Are we really that Unreasonable - Page 18

Originally posted by: CuteSARUN

dear the Cvs hav definately failed to portray the inner turmoil of girls like khushi,,,, a normal gal would nvr evr forgive a person like asr so easily,,, love n self respect r two different things,,, khushi didn evn stand up 4 her self respect once,,, her MAHAANTA is so unreal,,,

i hated whn arnav tried to woo her back in ASR style,, whn he hurt her in his own ways,,, he could hav atleast tried to show her his love in khushi's way,,,,, he did tht ,, but very much later,,, wht was d need to blackmail her,, n y did khushi give in so easily,,,, dont u evr realise tht wht CVs show is so much unrealistic,,,

m sorry if i offend u,,, but i dont respect ASR anymore...

Originally posted by: Fazila~

ya... thats y i remained silent n when u spoke in my defense n gave me strength ...u dont even know me...u came to my rescue..bless u...🤗😳

Originally posted by: prettypri

😊

Your point was perfectly valid and the 'attacking answer' was unfair,,,l am never one to back down when I feel I am right...applied the same logic to you...

Originally posted by: Ankita.M

ASR and Khushi have been shown the way their characters have been etched. Khushi is not the girl who sits and cries what happened in the past, she may look timid but she has the strongest will power and an amazing zeal to live her life happily, making the others happy.

If ASR was like any other person you mention he wouldn't be the character that is etched for him. Its not the show or characters that need to change, it is our perspective that needs to change.

Originally posted by: Fazila~

thanks appreciate it... they could have attacked u too... i think i touched a nerve...😳

Originally posted by: tia.o

Precisely. So tell me whose point of view did you watch today? Did you see a woman's pain who suspects her husband to have illegitimate child with another woman? Did you see a husband's worry to see restlessness and unsettling behaviour of his wife and his attempt to get to the truth?

What I saw was a woman who is behaving like crazy instead of dealing with it in a mature manner. But before you say she is always like this, let me remind you that she handled a personal tragedy like Anjali's pregnancy or even her potentially being left at the alter in a matured manner.

I saw a husband who saw his wife's restlessness and tension, yet chose to believe whatever she said because it was convenient to do so. But before you say he is like that, let me remind you, when Khushi left for Gupta House 7 days before the end of contract, he did not believe any of her lies because at that time it was not convenient to believe in them. Today, he believed her such obvious lies for the same reason.

Originally posted by: prettypri

Most welcome..

Maybe my answer to the attack was more attacking..ha ha ha

Originally posted by: tia.o

See, no one is saying that Arnav can't be polite to a guest. But he saw that Khushi is feeling uncomfortable. I understand that he does not see what Khushi suspects (although I don't understand how he can't since the entire RM is so hell bent on pointing out the similarities). So he may believe she is old-fashioned but then he always knew that when she reacted strongly during his live-in with La. But since Sheetal is nobody to him and his wife obviously means the world, why offer her a job and not keep her away from his life? I mean she drops in with this huge drama of not feeding her child breakfast who just fainted the day before. What kind of mother does that?

You know Rima, once I told my husband that one of his ex makes me feel uncomfortable with her snide remarks about me being Indian and how he likes golden brown skin tone (he is white and Canadian). He listened to me, understood my point, even though he thought that the girl said it as a joke he stopped planning any outing together with that girl. His point was, she means nothing to me and you mean everything. So if you are uncomfortable, I don't need to hang out with her group and that was it. Ours is no legendary devi-maiyya approved romance. But what we have got is mutual respect and understanding. I'd like to know where is that between Arnav and Khushi.

Hell, they take each other granted within a week of their marriage, how will their romance last? Where is the attempt to plan a romantic date? Or even a small walk or even a honeymoon trip? Khushi is busy pandering to her in-laws, ASR is busy in his business. They completely forgot that they are newly wedded couple. Where is the ASR who pulled Khushi behind the pillar in the middle of Janmashtami celebration?

Originally posted by: Ankita.M

ASR and Khushi have been shown the way their characters have been etched. Khushi is not the girl who sits and cries what happened in the past, she may look timid but she has the strongest will power and an amazing zeal to live her life happily, making the others happy.

If ASR was like any other person you mention he wouldn't be the character that is etched for him. Its not the show or characters that need to change, it is our perspective that needs to change.