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boreddamsel

@boreddamsel

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

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I am surprised that there are people who still thinks Arnav loves her and that Khushi and Arnav should be together.

There were people who told me to give Arnav a chance and that he will come to the mandap. For what? Why would he come to the mandap? Oh they say, to marry Khushi? What the f..

Let's see. Arnav Singh Raizada.

Why did he believe Dadi when he knew Dadi believes whatever she wants to believe?

That photo looked photoshopped. Those two were not in the same frame, because Garima looks bigger in the picture than Arnav's dad, why because these photos were taken at two different times and then joined together. Of course Arnav the idiot lost his brain, so of course you can't expect him to pick this up. Then again, he never asked Dadi where did she get the picture from? She said she got to know the truth today. She didn't see Garima today.

Fine. So Garima had an affair with his father. So? You told Khushi you can't live without her. But suddenly knowing that your father had an affair with her foster mom, you can now suddenly live without her? Wouldn't you at least go to the mandap and confront Garima and ask her if this is true. Don't you at least owe that to your wife? To find out the truth. Especially given that you already ruined 6 months of her life because you didn't get her an opportunity earlier, and now, Mr. Raizada you are doing it again. Do you even remember how much you cried when you thought you lost her? And suddenly all that forgotten, just because of something that wasn't even her fault?

You believed the wrong person and didn't give the innocent person a chance to explain. Instead you ran away and cried. And the forum is upset. God! Why? Why is everyone supporting Arnav? He should be worried about Khushi, not his mom who was selfish and abandoned her family and killed herself because she couldn't deal with her pain. He should be concerned about Khushi, because she is the only one in his life who actually cares about him, she risked her life to save his life. Instead he thinks about the time he spends with her and does nothing. What an insult to that night! I told you he was just turned on.. all those promises.. nothing! All that flirting.. nothing! An idiot he is.. I hate him.. I can't believe I said that.. I hate him! I'm actually crying writing this.. I hope you are happy CVs, I hate your stupid hero now!

There was a time when I loved him so much my fiance was jealous. Now I hate him! Coz he is a spineless, stupid moron! At least that's what the CVs are showing him as.

This is not the guy I fell in love with. They changed him and now I hate him! Thank you for making me hate him, CVs, 'coz my obsession for him was scaring me 😆

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@SeerialLoops

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

Ok. Today I am not keeping quite anymore. I did not watch the show, but read the updates.

What Pain Dammit. What Pain.

Why is ASR in Pain. For what reason is his pain becoming the center stage. Is it the first time he came to know his mom committed suicide. Is it the first time he came to know, his father cheated on his mother. Is it the first time he came to know there is a doosri aurat in his mothers life. What is that he is hearing for the first time??

That the other woman is Garima. Why does that cause him pain. Why? What in the blinking world should he be crying for. That Kushi is Garimas daughter. How does that pain him. Because he is in love with a woman whose mother is the other woman in his dead moms life. Why does that cause pain.

A photo is proof for this character that Garima is the other woman. So any photo his dad had with another woman, means he was sleeping with them too. He believes Dadis words that this is proof.

Sorry, but today, ASR is equivalent to Anjali. Neither do they have a horrible past, nor do they have a angst ridden dark past. CVs have made sure, all that they have been hinting at, the dark dark past, is a joke.

I hate that, a person who is that sensitive to his moms suffering, would ever put another woman, mother, through the same sufferings without finding out the truth. if he truly loved his mom, he would never do anything that would potentially drive another sould to the brink of equal despair that they want to commit suicide.

No. For him and Anjali, their normal past is a ticket to excuse away all their horrendous acts or become the center of attention.

Pathetic protrayals CVs have turned these two into.

Angst and pain and gut wrenching wails for something that happened 14 years ago, but no pain, remorse or repent for what these two are inflicting on another human and a woman at that.

It is a shame and I am glad, ASR has a dad, mom, di and dadi like the ones he has. because that is all they deserve. Each other.

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spirit

@spirit

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Posted: 13 years ago

#13

I agree, well said.

It doesn't matter even if he shows up next, how can he ever make up for what he did?

He wasn't there when she needed him the most. That says everything.

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trpbabe

@trpbabe

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

You're right. Arnav is a weakling in mental and emotional strength compared to Khushi. She's da man.

But what about brains? Since he knew Dadi's favorite pastime is hating Khushi, it would be natural to question her intentions behind showing the said picture at the eleventh hour. I would have expected him to have a private convo with Khushi & Garima and sort it out - they could have decided together if they should get married with all the extra baggage. I recall during Lavanya's track, it was Lavanya who took the lead and broke it off. If he is indecisive, shouldn't he lean on others for counsel? Luvd NK's way of handling Mami and Nani - seems so mature and takes the reigns when need be. That's a keeper!

