I FEAR ARNAV's Temper AGAIN!!!!!!

After the horrendous Maha Episode of Khushi's Birthday in july , this one was still better even though it had shyam-Dadi scenes. No doubt Arshi Scenes are a visual treat, but nothing that compared to holi scene or past ones.Bcoz if the show goes in proper track then these scnes are nothing we will see a more Mad, crazy lover in asr for khushi in future coming days. Just show shud be on track.

A lot of discussion on arshi scenes going on , so lets not get carried away by the scene too much and dvelve a little about what holds ahead for us.

Ok remarriage will happen I guess. But what do you feel? After Knowing about Garima will arnav be silent on Khushi?? Even if Khushi is innocent, Khushi cant escape the wrath of arnav at any cost. Whats the use of showing these cute arshi scenes today if next moment he has to show off anger at khushi

He will not break the wedding but he will hurl abuses like- " characterless mother and her daughter," might be.

Proverbs by saints and scholars say that – Words spoken form mouth are like a bow shot from an arrow which cant be taken back. Thereby one should be careful while speaking out.

So, arnav has crossed his verbal limit most of times. WILL HE REPEAT AGAIN?????

Its believed that when a person is angry he/she sometimes spills out his inner true feelings outside in anger. That comes out from within heart during angerness. Inner hidden thoughts come out in angerness.

Going by the above logic that is well accepted ..so the observation is.

1. Arnav says on 12^th july out of anger- Khushi why did u enter my life.?? Things weres so normal and happy before u entered my life .Shyam wudnt be incited if u were not here. I wish I had'nt met u.

The above statement about his feelings are true. Reason- No doubt he loves Khushi very much but that love for Khushi is nowhere near love for Anjali. He doesn't mind if God asks him to choose between Anjali n khushi, he wud choose Anjali. Just a small pain to di made him spill out those thoughts from his heart.

1. Arnav on 12^th September out of anger- Who are you in my life to take decisions? How dare you do that? You don't have to show concern about di, iam there for her alive till now. Its my mistake to get u close to me so that you hurt me"

The above statement is true. Reason- He wants Khushi just for love with terms and conditions apply. He wil love khushi on conditions that she will be there for naughty romances and rabbaveys but not be his equal partner in decision making. He believes Khushi is a small town girl who has no decision making power. He wants to love her, care

her, in bed and without bed but not make her a integral part of his bigger life. He doesn't wants to give her freedom of doing things independently. He wants she should just concentrate on being a asr wife.

1. Even Arnavs forceful hate marriage was ignored keeping in mind that somewhere deep within he loves khushi a lot. Accepted. But if love was so prime for him why didn't he restrain himself from calling Khushi that its better her parents aren't alive to see a characterless daughter having affair with a married men.

This comment was not just attacking to her but her family background, the genes she had of her parents.

its natural that after past comes out ARNAV will spill out fire like dragon at the GUPTAS and Khushi is no exception.

But still Arnav will marry Khushi. That is good But he will again hurl abuses too.

We all TM's come from repectable families, and we know the importance of self respect.

In this forum I saw even male TM's totally criticising this act of arnav. No self respecting person wants to see such things on screen. The beauty of love is being faded by Khushi's muteness and her inability to threaten to walk out of relation.

IMPORTANT THING.

Arnav loves Khushi and Khushi loves Arnav. Just see the difference , when khushi jokingly said you don't love me arnav ji, you are liar. The way she said was pure a fun intended. But ASR got violent on that joke . So just imagine how bad Khushi feels when arnav says hurtful things in a serious, rough, and in rude mode??? And that also many many times till now even.

What is the use of that love if u have to hurt the next moment??

So understood the difference between the love of both of them ??

U know the real problem is till now asr has nt realised what khushi has suffred under him. He thinks she loves him.that is enough for him. He has taken her for granted. He said sorry because he felt his decisions were wrong. But he doesn't realise what Khushi goes through even till now if someone talks to her rudely. He doesn't realise yaar. For him cozy moments are enough to proof love. But he has to rise above all and stop throwing off his temper at Khushi.

