Appalling insensitivity of some forum posts - Page 13

because both share awesome camaraderie and chemistry both on and off the screen which irks them no end and makes them go for the jugular

And I cry for SI she cheerfully enacts any scene that has been given to her without a tantrum or showing disinterest or looking bored She still continues to give her best although in her heart she must be feeling sad and if she were to ever read some of the vitriol poured over here on her character and her she would be totally disgusted at the skewered thinking of some the women here who have some really ugly souls for only that could account for the venom in a forum mostly of women for women by women but so bitter vile and spiteful against one woman

Originally posted by: mayad

Rima, as you are aware I have said time and again that it is women who are the most harmful to other women. True change in countries where women are not just oppressed but murdered just because they are female must start with women respecting women!

For men to change and show us respect, we must start that change within ourselves and ensure that we instill true values and respect in our children. This forum is a good reflection of judgmental women who needs to look in a mirror before they write such idiotic comments! I wonder if they realize how much harm they do to women just like themselves!

Glad that you have the energy to continue to take on the challenge to continue with new posts of this nature! Like you I am not a feminist, I am just a woman who respects men and women, flaws and all!

Maya

Originally posted by: FairyLiquidSoap

Rima very well written as always

the problem with many of the hardliners here is that they tend to judge her from the prism of their own personal feelings for the other actor yes very harsh but the bitter truth they tend to confuse the character with the actor so have trouble differentiating between KKG the character and SI who plays her and why you may ask

because both share awesome camaraderie and chemistry both on and off the screen which irks them no end and makes them go for the jugular

And I cry for SI she cheerfully enacts any scene that has been given to her without a tantrum or showing disinterest or looking bored She still continues to give her best although in her heart she must be feeling sad and if she were to ever read some of the vitriol poured over here on her character and her she would be totally disgusted at the skewered thinking of some the women here who have some really ugly souls for only that could account for the venom in a forum mostly of women for women by women but so bitter vile and spiteful against one woman

Seriously she deserves all acting awards as a reward for I doubt any other actor would consent to such scenes and it is a travesty that they have not considered her she is truly a one of a kind actor

I defy any actor male or female to consider doing half the stuff she does she is a true craftsperson worthy of her art

Originally posted by: meghapatel79

I know i will be bashed for this..but

I can relate to ASR character more yes i know i am girl etc..

But i can't relate to khushi even if i try.

ASR character have very grey shades , from the beginning

He always fight with his emotions. and made mistakes which is human nature..which somewhat i relate to..

cv's never felt to show khushi emotions or depth.. i want her to make mistakes, like anger ,selffishness jealousy like normal human girl.. how she battles with it..

I seriously don't want her all mahan devi..forgive so easily,i want to know what she felt..

also It's quite insulting to say those who can't relate to khushi or sympathize with her are immorals girls..

you can't judge them for that.

hope you understand my POV.

Originally posted by: BlueM

Check out this poll.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/iss-pyaar-ko-kya-naam-doon/3144917/ipkknd-fans-age-range

If I consider that the bigger part of IPK fans are between 15-20, then looking at the subject and language of the posts these days I feel little worried sometimes. Either I am suffering from generation-gap or generation is suffering from lack of sensitivity.

But I would like to add that CVs also do suffer from lack of sensitivity often. The Khushi character is a great creation and unique in its own way. But sometimes they make her do some things which does not go with her outline. Khushi is impulsive, little weird, very emotional and sometimes even reckless...but she is not unintelligent, She never was. Writers should remember it while writing the tracks.

Originally posted by: lovesharun

Thanks Rima for this much needed post! ⭐️

I really feel pathetic, more than sad and surprised to see such posts. How can our smart generation of today define humanity with such insensitivity?!!

Such comments can not be justified in any sense; not in the sense of fun or joke or criticism or disappointment or frustration.😕

Originally posted by: mini_00

Nice post Rima...Opposites always attract each other" holds good for any successful married life. If the couples have same likes and dislikes, life seems to be a boring one.

It is good that Khushi and arnav have different tastes. Marriage requires a lot of adjustment. Both of them gradually tend to respect each other likes and dislikes. That is how a good relationship blossoms.

Its okay if khushi love films and arnav hates it for the time being Life together is a journey with a few adjustments and a few give and takes. Love has to accept the other person with all his or her peculiarities, weaknesses, (Even though she behaves chidish' to show care true love) and pettiness. Love prepares a home for the other.. Khushi being a flexible girl she tries to satify her husband and her in-laws. In reality it's very difficult to see such character. Misunderstandings are inevitable in a relationship. Without petty quarrels, relationship is no spice and couples won't grow.. I think they are trying to depict this aspect...

Originally posted by: rima

agree with all points

but khushi has always been intelligent

from day 1

she is the one who thought of going and talking to her jeejaji during payal's wedding to ask for the dahej to be brought down

she showed her intelligence in the office too

but the writers ruin her from time to time

Originally posted by: dsnair

Nice post Rima,

I liked yesterday's episode..'

It showed their understanding and love for each other ...

The moment Khushi realized that Arnav wanted to spent some private moments with her

She was ready to pacify him...even by wearing western outfits,ready to watch an English movie...

She tried to accept his interests there...

Arnav though was upset with her due to the happenings in the office,

When he realized that she did all those antics to pacify him

He immediately melted...

Accepted wht she did...

She s weird...he loves her weirdness...

Lovely couple...!!!

It clearly showed their comfort level...!

If they can accept each other with all their flaws...why can't we accept them?

So let's enjoy their journey of love,care and understanding!