Request for Peace in the Forum!

First Previous

Page

Next Last

Frequent Posters

Afya

@Afya

Dazzler

+ 5

Posted: 13 years ago

#71

Originally posted by: riti4u
Sure ,spreading your post and positivity...🤗

Thanks😊. I hope this peace initiative spreads like wildfire.😆

Quote

riti4u

@riti4u

Stunner

+ 7

Posted: 13 years ago

#72

Just wanted to reply to one post above dear ...if they want to have discussions.. I am in to call barun fans for it and settle differences but are they ready ? as many of barun fans that I know are interested in team Sarun..and if they want to discuss it..as if differences are...they are on both sides then... I love barun more than sanaya..but that doesnt mean that I dont adore her..

Quote

Looks like you are new here. Register for free, learn and contribute.

Mrs.Beckham Sobti

@.shinchan.

Trailblazer

+ 7

Posted: 13 years ago

#73

Originally posted by: Afya

Thanks for liking my post😊. No, Being in a group doesn't make one a gunda. But why do we need one? If you like discussing Barun, start a thread orparticipatein other threads you like as an individual.
When you discuss as a group, it closes door for everyone else and also you close yourself to others too. And sometimes, we don't see the right from the wrong when discussing as a group. We somehow get the group mentality. I am just voicing my opinion here. You are free to disagree. I think the forum will be lot better, if we don't have groups.

Target you directly? Really? With a gun? See, If people post improper or personal remarks about you, Ignore them. That's the bestresponsefor them. If you stoop to their level, what's the difference between you and them?

see we hv been tagged as Group..
actually we created a chatclub so tht we can talk abt us n barun n discuss abt barun..

bt thn d things went out of hands n rest is history..
m okk for ceasefire...if personal attacking will STOP

Quote

deleteaccount

@deleteaccount

Stunner

+ 10

Posted: 13 years ago

#74

Originally posted by: riti4u
Just wanted to reply to one post above dear ...if they want to have discussions.. I am in to call barun fans for it and settle differences but are they ready ? as many of barun fans that I know are interested in team Sarun..and if they want to discuss it..as if differences are...they are on both sides then... I love barun more than sanaya..but that doesnt mean that I dont adore her..

I would love to have discussions with you and a few people of your team. But I also dont want to discuss anything with 3 members of your group and will PM you their names soon. Those are hopeless.

Same case, I LOVE Sanaya more than anyone else, Not only Barun... But I CANNOT Hate barun!!

Its a fact, Sarun have nothing in them that can be hated..

Quote

deleteaccount

@deleteaccount

Stunner

+ 10

Posted: 13 years ago

#75

You know Aditi, someone PMd me with comments ,BAD comments from your CC... I didnt check it out [Sorry cant reveal name]

comments like

"When will that not-so famous thread get closed? That soon to be 30"

Referring to SI's bday thread

and many more which i wont reveal

But I really didnt like it when someone abused oyu ppl calling you Hijras

I dont know who they r

Quote

riti4u

@riti4u

Stunner

+ 7

Posted: 13 years ago

#76

@Afya- I agree with you that if we have different likes...we tend to have groups here...but we are open to discussion with anyone...I mean it is not a war here..all we want is respect and even if you have different likes just disagree with respect dear..I mean callin us names when we are answerin u in polite way that creates negative vibes...yes sometimes ignorin is hard to do...bcoz then they target one whom we like... If you dont like Barun fine...no one is forcing you to like him...just respect passion that people have for barun... similarly I wud say to my friends too who were caught up in this war.. Sanaya is great actress and good human being ... we shall respect that and even love of her fans for her... Do you agree ?

Quote

Afya

@Afya

Dazzler

+ 5

Posted: 13 years ago

#77

Originally posted by: aditi_arshi

see we hv been tagged as Group..
actually we created a chatclub so tht we can talk abt us n barun n discuss abt barun..

bt thn d things went out of hands n rest is history..
m okk for ceasefire...if personal attacking will STOP

You can still have your Barun chatclub if you wish, but outside of it, in the forum, discuss as an individual. Decide on your opinion/views based only on you and your thoughts. Groups only create divisions in the forum. Let's not forget we are all Arhi fans.

If there is personal attacking posts, Ignore them . They don't deserve your attention or time. If you reply to them, they get encouraged and there's a war.

Quote

riti4u

@riti4u

Stunner

+ 7

Posted: 13 years ago

#78

Originally posted by: -Neloufer-

I would love to have discussions with you and a few people of your team. But I also dont want to discuss anything with 3 members of your group and will PM you their names soon. Those are hopeless.

Same case, I LOVE Sanaya more than anyone else, Not only Barun... But I CANNOT Hate barun!!

Its a fact, Sarun have nothing in them that can be hated..

Thnks fr initiative, you cn PM me their names. I wont defend them but I will just say some people got carried away ..I understand.. we all understand..I understand your sentiment because I share the same when barun is targetted.. but my point is someone has to stop it.. See with that cc thing ,I went to that thread just for saying to have peace but they instead targetted me... and even made personal remarks..dont u think i will feel insulted at their behavior. I am just sayin lets respect each other's love for their favorite.

If those comments by people hurt you, I apologise on their behalf.

Quote

Afya

@Afya

Dazzler

+ 5

Posted: 13 years ago

#79

Originally posted by: riti4u
Just wanted to reply to one post above dear ...if they want to have discussions.. I am in to call barun fans for it and settle differences but are they ready ? as many of barun fans that I know are interested in team Sarun..and if they want to discuss it..as if differences are...they are on both sides then... I love barun more than sanaya..but that doesnt mean that I dont adore her..

The member has not completed her post. That's why I haven't replied yet.

There's no harm if you or anyone like one more than the other or like everyone or no one. But just don't form groups. Groups create divisions in the forum. Discuss with each other on topics you want to, peacefully and as individuals. Agree to disagree if your opinion differs despite discussing.

My personal suggestion to all of the groups is to let bygones be bygones and start afresh. Imagine you are a newbie here and explore the forum. Like and comment what you agree on and not because it's your friend's thread.

Quote

deleteaccount

@deleteaccount

Stunner

+ 10

Posted: 13 years ago

#80

riti4u - Have seen people call you Di, I guess I can too,If you dont mind 😊

Di and Afya, You know we cant judge anyone listening to one side of a story right? You have heard a story from Aditi [Baruns side] Not from Sanaya's fan's side. Maybe after listening , You will find both of us right in out own places.