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Arshics thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
#31
Thank you once again for saying that

I have always found your posts to be both sensitive and sensible

Criticising the actions of a character is positive and healthy,

But using offensive and insulting language is not fair

It is a story and we will not always agree with the writers and makers

We as viewers are entitled to express our views

But to demand that story writers write a certain way is not right

To use derogatory terms for CVs , actors, characters is in correct

There is a line between criticism and bashing, and we are blatantly crossing that line
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Posted: 12 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: debby_11

And few people actually thinks like this...they do not think before commenting...Lord the world is actually coming to an end


For these thoughts every problem related to women occurs...Here women does not understand another women...I am ashamed of them

well said
they shud be ashamed of themselves too
but they are not
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Posted: 12 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: poolovesarnav

I agree! Khushi bashed for being cute,
Arnav bashed if he stands quiet,
NK bashed for being a friend,
Anjali bashed for recovering early,
No one is spared :((((



Exactly what I was thinking. One the reason why I rarely post on discussions is that "fans" keep changing and saw switching sides after one episode sure it not what we excepted but seriously. Please refrain from bad mouthing characters. If don't like that's your opinion but calling characters names for one or a couple of scenes is bit too much. Seriously some posts are just appalling. Some of these posts are more cringeworthy then the actual episode. Some can be said for the posts that called Arnav spineless or ott for his dance. Just to remind those people again Arnav and Khushi do/act the way they do for each other. Arnav would prefer Khushi's "OTT" everyday why? Because has he said himself he loves her for who she is and doesn't want her to change if you don't believe me. Please go back to watching the pervious episode. Just as Khushi loves him despite everything he has done. Once again I request watch pervious episodes.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: kookie2020

Really?

Have sex with another woman?
Rima, please gimme the link, I meed to see these posts for myself.
I have refrained myself from participating in any discussion with lunatics, but this is just too much.
Is this how a marriage works?
And who is preaching this?

who else
one of the famous phan girls
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Posted: 12 years ago
#35
Rima,
Why dont you see it as people immensely frustrated and totally embarrassed by Khushi's behavior?
This is an Internet Forum, people use it to vent and release their frustration.
You seem to be taking everything literally and go into a preachy mode in defense of the story or ASR or Khushi.
Most people cannot lash out in real life.
Moral policing behavior in such situations will not yield you the results you want..
Its impossible to "legislate" and "mandate" "appropriate" behavior.
People IMO get ENOUGH rules, regulations and codes of conduct for EVERYTHING in real life
THIS IS FICTION
Viewers should have the privelege to lash out at the CHARACTERS!
I am sure the "Creatives" and Production House must have perceived such reactions when they shot the cringeworthy scenes
Forcing people to bottle it up and "behave properly" is absurd
Edited by aditee - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: arshicritic

Thank you once again for saying that


I have always found your posts to be both sensitive and sensible

Criticising the actions of a character is positive and healthy,

But using offensive and insulting language is not fair

It is a story and we will not always agree with the writers and makers

We as viewers are entitled to express our views

But to demand that story writers write a certain way is not right

To use derogatory terms for CVs , actors, characters is in correct

There is a line between criticism and bashing, and we are blatantly crossing that line

thanks
yes
even i criticize asr sometimes
but in the 15000 plus posts of mine
I have never once abused him or asked him to get slapped
though he has been much worse
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Posted: 12 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: rima

who else
one of the famous phan girls


Love is blind...They are so damn blind that they need a reality check
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Posted: 12 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: aditee

Rima,
Why dont you see it as people immensely frustrated and totally embarrassed by Khushi's behavior?
This is an Internet Forum, people use it to vent and release their frustration.
You seem to be taking everything literally and go into a preachy mode in defense of the story or ASR or Khushi.
Most people cannot lash out in real life.
Moral policing behavior in such situations will not yield you the results you want..
Its impossible to "legislate" and "mandate" "appropriate" behavior.
People IMO get ENOUGH rules, regulations and codes of conduct for EVERYTHING in real life
THIS IS FICTION
Viewers should have the privelege to lash out at the CHARACTERS!
I am sure the "Creatives" and Production House must have perceived such reactions when they shot the cringeworthy scenes
Forcing people to bottle it up and "behave properly" is absurd

you said it
it is democratic forum
I am expressing my frustration and disappointment
And no one is forcing
You are free not to read not to comment and not to follow
nd I am free to call wrong a wrong
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Posted: 12 years ago
#39
i know some forum members are sick!!
being women themselves how can they say something like that 😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: rima

so what if it is poor light?
does it watrrant a slap
and arnav having sex with someone else?
then khushi shud have sex with the whole ton for arnav's actions


No it does not warrant such a reaction, but if the CV's continue with this sort of crap, then we will only end up getting such comments.

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