Dadi was right actually - Page 3

Originally posted by: innocentgreen

good one. When i saw anjali requesting Asr to give back his shyam to her , i was like now ASR take a stand, tell her if u want him then go & stay @ his house.Coming to your post then i agree with your points. when a woman gets married , she becomes the responsibility of her husband & here am talking about emotional phase. if she stays back with her husband ,with other members of her family then rift are more likely to happen. my husband always says that son in law must never become ghar jamai. Coz the respect they deserve in front of in laws diminishes & even the person who is a ghar jamai always becomes a joru ka ghulam i.e his authority diminishes to some extent it is true. When i newly got married, then i faced a lot of trauma coz of interference from my sister in law in my marital life.My life became a living nightmare But My husband supported me a lot & he never backed away from his responsibilities & i love my hubby 4 that. U are always under scrutiny. And that's why i don't like the concept of anjali's staying under the same roof with her brother. her married life is getting scattered , along with that it is disturbing the happiness of her brother. And my husband always asked me ,"what's there in this serial that u are so addicted to it ". I replied sometimes i see myself in the character khushi, always giving & receiving nothing in returns ...

Originally posted by: cagirl

and it's not just a matter of living arrangements...where the hell are shyam's family members? would have expected a raizada behn/beti to be married into a good family not just to some random dude with no family.

You are so right...That is exactly what I was thinking while watching Anjali-Shyam conversation yesterday. If they cannot live without each other and the family doesnt approve then why cant they move to their own house??? Secondly, Dadi, who claims to believe in 'reeti-riwaaz', is advocating for the son-in-law to be brought back as a ghar jamai. Is that a Raizada/Malik family tradition too??? She made a good point about Anjali being Shyam's responsibilty though.

I made a post on this too, but I said Arnav has been financially support Anjali and used to support Shyam too, so that does make him more responsible than Shyam. Shyam hasn't even provided a roof over Anjali's head. Even when he was thrown out of the house he was still using Anjali's credit card to buy CCTV equipment. What responsibility is Dadi talking about? She needs to tell Shyam to man up first.

Originally posted by: rima

i am curious to meet the scoundrel's family

which kind of family gave birth to such a criminal

and how did the raizadas allow such a marriage

Good point, I wonder who arranged the Shyam-Anjali match, maybe it was Arnav that's why he feels he let his Di down

Actually now this Shyam drama has to unfold this track is going too long - almost 1 year + let him be negative character and give trouble but his truth has to come out to every one now - CVs tried high point by showing miscarriage (actually murder by father) and TRP also did not increase so this whole concept failed - ppl do not have sympathy for Anjali (if main lead ka miscarriage touch wood should not happen like Sasural Simar Ka - to shayad TRP would have gone up - may be) - or lets put it other way such miscarriage tracks are really over used by Ekta serials in past so people have got immune to such scenes now

Originally posted by: akanksha_a

You are so right...That is exactly what I was thinking while watching Anjali-Shyam conversation yesterday. If they cannot live without each other and the family doesnt approve then why cant they move to their own house??? Secondly, Dadi, who claims to believe in 'reeti-riwaaz', is advocating for the son-in-law to be brought back as a ghar jamai. Is that a Raizada/Malik family tradition too??? She made a good point about Anjali being Shyam's responsibilty though.

But then again, if Shyam and not to forget Anjali are not in RM then how will the CVs' story progress? Hence again, for the nth time, logic goes out the window 😊

Originally posted by: Banaya1

I made a post on this too, but I said Arnav has been financially support Anjali and used to support Shyam too, so that does make him more responsible than Shyam. Shyam hasn't even provided a roof over Anjali's head. Even when he was thrown out of the house he was still using Anjali's credit card to buy CCTV equipment. What responsibility is Dadi talking about? She needs to tell Shyam to man up first.

i really do not understand where the problem is - it is not that shyam is illiterate- he is a lawyer, so he should be earning enough to support a family(of only 2 members), he does not have any other responsibilities...so why don't they shift to their own bungalow/ apartment ???

Originally posted by: craziefan

i really do not understand where the problem is - it is not that shyam is illiterate- he is a lawyer, so he should be earning enough to support a family(of only 2 members), he does not have any other responsibilities...so why don't they shift to their own bungalow/ apartment ???

dadi can be with anjali if she is not well enough to take care of herself...