Love for elder sister is no bad, But after having spoiled someones life for a sister who is least bothered, what right arnav has to behave rudely with Khushi even if khushi is wrong suppose for instance.

All love, respect for di,

But Lust, throwing off anger reserved for Khushi. There is no denying he loves khushi but CV's have not shown how these two fell in love.They have shown how Arnav loves his Di a lot. And How ASR just wants to flirt. No talk about emotional love?? Why Cv's??

It was more of a settlement after kidnap where arnav is trying to imply to khushi - where will u go,? society will ridicule u, better come to me, plus I love u too. And Khushi thinking about her parents, society is also on the same page as arnav. It's a kind of settlement, SAMJHAUTA cobined with a convenient love set up . Do ponder on it…we know they love each other but it has not been shown naturaaly from point A to point Z. Actually they haven't spoken to each other normally like a love couple. They always meet for flirtatious scenes. If both had a step by step process in accepting each other arnav wud hv never taked rudely to her. He came from Kidnap , appeased her, Scolded her, Again flirting, Again will burn in anger after past comes, Instaed of crying on Khushi's shoulders, he will side her far away from him. He will marry her…again sorry, So this sorry-forgive game continues.

Big one...

oh my God beautifully written! they way u have explained every single point!i dont have to say much after this,bt arnav really need to talk/think/do emotionally when it comes to khushi!

sorry but till now i have never seen Arnav blaimg that "dusri aurat" even dadi said that he always considered his dad at mistake.. everyone said about dusri aurat but Arnav said because of his dad! 😊 when he didnt blame that lady who actually had affair with his dad (according to him) why will he blame his own wife ..just because she is the niece of that lady?
above all we must wait and watch...cause at the end of the day time has changed.. this time there is love! so lets just see!!

i fear Khushi's mahan self sacrificing Atma more than Arnav's anger!

oh ya i loved the way you wrote! :) anyways just my POV.. i am not that serious about all this after all its a fiction and it has to work as per CV's will..!! 😊

Arnav is a changed man and he WONT blast at Khushi this time. He will support her.

oh man! First of all, hats off to you to make such a beautiful post and with so much detail yaar.
having to think of it, arnav is being portrayed like that. even after openly knowing the fact that Di is not trusting his decision in shyam's case, did he ever get angry at his Di? why is her happiness alone is so important? why is he not shown being angry with di? not scolding di? not insulting di? but, all of these are targeted at one person and it is khushi. we know that. however, i feel he is emotionally attached to khushi as well. he has never even thought of opening up about his past in front of even his di, but he did share those things with khushi. he needs her for emotional support as well. he feels she is very strong and has dealt with parents death in early age, just like him. he feels he can't share these with di bcos he feels he needs to be her support and can't ask her for support. why is she being given so much importance? why is she being thought as weak, when she can sneakily go n meet shyam? Anyways, Arnav's temper fears me as well.but, somehow, i feel this time, he would stand up for khushi and won't let his anger overpower him. that will be the biggest change in his character after accepting khushi's love.

I just made this post thinking it is a positive hint..

Dadi said arnav had a misunderstanding last time just like this time.. she couldn't do anything to change his opinion.. however, he needs to correct his mistakes and should not repeat the same mistake again.. I think dadi spoke something of this.. what she meant was wrt arnav's past..

but, the hidden meaning I felt is the mistake he did by not trusting khushi bcos of misunderstanding and then marrying her. so, this time he will not repeat the same mistake by marrying her forcefully for punishing. instead, he will correct the mistake that he did last time by trusting her and marrying her properly.

Somehow against my own wishes i need to accept that you are speaking the truth...
If he really needs to know and understand khushi's worth..i definitely support separation..
Lets see how CVs work this out 😭 🤢

I'm sure he'll be with Khushi this time... He had almost lost her before, now I'm sure he won't do it... I trust him now...

Yes due to the difference you have explained between ASR's priorities towards Khushi it explains Khushi's real status in his life. This change in prioties needs to come ASAP because it affects the story line to a very large extent. ASR has to realize ASAP that Anjali has to move on in life & ASR has to start afresh with Khushi soon. ASR cant decide for Anjali for so long. Anjali needs to behave like an adult she behaves so embarrassingly now - a - days.