Originally posted by: Vsc94
if anything people who know me well ,will all agree upon ,is that i brutally honest at all times.
given that,yes your previous post did not sound 'fangurlish' - you sounded just as disillusioned as i am. but i will maintain that the reply,written here,still remains under the 'fangurl' category for me. And evidently, i am not the only one who thinks that way.
but i did like the other post...a lot!
See i am a literature person and I have been trained to take objective stands while analysing a situation, a scene or a book, anything, well now definitely my own personal subjectivity colors it slightly. And therefore I an able to make starkly opposite posts. On the 29th I felt betrayed when I heard Arnav talk about how he would willingly lose to Sheetal, cz thats not wat we were given, we were given an ASR, with very definite personality and that one dialogue seemed to bring that entire compact, concrete past under scrutiny. But the Arnav we now have is a changed man. He said earlier that he'd be awkward with Sheetal staying, but now it seems like with all the friendly banters he is moving from the ex-boyfriend mode to simply a friend mode. Now that said, we have seen him always as a man of few but honest words, and wen he clearly tells Khushi that nothing ever happened between him and Sheetal, he takes it almost for granted that Khushi gets it, I mean if u father a child you'll know, right?
Finally i clarified earlier as well that trying to understand Arnav doesn't make me immune to Khushi's pain, I am a woman myself and were I in her shoes, I would have been just as insecure. The thing is we r doing what the CVs want us to do, we r seeing things mostly frm Khushi's POV. I think the point here is to highlight the contrast between Arnav and Khushi, cz being in love doesn't make u mirror image of one another, u r still urself. And so Khushi reacts to this whole ex-gf fiasco in a typical middle class way while from where Arnav hails, such a thing is no big deal.
Finally I would sincerely request u to go through my SS, cz there i have tried to understand what must be going beneath the obvious. Well hope we r atleast clear that I am not some crazy 'fangirl', who has no arguments except for "I DISAGREE" or a crew member, as must be obvious frm my other post. I am just trying to take a balanced view of things.
Edited by srija.singh04 - 13 years ago
