Are we really that Unreasonable - Page 20

Well I have figured out one thing, IPK IF audience is a bunch of people who can never be satisfied and are way judgemental about anything and everything.

Originally posted by: Ankita.M

I saw a girl worrying over the facts what the others have pointed out to her, which she had been observing herself (read: similarities between Arnav and Aarav) and convincing herself that she is overreacting. Since it is the initial phase of her being shaken by the similarities and just knowing that Sheetal knew Arnav before, she cannot take it so seriously because every normal person would think he/she could be wrong before knowing the truth. She is dealing with it like the character of Khushi would.

Aarav and Sheetal have just walked into their life a day back( according to the calender of the show) and Arnav isn't seeing this the way Khushi is. He always knew Khushi would feel jealous like any spouse does and he knows she is restless about it, which is why he went to talk to her. When he himself does not consider Sheetal anything in his life now or before, he doesn't know how far Khushi's mind has reached.

SO you see, I considered both the opinions and found them each extremely sane and could relate to them. Because you see I watch the show considering they are 'fictional' characters, and I do not expect them to do something real and perfect in every episode, which would basically just end the show then.

Originally posted by: srija.singh04

Well I have figured out one thing, IPK IF audience is a bunch of people who can never be satisfied and are way judgemental about anything and everything.

Now what according to u guys has gone wrong,

The hate marriage...

The kidnap track

The Dadi track... etc etc etc

Well thats my point you see, its a show, a tv show and they'll want to stretch it as much as possible and for that they need tensions, some real, some not so real, they need MUs, pinch of happiness, pinch of love, pinch of hatred... what exactly could they have shown for these more than 350 episodes if all the audience was ever fine with was Rabba Ves and eye staring.

This show belongs to the genre of drama, and they have to have drama for the show to go on, and what is it that people identify the most with in any show? Yes the lead pair. So the leads have to go through constant trobles if the show has to go on, we may feel sad about it, I do all the time, but we must never forget that its inevitable, cz happily ever afters mean the end.

Originally posted by: rima

your husband is admirable tia

comes with being a western husband

let me assure you in India once people get married

is family family and family

people do go for a honeymoon

but our show is hat ke na

so no honeymoon also😊

Originally posted by: prettypri

I am talking about addressing the wrongs he did...not necessarily saying sorry for each of them..my POV is its not enough for him to remarry her when dadi said so...I stand b that...when Anjalis pain can be dragged Nd dragged why not Khushis??

And Khushis characterisation as a joker is very visible off late..the girl wo made jalebis had spunk...she didn't cry and forgive when ASR sent her to a dilapidated guesthouse...she fought back...for lavanya she demanded justice..where is it in her case?? Her ability to move on doesn't mean she doesn't feel pain...during the kidnap they showed Khushis fea of losing Arnav...I am talking of the opposite...why didn't she ever think of what Anav did to her??

I don't know what you are seeing as Arnavs apology..but I think that part has been brushed aside...for now...

Originally posted by: srija.singh04

Well I have figured out one thing, IPK IF audience is a bunch of people who can never be satisfied and are way judgemental about anything and everything.

Now what according to u guys has gone wrong,

The hate marriage...

The kidnap track

The Dadi track... etc etc etc

Well thats my point you see, its a show, a tv show and they'll want to stretch it as much as possible and for that they need tensions, some real, some not so real, they need MUs, pinch of happiness, pinch of love, pinch of hatred... what exactly could they have shown for these more than 350 episodes if all the audience was ever fine with was Rabba Ves and eye staring.

This show belongs to the genre of drama, and they have to have drama for the show to go on, and what is it that people identify the most with in any show? Yes the lead pair. So the leads have to go through constant trobles if the show has to go on, we may feel sad about it, I do all the time, but we must never forget that its inevitable, cz happily ever afters mean the end.

Originally posted by: tia.o

See you are again contradiction yourself.

a. If you find them "extremely sane" and can "relate" to them, then why do you not expect them to do something "real" in every episode? Which means either you don't find them sane or your expectations are low. Which is fine. But our expectations are higher than yours.

Secondly, if you do believe they are fictional characters, why are you so strongly trying to defend their actions? Would you defend Irpn Man as strongly?

We have loved this characters since the show started. So even though this characters are fictional, they are not showing fantasy land in Mars. They are showing 21st century family. Hence the characters should be consistent with the attitude and behavior befitting their characterizations. That is our opinion and we are sticking to it.

If you believe they are fictional character, then why are you wasting your time arguing with us?

Originally posted by: tia.o

Clarify something for me Rima. Why do we not think that wife is family too? In fact, wife is the only family. Go to any insurance company or Govt. institution, they recognize a wife the only family and your children of course. Everyone else falls under immediate family.

Then why do we, in our home, consider the wife an outsider and not a part of the family? Why not put her in the top priority list? Why her happiness, her wishes stops mattering once the knot is tied?

Originally posted by: tia.o

See you are again contradiction yourself.

a. If you find them "extremely sane" and can "relate" to them, then why do you not expect them to do something "real" in every episode? Which means either you don't find them sane or your expectations are low. Which is fine. But our expectations are higher than yours.

Secondly, if you do believe they are fictional characters, why are you so strongly trying to defend their actions? Would you defend Irpn Man as strongly?

We have loved this characters since the show started. So even though this characters are fictional, they are not showing fantasy land in Mars. They are showing 21st century family. Hence the characters should be consistent with the attitude and behavior befitting their characterizations. That is our opinion and we are sticking to it.

If you believe they are fictional character, then why are you wasting your time arguing with us?

Well said Tia. It's a matter of convenience for Arnav and the cvs here..They just implement tracks and handle situations according to their convenience.. Arnav found it easy to believe her lies because she is already with him and not away from him... He knows her mind is restless yet he chose to do nothing about it.. i want to wring the cvs neck for sidelining her emotions all the time.. Now let's say the cv's wanted to portray in pain Khushi as funny, Arnav knew what her cause for acting that way was.. His expressions said it all.. I particularly hated the way he hugged her and made a face because she was acting that way instead of understanding her and dealing with it well, because she is very precious to him. I so hate the fact that it's always told from his POV and never hers.

Originally posted by: Ankita.M

To feel sorry for the wrong you did, to try and ease the others pain, and to stand up by the person is more an apology than the 5 letter word 'sorry'

When she fought with him initially in lavanya's case/or when she was working for him, she did not know him, but when she married him she got to know the real Arnav. Which is why she never asked for an explanation or held a grudge against him.

She has been shown questioning why he did what he did to her many a times before she came

to know why he married her. When she understood why he had done so, she couldn't hold the grudge anymore, because she had always feared a misunderstanding from his part if he would ever come to know about Shyam being the man who had been engaged to her. They have always given an explanation to what they showed, we just expect a bit too much out of everything.