Koffee with Redux - Sept 18th' 12 !! - Page 2

Tonight saw more of Garima begging for the sake of her daughters but her pleas falling on deaf ears. I am still not convinced Garima was the other woman but for now all she worries about are her children, especially Khushi whom she knows cannot live without Arnav. Garima tries to call Khushi but no such luck, the phones were left at home and Garima is as tensed as one can be. What I found interesting about this scene is Nani becoming suspicious, will this scene prove essential for when the truth is out? Will it work for Khushi or against Khushi??

Dadi fools everyone by pretending to accept Khushi as the Malik bahu but we all know differently, question is why?? My guess is she deliberately wants to hit Garima where it hurts and publicly humiliate her and Khushi. Dadi knows how devastated Khushi would be by this and Arnav but she does not care its all about revenge for her, always has been. I hated seeing her lying in front of DM, but this is all the more reason why her plan will fall apart since Khushi is DM's child. DM will not let Khushi down, Dadi will have to face the consequences of her actions.

Precap of the sangeet, it looks like fun! I'm hoping with Dadi's fake act we can catch a break for one or two episodes which focuses solely on the Guptas and Raizadas enjoying themselves. I want to see more light hearted, warmth filled moments like shown today where Bua was playing games with Nani, Payal, Akash, NK and Mami. Let this sangeet be memorable like the last one and please no distracting body doubles!!

So a new promo is out which completely took me by surprise, it delivered the punch it was supposed to with viewers now wondering will they or won't they? I still say this wedding will happen, Dadi will be unsuccessful in brainwashing Arnav against Khushi for he's been there, done that already. This will not be another hate marriage, it will be out of love and this will only infuriate Dadi more.

The real drama will begin after the wedding for that is when an explosive confrontation takes place. Dadi will not be happy Arnav went ahead and married Khushi so she will strike again by bringing the supposed truth out to Khushi who will be left devastated. It is known how Khushi reacts when she feels responsible for inflicting pain on her loved ones so it will come as no surprise if she is the one shown distancing herself from Arnav with him having to fight for his love. I think he will get help from his family for I can't see them holding this against Khushi especially Nani and Anjali who've always adored her. Its like Garima said, Khushi is not at fault here nor should she be held responsible.

I am not ready to believe that Garima is the other woman, there is more to the story then what meets the eye. What is DADI planning, god she is more evil then I thought. As per the promo out she plans to tell Arnav right at the time of his marriage so that she can publicly humiliate Garimaji and Khushi . The broken marriage will be the worst social stigma on Khushi especially as she has lived with Arnav for 6 months. This time around I want Khushi to breakdown completely and her family to support her. Hasn't she not done enough for everybody , why should she be the sacrificial goat always. But this scene has yet to be played can't judge on the basis of the Promo .

The CV's will not show a hate marriage again as that's already been done , if they go the same route then their TRP's are going to be badly affected and many audience will quit . Now lest go back to the episode.

We start with Arnav and Khushi still in the garden and Khushi is happy and tells Arnav that they will come here after marriage to take his mother's blessings. On the other side we see Dadi hell bent on stopping the marriage and the snake gloating and giving his evil smirk from behind. I am a bit surprised with Garima saying that she loved Sr. Malik , have I missed out something in between. We can see Garima begging in front of Dadi to not tell Arnav anything and not break the marriage . On the other hand Khushi – Arnav are lost in their own world. Nani can sense something is wrong with Garima and Dadi but she is not able to understand that .

Garima wants to tell everything to Khushi but is unable to do so as Dadi throws a bouncer of accepting Khushi as DIL . Surprise , surprise on everyone's face , as to how this miracle has happened. But our khushi is sacred of so much happiness and so are we dear as we know this happiness is not going to last long and your life is going to face the biggest challenge till now.

Our roller coaster ride of IPK has started , lets wait and see what we have in store .

HELLO ALL!!!

