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deepa

@deeswarna

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Posted: 12 years ago

#31

completely agreeing with u but i was still thinking maybe she is not comfortable asking such kinds of things to him. we all know how babies are made and khushi being khushi, i dunt think she is that bold to talk to her husband bout these things

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chavvi16

@chavvi16

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Posted: 12 years ago

#32

lets hope fuzzy dear
thats all we can do
and am sure arhi wont disappoint us
cheers for pm

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Abhinaya

@HeyDeviMaiyya

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+ 6

Posted: 12 years ago

#33

Nice post Fuzzy and I agree with you,I guess thats the reason why she is not asking him outright ! She fears hearing a yes out of him! Awwee

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@ashmir24

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Posted: 12 years ago

#34

👏Good Answer for the question.You are right Kushi doesnt want to Know the Answer her mind cannot accept it if it is a yes and 😉cvs dont want to tell us the answer so early...😆

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SSB28

@SSB28

Dazzler

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Posted: 12 years ago

#35

I absolutely agree with you ... It is very natural ... We all tend to ignore the things which we fear in life ... Even scientifically it is proved that human brain tends to forget bad memories of life and good memories stay fresh in our minds

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Mandy

@mandy0310

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Posted: 12 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan
MY philosophy in life is NEVER ask a question that you dont want the answer to! (IF you think you cant handle the answer, then dont ask the question)!!

The thing is Khushi IS curiouse, coz of the similarities between Arnav and the kid! But she is also apprehensive of the answer to her question, coz that will confirm her worst fears! It is NEVER easy to ask your husband OR wife if they had physical relationships with anyone before you! SO I sympathize with Khushi on this one!

This is just like the Shyam - Khushi thing! Arnav could NEVER make himself ASK Khushi point blank if she loves Shyam or is having a relationship with him! He could not really HANDLE hearing HER say it! He tolerated Shyam telling him, but hearing it from Khushi would just be TOO final! He will have NO choice but to accept it as the truth!

Khushi is struggeling with something similar to this!

Completely agree, obviously she will be curious especially when those around her rub it in about the similarities between the two but how can she flat out ask her husband if he was intimate with another woman that too when its possible it resulted in a child? Obviously Khushi won't want her fears to be proven right, infact she's been praying that she is proven wrong. Khushi is doing everything she can to prove to herself that this is all in her head, there is nothing to worry about but sadly that is working against her.

It is exactly like what Arnav went through when he thought there was something going on between Shyam and Khushi and we saw how those thoughts consumed him, everytime he got close to Khushi he would be haunted by that hug, those words. It tormented him for months so it is only natural we see Khushi be in the same position. I know its hard to see Khushi's imagination run wild but it is also realistic for her to think this way, her fears and insecurities have been shown really well by the CVs believe it or not. Her inner turmoil is visible, this humor with her being sanka devi is once again her attempts to cover her pain like during the hate marriage

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Maria

@x.titli.x

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Posted: 12 years ago

#37

well I'll be honest I wanted Khushi to ask Arnav coz this track is really disturbing for me but maybe I was selfish and egoistic from Khushi's side I can completely understand I don't want her dreams and love to be shattered once again 😭 she already went through a lot😭

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

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Posted: 12 years ago

#38

I agree. Khushi is scared. But I think, the trust in Arnav is not the issue here. Khushi trusts Arnav with her life. But she does not trust her own luck.

Khushi is scared of her own happiness which she had revealed when Dadi gave her the bangles.
I think, everyone has the same fear of losing someone you love to a certain extent. However, in Khushi's case it's a bit more than that. Because of her circumstances and what she has faced since being an orphan, she is insecure in many ways.

If she had married someone who was from her own social strata, it would have been less. But she married this larger than life character. Even though she fought with him every time he called her low class and unworthy of his attention, in her deep core, she always believed that women like La and Sheetal are more suited to his life style.
If Sheetal was a salwar suit behenji, again, she won't feel as threatened. But she is exactly how La was and ASR used to prefer before she stormed into his life.

ASR on the other hand has never revealed to her that he was affected by her since they met and had been in love with her since before marriage. For her, ASR fell in love with her while they were married because of close proximity.
So she believes if he meets someone from his past who is more suited to his preferred and also the mother of his son, he will leave her or even regret being tied to her.

Now it's ASR's responsibility to make her feel like a queen and the most cherished person in front of Sheetal so that she understands that son or not, she is thecenterof his world.

Also, he needs to make his family stop making thoughtless comments in her presence. Honestly, this family is the height of insensitivity.

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sps0114

@sps0114

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Posted: 12 years ago

#39

Harvard/USA exposure - no problem with live in relationship...he did not believe in love - ASR would have had no problem with a Physical relationship with a Sheetal if he says she was hi GF...its normal for him

Why would he say to Khushi Sheetal moving in would be awkward coz Sheetal is his Ex Girl Friend

ASR never claimed he was a saint...kissing and et al is normal in a relationship for him

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Jammy-

@Jammy-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

MY philosophy in life is NEVER ask a question that you dont want the answer to! (IF you think you cant handle the answer, then dont ask the question)!!
The thing is Khushi IS curiouse, coz of the similarities between Arnav and the kid! But she is also apprehensive of the answer to her question, coz that will confirm her worst fears! It is NEVER easy to ask your husband OR wife if they had physical relationships with anyone before you! SO I sympathize with Khushi on this one!
This is just like the Shyam - Khushi thing! Arnav could NEVER make himself ASK Khushi point blank if she loves Shyam or is having a relationship with him! He could not really HANDLE hearing HER say it! He tolerated Shyam telling him, but hearing it from Khushi would just be TOO final! He will have NO choice but to accept it as the truth!
Khushi is struggeling with something similar to this!

I second that.