Appalling insensitivity of some forum posts

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@Punkin22

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Posted: 12 years ago

#161

Hi Rima, you know how I feel about our Khushi. To read what has been posted about her is difficult to read and stomach. So, I just stayed away from IF a bit. I should have know you, my sweet friend, would take the battle to heart. Love you for that.

The mis-reading of Khushi's character is unbelievable. Her 'class' is of the highest caliber by any standard that really counts. She has such a pure heart and soul. I am proud always to be a Khushi's fan.

If Arnav wanted to be 'alone' with Khushi, he is a grown man, can he not think of a plan to get her undivided attention??

Thank you as always...have a wonderful weekend my friend..

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sonapari

@sonapari

Dazzler

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Posted: 12 years ago

#162

This is democratic forum.

I agree people have freedom.

This is a public forum & we all know that.

But...

Freedom of speech doesn't mean you can cross limits of basic human decency

You shouldn't post or write anything here that you couldn't tell anyone in person.

I am no fan of rude,arrogant & volatile ASR.

I never liked his onscreen persona.

I have often criticized him before kidnapping track.

But criticism should have some boundaries...

It should be classy.

Difference between Tina fey & other's mockery of Sarah plain needs to be mentioned here.

Now David letterman joked about Sarah palin's teenaged daughter getting knocked up by someone...

It was a joke...

But it was in bad taste...

I was shocked that he said such a thing.

I didn't enjoy it...no one did...

A funny man as David had to apologize for his crude remarks...

Freedom of speech is important part of democracy.

But if you have the rights...you need to have duties too.

Rights & duties are two sides of coin.

Being respectful is such a basic thing...

There is a line which should never be crossed.

Tina fey literally did what 1000 jokes of David letterman couldn't have done.

She was classy & respectful.

Criticizing someone / character is perfectly ok.

But it should be done with self respect,dignity & sensitivity.

Because what you post or how you write show how classy you are.

Not only as a writer but more importantly as a person.

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ayaman

@ayaman

Explorer

Posted: 12 years ago

#163

Originally posted by: simran04
Very well said...completely agree wid u...
Posts advising arnav to have sex wioth someone else is the height of insensitivity and immature behaviour...i admit what she did was embarrassing but she shouldn't be slapped for pacifying her husband...
Really some people need to grow up!!

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S111

@S111

Voyager

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

#164

Originally posted by: aashi_82
agreed.

to be fair i wasnt happy with the OTTness - but the list of things that arnav has made me unhappy about are a lot longer.

either way, they are both FICTIONAL characters...when i criticize either of them i am criticizing the CVs.

and i would never condone violence against women (be it a slap, or manhandling!)

its when people start blurring the line between real and reel we get silly posts like that.

Exactly !!! By the way this forum hasn't spared any character from bashing beyond limits. I'm just hating to come to the forums nowadays.

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Mandy

@MrDarcyfan

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 12 years ago

#165

Agree Rima! No end to the blame game! Every week it is something new!

This time lets slap Khushi coz she was being un-classy! No she was not un-classy, maybe a bit "Un-polished"!! Class and sophistication are VERY different things! You can be a classy person WITHOUT being sophisticated! (class is in what you stand for, how you treat people etc!)... NOT how you dress or how snobbish you are!!

A LOT of sophisticated people are downright UN-classy! Just coz you dress in western clothes and speak English does not make you classy! (I have lived in the West most of my life, but know very well that these things are not what makes a person classy!)

I think a lot of people are just being Mean! Being females we dont know how to support another female when she makes a blunder! However, for a man "Saath Khoon Maaf"!!

Not a good look from a female dominated forum!

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@abracadabra

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

#166

Seeing this post really late Rimu. sowwiee😊

People have crossed all limits i say. Insensitive? are they really human beings or animals? Humans possess the thinking power and hence can act and differentiate between right and wrong... It really questions the mental stability of the person in question. No wonder men often accuse us of being unfair to our own sex. Because of people like these.. I think the real young people watching this show need parent's guidance.. You see, they gulp down whatever is shown and think it's right.. It's really sad though if this is the mindset they have been accustomed to at home too.

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800734

Suspended

Posted: 12 years ago

#167

This is pathetic...slap post I have seen...but who said the following two..
"Arnav should have sex with someone else

And Lavanya should be brought back to teach a lesson"

This is unbelievable...People also think like this here???

Who are they??

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207shikha

@207shikha

Inactive

Posted: 12 years ago

#168

m a humanist too.!

completely agree with you.

ppl should really stop all this.

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Frigate

@Frigate

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

#169

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan
Agree Rima! No end to the blame game! Every week it is something new!

This time lets slap Khushi coz she was being un-classy! No she was not un-classy, maybe a bit "Un-polished"!! Class and sophistication are VERY different things! You can be a classy person WITHOUT being sophisticated! (class is in what you stand for, how you treat people etc!)... NOT how you dress or how snobbish you are!!

A LOT of sophisticated people are downright UN-classy! Just coz you dress in western clothes and speak English does not make you classy! (I have lived in the West most of my life, but know very well that these things are not what makes a person classy!)

I think a lot of people are just being Mean! Being females we dont know how to support another female when she makes a blunder! However, for a man "Saath Khoon Maaf"!!

Not a good look from a female dominated forum!

@RED: Agree! One of my uncles (who is no more) used to say that culture is not something that comes with acquiring wealth! He was so right! I have seen many "wealthy" people behave in an uncultured manner. Frankly speaking the ASR of last year can be grouped under the category of uncultured. Because, cultured men would never treat a woman with disrespect! Forget emotional and physical torture.

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Mandy

@mandy0310

Alumni

+ 8

Posted: 12 years ago

#170

DT recieved reports, closing for reviewal

**Updated Note: This thread will remain closed as the majority of posts are member based. No need for moral policing especially since the most of the topics were already handled by the DTs**

Edited by .Mandy. - 12 years ago

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