Maula ke Naam pe Shaadi Kar Lo Baba - Page 5

Originally posted by: highonshows

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None Darling,

humiliation is not supposed to be the basis of marriage...which in this case here each and every time. - Only love should be the basis of marriage... nothing else.

Today's episode was a major dissapointment. Khushi's uwavering faith in Arnav is unnerving. - It strangely looked similar to Anjali's obsession with Shyam.

Koi kissi se itna pya kaise karsakta hai,...halla ke, lately i feel Arnav doesnt even deserve it. - Is it really love? Is love so blind that it can't see your own family's insult and humiliation which they have been facing since this man came to your life?

The worst is the buz article and everywhere the only question is will he come, will he marry her, will he forgive her???

FOR WHAT???

blood hell, what r ppl thinking??? That there is not other option for Khushi other than to marry Arnav.

If he left her uski zindagi barbaad ho jayegi...but is there any proof the IF/WHEN he marries her she will have a blessed life always??? - BINGO... Her life might be temporarily disturbed if he leaves her now. But it's much better than to have it destroyed completely if he marries her and leaves her again to fend for herself alone.

We all know and have seen him repeatedly, n today he once again prooved that he is not worthy of Khushi's trust.

I loved ur comment which u made to me today behind the post 😉

When dadi asked khushi, if she actually believed that Arnav would marry her after hearing the truth...

i would have loved to hear, khushi ask this once???

Before i answer bout him, i need u to answer me if i should i marry ur grandson whose father ruined my mothers reputation???

Whose Brother in law did the very thing with me that ur son did with my mother??? - Like I said this morning, Avni. I wanted Khushi to ask this question, but of course she would not.

I would very much like to see Dadi's reaction to that question...n Anajli too...

Coming to Anjali,...so the loving sister she claims to be needed SHYAM to remined her the state of mind of her beloved brother. Conviniently forgot him today didnt she??? - She conveniently forgets her unborn baby. What else do you expect from her?

The 2 ppl that i m honeslty proud of today was Payal and NK.

Payal voicing a 2 lines yet it held the impact. Finally Akash started to see what she means and stood by her side. Understood where she needs to be...

Totally agree with ur statement, *no one gets anything till one demand it* - Exactly. The squeaky wheel gets oiled.

NK: what do i say bout this character...honestly i think he is better suited lifepartner for Khushi then our Arnav. I would not have minded had he said I will marry Khushi ji if Nannav chooses to abandon her. But knowing him he would never do that.

Yet that was the only person on the grooms side whom i saw connecting Shyam n Arnav's dad's and the irony of the situation n Karan depicted that sooo well with few glimmer in his eyes. Brilliant scenes today for NK. - NK is the perfect guy for any woman. He may not be as exciting as Arnav. But he is much more dependable, trustworthy and a genuinely nice guy. Women always run after bad boys because they think that they will be able to change them. That's bullshit. A nice guy will always be there for you and in life's journey when you need support or someone to hold you tight, these bad boys will disappear like smoke. Then you'll understand the value of nice guys like NK.

Garima ji too,...i m sooo sooo glad she went thru what she did cuz thats why did ended up getting a lifepartener like Shashiji. Who today we saw showed unwavering love care and support for the person who he choose to be not only his wife, but also trust his daughter with.

His face showed nothing but pride for Khushi and Payal, seeing them support their adoptive mother.

gupta Family truly know the bond of being called a family. They portray perfecting what being a family means. - Exactly. This family know the value of relationship. No one could guess that Payal is not Garima's own blood until Buaji revealed it. If we did not know Khushi was adopted, we could have never guessed it with Shashi's affection and love towards her. He had Payal who was his own blood, but his love and care for Khushi is no less than her. That is what a family is all about.

Where are the Raizada's and Mallick's are permenantly trapped in the shodow of their past and have not learnt the true meaning of support love and care. - Actually Avni, this is a Di-sfunctional family because it functions according to the whims of Di.

Jo log khudke nahi ho sakte woh kissi aur ko kya apnayenge...

This is actualy for Arnav.

This guy has not accepted his maternal family as his own (outcasted everone during the will etching n left everything to Anjali, hence my statement) then how can we expect him to accept Khushi as his???? - Precisely. For him, the only person who matters is his mom and Di. I told you a few weeks back that you might expect Arnav to behave rationally. But when it comes to his mom and Di, his brain shuts down and he becomes deaf, dumb and blind like the three monkey of Gandhiji.

To be even his apology in Khushi's room sounds quite shallow.

I m not bashing the character n i do understand the pain he may be going thru, but AGAIN u've only heard from ur DADI ...n u choose to believe she's saying the truth...