Taking a break from THIS DAY THAT YEAR… I just couldn't bring myself to write; the words just wouldn't come. Let's see if it will be here by next week or so…

However that is not why I'm here… today, I am here for Garima…

WOMANHOOD Vs MOTHERHOOD

Yesterday, I watched the episode on TV at 8 unlike what I had been doing for the past few days and gave the girls on REDUX a live update as well. I was present at the post episode discussions as well. I was surprised at some of the reactions. It seemed as if some of us if not all were expecting Garima to come out wholly innocent… pure and blemish free! But why? Is she not a woman? Was she not young once? Sometime in her youth, didn't she dream of her own Prince Charming?

If she did dream, was she not entitled to do so? Why is it that we expect our parents, especially our mothers to be saints and Paragons? If they are wise and right now, isn't it because of experience and because they learnt from their mistakes?

Let us take a look at Garima. A woman who bypassed her own womanhood for borrowed motherhood. A young woman fated to bring up two motherless girls as her own, and did it too; admirably and to the best of her ability. A devoted wife, who really seemed to care for her husband. Conservative, strict and loving she provided her daughters with the best of values and principles. She brought them up to be god-fearing and good.

Today the same woman stands accused of being "The Other Woman." She stands accused of breaking up a family, of causing two tragic deaths. Everyone seems eager to have her absolved of all guilt. She couldn't be "The Other Woman." How could she be? She is not supposed to be "The Other Woman." I am hearing cries from all around me! I ask why not? Yesterday, didn't you hear her beg forgiveness? Didn't you hear her say that she didn't know that the man she fell in love with was already married? Didn't she say that she has been cursing herself for falling in love with him all her life? She had been feeling the guilt of the train of events she unwittingly set in motion? So why do we want it so that she be depicted as chaste and as far removed from Senior Malik's life as possible. We don't blame Khushi for falling in Shyam's trap, do we? Why is it so difficult to believe that Garima was once as young as Khushi?

Garima was a woman once. She was a woman first before she became a mother. She was not a saint or born one. She attained sainthood through her selfless motherhood later.

Garima may have dreamed of her own Rajkumar; why hold it against her? She may have dreamed unwittingly about the wrong man; why hold it against her?

Imagine her heartbreak, when her dreams crumbled all around her… when she came to know that she has been duped…

She was reviled and accused, then, of a crime she did not commit. She lost her dream, her credibility; she lost her good name. She had to run and hide. And at around the same time she became a mother to her orphaned niece. But she fought in the way she knew how… not for herself, but for the little creature who needed her. She accepted Shashi Gupta's hand in marriage; a far cry from any young woman's dreams… a widower with a young daughter of his own. But she did it and she didn't complain… instead she became an exemplary mother to two girls not her own… and made them her very own…

What better tribute to her than when Khushi hugged her and said…

"Humari Amma aap hain… aapko kissi ko jawaab dene ki koi zaroorat nahi hain!"

There is more to this story than meets the eye… let us wait and watch. Let us not be too hard on Garima…

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just saw the new promo, can someone please tell me why, when daadi tells him about garima arnav will not ask her why tell me now why not before .Daadi is the most sinister of old lady I have ever seen. I want her to fail flat in her face if there is justice. In IPK it was always seen as kushi being DM favorite child, then why is it her who always must suffer. I just hope that daadi does not tell arnav kushi knew about it, creating an MU If that happens then I am done with IPK .As it is against my nature to see same person being victimized again and again. if I was in her place, I would walk away so far away that pain starts to numb.

Ok I lied I just did see the episode or let's say arshi scenes. I do not know how this track will play out .however this is what I would like to see since last one year it has been kushi who has gone through fire and back to prove her love to arnav, to prove that she is worthy of his love, that is honest and not gold digger. Now is arnav turn .what has he done to prove he is worthy of kushi unconditional love. it is very easy to make promise when all is rosy .hard to keep those promises .Mr. arnav Singh raizada ,it is time for you to stand up for kushi who took in all the hurt and pain you have given her and turned that into beautiful rose like in your mother garden. Leaving her in the altar would be one sin you will never be absolved from .Might as well kill her .she has stood by you and I know u have by her but these are dark times will you have the courage to overcome your own fear and pain and stand by her. In my eyes only then can you claim to be kushi arnav her LG.

Originally posted by: Chaituv

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