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vini09

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Posted: 12 years ago

#51

I agree, after all we are all her because we love IPKKND. let's all bond together. Remember those days when we can't get the show out of our heads and it put a smile on our face whatever we are doing be it working, taking care of our kids, sitting in class etc. PEACE

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Afya

@Afya

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Posted: 12 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: AyeReKhushi
My only problem is when people can't differentiate between Arnav and Barun. I have never in my time here "bashed" Barun the actor/person...you can look up my history and won't find anything. I don't think I could love a show if I didn't love the lead actor in it. So it is annoying when his fangirls call everyone bashers...they don't realize they are doing him more harm than good. I've seen so many sane and objective people who are turned off by their behavior and poor Barun has to suffer the consequences.

I have criticized Arnav, the fictional guy, in the past when he deserves it. I always root for the underdog so I feel more for Khushi's pain. Arnav has been wrong more often than Khushi so naturally he will get criticized more often than her.

I have criticized both Arnav and Barun. Arnav when his character wronged, but most often I blame the CVs as they are the ones who decide what Arnav does. I have also criticized Barun for his acting, when I felt he wasn't as good as he usually is. But that doesn't make me his basher. I adore Arnav and Barun. But I am an individual with opinions and I share them as I see fit respectfully.

If another member's behaviour is not good, why encourage them or respond to them? Why not just ignore them, unless they start discussing peacefully. I am not saying one group is wrong or right. All I am saying is we don't need groups and we can discuss far more peacefully as individuals.

Originally posted by: AyeReKhushi
One other thing, being a straight female doesn't mean you have to drool over an actor. I'd rather drool over my boyfriend and appreciate actors for their talent.

I love Sanaya too but I find Barun hot. Obviously you may not find him attractive which is perfectly fine. But because I do, it doesn't mean I am a crazy fangirl.

Originally posted by: AyeReKhushi
I know I went off on a tangent but just making a general observation here (not directed at the TM).

No offence taken. I invited you to discuss and you are more than welcome to share your thoughts even if they differ from mine.

Edited by Afya - 12 years ago

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Mrs.Beckham Sobti

@.shinchan.

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Posted: 12 years ago

#53

Originally posted by: Afya

Why do you see the need to belong to a group? Why can't youparticipatein the forum as an individual? If someone gets personal, ignore their post yaar. If you take offence, and stoop to their level, there will be no end to this war. Why don'tyoujust agree to disagree peacefully and move on to another better thread/post?

being in group doesnt mean dat u r a gunda or what??
i m in group where we all discuss barun..but ppl started targetting us...
n dear if any1 targets u directly...how can u sit quiet??? anyways ur post is awesum..

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Afya

@Afya

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Posted: 12 years ago

#54

Originally posted by: neenaLUVarnav

wait a little long dear u will see the replies here ..

😆 Is your group visiting this thread? How about I talk to you as an individual and not as a group?😉

Originally posted by: neenaLUVarnav
being in group doesnt mean i fight with others dear its just that when people are rude then i feel very hurt so i keep my distance n tats y i comment mostly on friends thread anyway

I know. I did not imply that you fight. But being groups divides the forum. United we stand, Divided we fall! We all love IPKKND, then why groups?

Originally posted by: neenaLUVarnav
hardly comment these days and after so long i am commenting on some discussion ...becoz i always want to see positivity in the forum😊

I am glad you want positivity too. Do comment more in the forum. We need to be the change we want to see.

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Afya

@Afya

Dazzler

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Posted: 12 years ago

#55

Originally posted by: vandana.sagar
I am neither...I love both, to me they are what they are because of the other...I critique both for things I don't like they do...and applaud for what I like..

Now with the wedding done...it's time for new beginnings...congratulations Mrs and Mr raizada !

Me too😊. Thanks Vandana, for a rational post as always!

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Afya

@Afya

Dazzler

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Posted: 12 years ago

#56

Originally posted by: riti4u
Thank you sweetie for this post.. i hope u dont mind my callin u that as many people have objections even when we call them buddy here..

I would take offence if you were a man😆.

Originally posted by: riti4u
I am positive person ..yes it is fictional show for me ..I take it as fiction only ..when I joined this forum , I was neutral ,I almost talked with everyone,never thought that few posts belonged to particular group and few to other group.. but somehow when people constantly post their views on a particular character and criticising a certain character ,you generally know that where their priorities are.

What's wrong if some one likes a certain character and some others? I constantly hate Shyam. Am I wrong? See, I adore Arnav and Barun. But I often criticize him if he is wrong too. When we discuss a character, We should not loose focus on what's right and what's wrong. If for eg, Arnav was ill treating Khushi, I would not support him. If he is wrong, he is wrong. There are no 2 ways about it. Just because I like him, I will not support him in his wrong doing. Hope you got my point.

See, there will be people who will not agree with you. We can try explaining our point of view. But if it doesn't work, then we can agree to disagree peacefully as individuals, Can't we? Why do we need groups?

Originally posted by: riti4u
I am not saying arnav was not wrong at all but he was never praised even by those who claimed him to be wrong when he was right. I have nothin against khushi's character,ofcourse one as woman feels strongly for her ,it is understandable but if you show bit sympathy for hero ,then views are seen as biased due to our attraction to him.So yes one gets disturbed when your views are not treated with respect but as immature and childish..

If you have good reason for your opinions that you feel happy about, then you really don't need any one else's approval, do you? What if the other person thinks comments you are immature and childish? You don't become one just because they say so. You only become so if you believe you are.

Originally posted by: riti4u
As much as I never wanted to take sides..I was forced too..I wished I cud say I am in team arhi but then there is no such team here... I am individual when it comes to my opinion ..as said earlier I am optimist... and I believe in love...this will always be THEIR story for me... both Arnav-Khushi makes it complete.

If there is no team Arhi, Let's create one. Lets undo all the groups and come together as Arhi fans and discuss the show peacefully. We can agree to disagree sometimes.

@ Bold: Exactly. IPKKND is Arhi's story. Let's be Arhi fans. Or even better IPKKND fans.😊

Edited by Afya - 12 years ago

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Afya

@Afya

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Posted: 12 years ago

#57

Originally posted by: chunkysony
completely agree😊 with u much needed post continue the positivity don't let go😊

Thanks😊. But need everyone's support to spread the peace.

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Afya

@Afya

Dazzler

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Posted: 12 years ago

#58

Originally posted by: aditi_arshi

being in group doesnt mean dat u r a gunda or what??
i m in group where we all discuss barun..but ppl started targetting us...
n dear if any1 targets u directly...how can u sit quiet??? anyways ur post is awesum..

Thanks for liking my post😊. No, Being in a group doesn't make one a gunda. But why do we need one? If you like discussing Barun, start a thread or participate in other threads you like as an individual.

When you discuss as a group, it closes door for everyone else and also you close yourself to others too. And sometimes, we don't see the right from the wrong when discussing as a group. We somehow get the group mentality. I am just voicing my opinion here. You are free to disagree. I think the forum will be lot better, if we don't have groups.

Target you directly? Really? With a gun? See, If people post improper or personal remarks about you, Ignore them. That's the best response for them. If you stoop to their level, what's the difference between you and them?