I FEAR ARNAV's Temper AGAIN!!!!!! - Page 7

Originally posted by: godhuli12

yeah.. I dont care that much about others.. but again ASR will outburst at her.. :(

and he says meanest things to her those times.. he can control his language to others but with khushi.. i wonder why ..

to give her pain is his right .. i guess..

but my poor soul cant take this crap...

Originally posted by: besame

I really hope Arnav doesn't blame Khushi in any of this or get angry at her. As dadi said he has never blamed Garima for what happened in his family; he has always blamed his father. So I think he will be with Khushi through all this and not treat her like crap. Let's see what happens in future; I'm liking this track till now though!

And ofcourse great post 👏👏

Originally posted by: trina2010

Very well written. Yes I want Arnav's redemption big time. He loves her a lot but his love is yet to reach the level where it can be called unconditional. Khushis love is unconditional but for ASR it's still Di for whom he is selfless. ASR has to learn her worth and then only he would deserve her, not before that.

what a topic and so perfectly explained.i agree with u and this is what i m always afraid of.arnav's unjustified anger,his conditional love for khushi and unconditional love for di.his di is least bothered that her dearest hubby had tried to kill her chotey and was lusting after her bhabhi but she is not ready to burst the bubble she's living in.doesn't she think once that how can arnav.khushi and even nk can make up these lies against shyam?there could be some logical reasoning behind these accusations.on the other side,arnav is not at all angry at his di for whom's happiness he ruined a girl's life so this proves his unconditional love for di but for khushi,he may have changed to some extent but khushi can never escape his wrath when he will be upset .she will be always the victim of his displaced agression and this past revelation will be truly MOHABBAT DOOR JANEY NA DEY ,NAFRAT PASS ANEY NAS DEY in my opinion.he will marry khushi but their relationship will be haunted by their ugly past.

Good observation but ASR is a complex character, not able to express himself, hiding all his pain etc. It was only to Khushi that he opened up and you normally hurt the person u love the most! Why would ASR hurt payal for instance? But even when he had a MU and thot he hated Khushi, he married her and then could not really bring himself to hate her. And most importantly he has been single-handedly providing for his family and di and after all the blows his di received he wants to keep protecting her- it is like his duty and responsibility. With Khushi he has learnt to open up, he does everything she wants so how can u claim he just wants her for lust? The main reason he fell for her bcoz she stood up to him which no one else dares to do till today ( except creepwa and stopwa). Khushi is the only person he expects something from, he needs Khushi not just for lust but for his very existence. he is not at all ashamed of his love for her and will even give up his life for her. So when the past comes out, I dont think Garima is guilty but even if she was ASR wont blame Khushi for it. And all those hurtful words he said to khushi coz of his di, he did no in abnormal circumstances. Today he wants Khushi for himself and not for his di! In fact when Anjali's betrayal comes out, he will be heart-broken. The fact remains that Khushi hs always been loyal to him and has been a giver whereas Anjali is always receiving, deceiving and blackmailing too. ASR is perhaps restrained in his anger with di who is like a mother to him and if he had explained to her the full situation maybe Anjali would have tried to rethink about Sham!

Woww u have written the post beautifully..
I completely agree with the entire post of urs. Arnav has still not realised the complete importance of Khushi n he thinks that khushi will accept him after anything and everhthing which he does...

Amazing post and u r so right love without doesn't work for me and always being treated like a second rate citizen also... I firmly believe that no ration can take another relation's place bcz there's no comparison in relationships like Khushi can't take anjilli's place bcz she is his sister similarly anjilli can't take Khushi's bcz she is his wife,what khushi can give to him anjilli can't and vice versa but for Arnav this concept doesn't exist... He loves anjilli with all his might but with Khushi he's always careless with his words and actions... In Shyam's scenario he was angry with Khushi not bcz she brought home a man who is obsssesed with her but bcz he would hurt his sister,Khushi's honour doesn't matter to him like afterwards she said to her that Di is happy from his arrival and that's all that matters so the lesson to be learnt here for all the young girls who read this post and watch this drama that" a girl has to value her own self respect first in order to get any respect from her significant other" I completely fail to understand that how Khushi can even stand in front of shyam after knowing his feelings for her.

Arnav has to understand one thing for sure that getting married doesn't mean that its only abt physical intimacy with your wife but it also means to protect her honour and self respect as well not only from Shyam but from every member of his family.

As far as Khushi is concerned if Arnav gets mad at her for a thing that she doesn't have any control over like Garima's past and she is not even her real daughter then she should leave him herself... It's high time that Arnav needs to prove his love for her by standing up for her.

Originally posted by: zoya-shah

what a topic and so perfectly explained.i agree with u and this is what i m always afraid of.arnav's unjustified anger,his conditional love for khushi and unconditional love for di.his di is least bothered that her dearest hubby had tried to kill her chotey and was lusting after her bhabhi but she is not ready to burst the bubble she's living in.doesn't she think once that how can arnav.khushi and even nk can make up these lies against shyam?there could be some logical reasoning behind these accusations.on the other side,arnav is not at all angry at his di for whom's happiness he ruined a girl's life so this proves his unconditional love for di but for khushi,he may have changed to some extent but khushi can never escape his wrath when he will be upset .she will be always the victim of his displaced agression and this past revelation will be truly MOHABBAT DOOR JANEY NA DEY ,NAFRAT PASS ANEY NAS DEY in my opinion.he will marry khushi but their relationship will be haunted by their ugly past.

Originally posted by: sunitas123

Good observation but ASR is a complex character, not able to express himself, hiding all his pain etc. It was only to Khushi that he opened up and you normally hurt the person u love the most! Why would ASR hurt payal for instance? But even when he had a MU and thot he hated Khushi, he married her and then could not really bring himself to hate her. And most importantly he has been single-handedly providing for his family and di and after all the blows his di received he wants to keep protecting her- it is like his duty and responsibility. With Khushi he has learnt to open up, he does everything she wants so how can u claim he just wants her for lust? The main reason he fell for her bcoz she stood up to him which no one else dares to do till today ( except creepwa and stopwa). Khushi is the only person he expects something from, he needs Khushi not just for lust but for his very existence. he is not at all ashamed of his love for her and will even give up his life for her. So when the past comes out, I dont think Garima is guilty but even if she was ASR wont blame Khushi for it. And all those hurtful words he said to khushi coz of his di, he did no in abnormal circumstances. Today he wants Khushi for himself and not for his di! In fact when Anjali's betrayal comes out, he will be heart-broken. The fact remains that Khushi hs always been loyal to him and has been a giver whereas Anjali is always receiving, deceiving and blackmailing too. ASR is perhaps restrained in his anger with di who is like a mother to him and if he had explained to her the full situation maybe Anjali would have tried to rethink about Sham!

Originally posted by: ipkknd_sarun

Woww u have written the post beautifully..
I completely agree with the entire post of urs. Arnav has still not realised the complete importance of Khushi n he thinks that khushi will accept him after anything and everhthing which he does...