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SStephy

@SStephy

Dazzler

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Posted: 12 years ago

#81

I agree there are fan wars and groupism in this forum that sometimes creates a negative atmosphere for members. I am no one's fan.. just a viewer of the show. I don't belong to any group... I comment in threads/ topics that I feel like commenting...

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neena

@shadesofme

Stunner

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Posted: 12 years ago

#82

Originally posted by: Afya

😆 Is your group visiting this thread? How about I talk to you as an individual and not as a group?😉
see u again mentioned my group😆
i am always an individual when it comes to opinion but if some one bashes/attack my friends then i am with them
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I know. I did not imply that you fight. But being groups divides the forum. United we stand, Divided we fall! We all love IPKKND, then why groups?
i know that dear but i cant sit silently and watch my fav charectaor/actor/friend being targeted so i will take sides anyway i am always ready to change and ask people to change for positivity only if we are not targeted or if they stop giving us names😊

I am glad you want positivity too. Do comment more in the forum. We need to be the change we want to see.

i am always open for healthy discussions 😊

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Afya

@Afya

Dazzler

+ 5

Posted: 12 years ago

#83

Originally posted by: -Neloufer-
I understand people like me, Who like one actor more than the other [I Love Sanaya, Whereas I like Barun] are making a mess out of the forum.

But I am not alone. Sanaya fans are not alone in making a mess. Otehrs are there too! Together we divided the forum into two. Now,Whatsoever happens, I wont become a SaRun fan again till I have a proper discussion with the other group regarding this.

Their indirect comments like -" Loved only Barun and hated everyone else today" started all this.

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Will edit my comment soon =)

@ Bold: I was not part of that thread and so I have no clue what happened. But if someone said the 'bold', it's her /his personal opinion/view. What's wrong in that? Why would you take offence?

For eg, In my ratings thread on Thursday, I rated the episode at 1, while most rated it at 10. I had my reasons for my opinion. Just because my opinion does not match with the majority, does not mean I am wrong or that I am not a IPKKND fan.

Edited by Afya - 12 years ago

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Afya

@Afya

Dazzler

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Posted: 12 years ago

#84

Originally posted by: S.Stephy
I agree there are fan wars and groupism in this forum that sometimes creates a negative atmosphere for members. I am no one's fan.. just a viewer of the show. I don't belong to any group... I comment in threads/ topics that I feel like commenting...

Exactly! This forum would be such a nice place if everyone here did the same.😊

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incandescent

@incandescent

Sparkler

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Posted: 12 years ago

#85

Good post Afya. I will write a longer reply later.

reserved.

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Afya

@Afya

Dazzler

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Posted: 12 years ago

#86

Originally posted by: -Neloufer-
riti4u - Have seen people call you Di, I guess I can too,If you dont mind 😊
Di and Afya, You know we cant judge anyone listening to one side of a story right? You have heard a story from Aditi [Baruns side] Not from Sanaya's fan's side. Maybe after listening , You will find both of us right in out own places.

I find both of you right in your own place even without the story dear. Because it is not about which group is right or which group was attacked first or who said what. It's about discussing as individuals in this forum. If you for a minute think yourself and every one else as a member of this forum alone and not as part of any group and discuss with other individuals on the topics you want to respectfully and peacefully, then imagine how peaceful and interesting this forum will be. There will be differences, but we can agree to differ in our views peacefully, Can't we?

My personal suggestion to all of the groups is to let bygones be bygones and start afresh. Imagine you are a newbie here and explore the forum. Like and comment what you agree on and not because it's your friend's thread or because someone said something about your friend.

Edited by Afya - 12 years ago

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riti4u

@riti4u

Stunner

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Posted: 12 years ago

#87

Originally posted by: -Neloufer-
riti4u - Have seen people call you Di, I guess I can too,If you dont mind 😊
Di and Afya, You know we cant judge anyone listening to one side of a story right? You have heard a story from Aditi [Baruns side] Not from Sanaya's fan's side. Maybe after listening , You will find both of us right in out own places.

you cn call me anything 😊 ..you are right that we cnt judge frm one side of story and I know what has offended you ... I am nt justifying any of my friends action...if they calld u or anyone with names..I am ready to have talks with them on this..but I know they did this coz they were targetted too... trust me when I say ,I know exactly what is goin on..I have been observant.. 😊..I have huge list of my complaints from some of sanaya fans...but I will never hold any grudge for Sanaya or even some of her fans who are decent in conversation

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riti4u

@riti4u

Stunner

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Posted: 12 years ago

#88

Originally posted by: Afya

I find both of you right in your own place even without the story dear. Because it is not about which group is right or which group was attacked first or who said what. It's about discussing as individuals in this forum. If you for a minute think yourself and every one else as a member of this forum alone and not as part of any group and discuss with other individuals on the topics you want to respectfully and peacefully, then imagine how peaceful and interesting this forum will be. There will be differences, but we can agree to differ in our views peacefully, Can't we?

My personal suggestion to all of the groups is to let bygones be bygones and start afresh. Imagine you are a newbie here and explore the forum. Like and comment what you agree on and not because it's your friend's thread or because someone said something about your friend.

I am with you Afya. I am just trying a bit coz many people who are unaware of this thing is getting caught in between and it doesnt look nice..

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Afya

@Afya

Dazzler

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Posted: 12 years ago

#89

Originally posted by: neenaLUVarnav
see u again mentioned my group😆
i am always an individual when it comes to opinion but if some one bashes/attack my friends then i am with them

I only mentioned as you told me to watch out for replies soon. What you have described is groupism. If someone attacks/bashes you or your friends, Ignore their post. It's not worthy of your attention. Infact your friend should do the same.

Originally posted by: neenaLUVarnav

i know that dear but i cant sit silently and watch my fav charectaor/actor/friend being targeted so i will take sides anyway i am always ready to change and ask people to change for positivity only if we are not targeted or if they stop giving us names😊

What is targeting your favourite character/actor? All of us are fans of the show and have favourites. We all have our opinions too about the show/characters/ actors that may not be the same as you. But that doesn't mean I am targeting ''your favourite'' actor/character. I will merely be discussing my view on a character, favourite or not.

i am always open for healthy discussions 😊

And peaceful ones.

Edited by Afya - 12 years ago