VERIFY IT DUDE. even if it is the truth GET IT CHECKED OUT.

Dadi has previuously lied to u when she said Buaji broke the wedding.

If u knew she is lieying then, why not now??? - See the reason above. The three monkey.

If he has choosen to come to the venue, he would have seen Dadi lied to him agian today,

when she said that She found out bout Garima's fact today??

But she herself said that she leid to Garima that she will fogive her. That statement itself tell that Dadi knew bout Garima b4 today... - Yes, and who took advantage of his running habit? Dadi. And the same way, anyone and everyone will always take advantage of him as long as he keeps running away.

Secondly, He would have also see that the whole drama created by Dadi was solely to get the revenge for her son's death and Anjali's tota rishta...n nothing to do with having sympathy for his mother. - No he could not. Again, the reason is three monkey. His mom can't do anything wrong. Her suicide impacted his Di. Garima's presence was the reason for her suicide. Hence, Garima's fault for both mom and Di's pain.

The worst is, how could Arnav forget that Dadi was the person who once called his mom a weak person. So why all of a sudden she's sympathizing with her???

Arnav keep seeing the FB of what Khushi has promised him and the night they spend but not once did he recal that because of this one woman he is standing her alive...this woman was the one who nearly lost her life for him... - He is too busy drowning in self-pity. When he remembers to think of anyone but himself, he will come back to do another favour on Khushi by marrying her and phangirls could squeal and party with joy.

He sees the fault is someone else's yet he is punishing the woman he loves. - The woman he loves? Nope. He is not punishing the woman he loves. Because he does not love Khushi.

I dont see the logic in the idiocy, yet we are waiting for him to come and accept Khushi and marry her.

I personally feel Khushi is bettter of without him. - Same here. But Mishti's spoiler came out today. You'll see Arnav and Khushi's pity marriage tomorrow or Friday. Another temple marriage, another series of humiliation, another stupid track.

Sorry Tia, this was a long post and if it doesnt make sense then i m sorry but i have not gone back to reread and edit.

Avni

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Originally posted by: tia.o

Originally posted by: arshi21

True Tia!

But I still cannot help but feel bad for him. Even he is in pain.

I won't try to justify his actions because frankly, I cannot. No one can.

But I would just say one thing, I want peace for Arnav and Khushi.

I want them to be happy, for a while at least.

Khushi's pain did strange things to my heart. It made me want to kill Dadi. Literally.

I don't know if the marriage will happen or not, I just want some peace, in the real sense, in IPK.

Bas.

Originally posted by: -Smarties-

Well said. What upsets me the most is why every time Khushi has to be the only one facing the humiliation, and for how long. How long will she live at the mercy of Arnav's mood swings, and wait for him every time. Its second time the poor girl is left alone. It doesn't take him long to give second chances to his Jija Ji when he chose to make the poor girl pay for other people's mistake.

Arnav himself considers Khushi his wife, and if he is hurting or if has some questions why not come forwards and clear those, and behave like a real husband. How will he trust her in future and the will she be able to trust him. He still hasn't come clean regarding the contract/ forced marriage, still Khushi's image is not clean in front of her and his family, they still think its a Bhaag Ke Shaadi, which Dadi so nicely had put with poisonous words.

I don't want to see Arnav marrying her just because he feels guilty for sleeping with her but rather he should marry her for his love, to give her the happiness and respect she deserves and set a good example for all the men/husbands.

Like your title saya Maula Ke Naam Pe Shaadi Kar Lo. Bas Karo Khushi Ke Saath Emotional Atayachaar, because at end she will keep Faraking Arnav and Arnav will keep coming back for her, so appropriate the title of the show is.

Originally posted by: trpbabe

You're right. Arnav is a weakling in mental and emotional strength compared to Khushi. She's da man.

But what about brains? Since he knew Dadi's favorite pastime is hating Khushi, it would be natural to question her intentions behind showing the said picture at the eleventh hour. I would have expected him to have a private convo with Khushi & Garima and sort it out - they could have decided together if they should get married with all the extra baggage. I recall during Lavanya's track, it was Lavanya who took the lead and broke it off. If he is indecisive, shouldn't he lean on others for counsel? Luvd NK's way of handling Mami and Nani - seems so mature and takes the reigns when need be. That's a keeper!

Originally posted by: tia.o

You see Shreya, if marriage happens, Arnav might be happy, but Khushi won't because she will face humiliation and insult from everyone in the family.

If marriage does not happen, no one will be happy.

So at this point, there is only one way both can be happy, if marriage happens and Arnav and Khushi leave Shaantivan. Do you think this will happen?