and lots of people had headaches from me.lol
Dear ARSHI I did not say this to offend you. I can pretty much guess that you have a lot in your plate. But I think I am proud of being able to interact with you. I think you are underestimating yourself but good that you did not look backward. I always look back not because I want to but sometimes I have to. It is good that you survived, because from what I read in your post that major creepwa whom you called a leech did not deserve you. And you survived no thanks to him, but inspite of him. Thanks to Allah, You know it is always said ' When no one is there Allah is there to help you.' You know when I was 2.5 years old my parents had to leave me in Iran in the middle of the war under the care of my seven years old aunt. They did not know that they could not come back for six months. For obvious reasons I am still upset with my parents because they had the option of taking either my brother or me and they took my brother with them. Guess even your parents can abandon you and you can not blame them for preferring their sons. But I survived, and since then have felt always Allah will help me. Like remember what Khushi said - It is not that Allah does not give pain, but at the same time gives the solution. People always do wrong but Allah always helps those in distress. It is said the two biggest gifts that some one with courage can do is pray and have perseverance. So you did both that is why I think we are all proud of you. It is not something to endure in everyones plate.
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