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Posted: 13 years ago

#15

Bravo Tia, very passionately written, concur with you women been strong and can lead independent meaningful lives. There is far too much baggage with these two to even entertain the thought of getting married and living peacefully ...

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

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Posted: 13 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: sanja_here
superb post!!!!every thing well written!!!!!

for me...arnav failed miserably...in test for his love!!!!he is a coward in every sense...he jst ran off frm reality...if his love had...20 %intensity as khushis...he must show...up der...@least...b4 she broken downs completely...n which is not happening...i dnt want khushi...to marry him...FOR NOW...even if he comes up in thursday...or friday epi...!!!i m sure...it wont be less than hell for khushi...to live in dat rm zoo...for now...first sort out every thing...n make every damned raizada...beg for her 4giveness...den show us a marriage...

he even knew dadi...has wild plans to stop marriage...then also he believed in it...without any investigation???????nd photo given by dadi...was a new print also...which was done by shyamu...den also...

Exactly my point. I want to see the redemption. Where is it? He said sorry (in private for a very public humiliation) but was he really sorry? Did he realize what he did wrong? Did he learn any lesson from it? No, he did not. Then his wrong deeds was not really redeemed.

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Praba

@prabbs

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Posted: 13 years ago

#17

When it comes to Khushi or her Family, Arnav and everyone at RM have their blinkers on, they bury their heads in the sand, but when it comes to Di, they are all up and blame the Guptas.

Whenever it comes to Snakewa , the CVs glorify him, at the same time make the savy businessman look like a Clown , who has no thought of logic , reasoning to what might have happened. We have seen this all through the show. He is always up and running for every prick he gets.

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

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Posted: 13 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: EXPELLIARMUS
Awesome post, Tiaji.
Everyone should really take a step back and ask themselves if such a marriage is what they would have wanted for themselves, had they been in Khushi's place.

Something else struck me today, it may not be directly related to your topic, but still something to think about..

In the midst of all that crying, humiliation, and lots more crying, I saw something else that stayed with me after the epi ended.

I saw a husband, blindly believe his wife when she told him that her indiscretion was unintentional. She showed him no proof, told him no details, and he didn't ask for any, either. Although some anger on his part would be justified, because he saw both his daughter's lives being destroyed, he showed no rage either.
All he did was quietly place his hand on hers, in a show of trust, faith and reassurance. This man proved what the seven vows actually mean, and that he would stand by his wife, no matter what.

This is what a marriage should be like.

Shashi aur Garima ke pyaar ko kya naam doon?

You know what? You are absolutely right. Shashi and Garima has the kind of relationship that I wanted to see between Arnav and Khushi. But it's not there. I don't see anything in their relationship at least on Arnav's part, except flirting and romantic interlude and that is not love. Love goes way deeper than that. Shashi supported Garima even when he knew about Garima's past affair with a married man. This is the kind of man a woman should find.

Today, we saw another man like that. NK. He stood up every freaking time for Khushi. Arnav was never there for her. If I was Khushi, I'd marry NK.

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JerryTheMouse

@JerryTheMouse

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Posted: 13 years ago

#19

Agreed a 100%.

This is not what we fought for! Women should not be hoping for a pity marriage!

Others here posted sout Shashi and Garima! Hats off to that!

And finally, Tia, you mentioned NK! Yes. He soon by her every time, without any expectation of anything in return! That's trust and support! Even when he knows that Khushi is marrying Arnav, he is honest and supportive! He has never minced words about how he doesn't trust Shyamu!

Good post!

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arshi21

@arshi21

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Posted: 13 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: tia.o

You know what? You are absolutely right. Shashi and Garima has the kind of relationship that I wanted to see between Arnav and Khushi. But it's not there. I don't see anything in their relationship at least on Arnav's part, except flirting and romantic interlude and that is not love. Love goes way deeper than that. Shashi supported Garima even when he knew about Garima's past affair with a married man. This is the kind of man a woman should find.

Today, we saw another man like that. NK. He stood up every freaking time for Khushi. Arnav was never there for her. If I was Khushi, I'd marry NK.

I love NK dammit.

He is THE man. In every sense. How I wish for Arnav to grow SOME spine at least NOW. Repent and make everything alright for Khushi. Please.

How I wish for him to make himself worthy of her in REAL sense.

If he loves her, REALLY loves her, he would redeem himself. If not, then the whole meaning of this soap would be lost.