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Posted: 13 years ago
#11
good one. When i saw anjali requesting Asr to give back his shyam to her , i was like now ASR take a stand, tell her if u want him then go & stay @ his house.Coming to your post then i agree with your points. when a woman gets married , she becomes the responsibility of her husband & here am talking about emotional phase. if she stays back with her husband ,with other members of her family then rift are more likely to happen. my husband always says that son in law must never become ghar jamai. Coz the respect they deserve in front of in laws diminishes & even the person who is a ghar jamai always becomes a joru ka ghulam i.e his authority diminishes to some extent it is true. When i newly got married, then i faced a lot of trauma coz of interference from my sister in law in my marital life.My life became a living nightmare But My husband supported me a lot & he never backed away from his responsibilities & i love my hubby 4 that. U are always under scrutiny. And that's why i don't like the concept of anjali's staying under the same roof with her brother. her married life is getting scattered , along with that it is disturbing the happiness of her brother. And my husband always asked me ,"what's there in this serial that u are so addicted to it ". I replied sometimes i see myself in the character khushi, always giving & receiving nothing in returns ...
Edited by innocentgreen - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#12

and it's not just a matter of living arrangements...where the hell are shyam's family members? would have expected a raizada behn/beti to be married into a good family not just to some random dude with no family.

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Posted: 13 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: Harshitha

Looking at the state of the show i would say :


I might go a little off topic dont mind 😳

1) Anjali was an amazing sister before 😛 but not anymore 🤢 (we should learn how to make a utmost positive character into a negative one from CV's)
true. shw was a sweetheart
2) ASR chants Di as if there is not other word in the world left to say - he has taken the unnecessary action of assuming that he is responsible for his beloved Di who is married & no more beloved for the viewers.
true. this is unhealthy
3) Di is supposedly married so she supposed to be logically keeping the Indian society in mind in her husband's place but that is not happening here at all.
for the pooja thaal carrying traditional di, this is weird
4) She does not like Khushi & ASR proximity that much & but she brags about Shyam & herself.
ASR & Khushi both have this weird quality of thinking they are responsible for what ever happens to their family members.i wish i cud wring khushi and asr's neck for this. i started losing it for anji since that satsang episode

5) ASR acts as if he the only one to protect DI not one else exists other than him. there is nani, mami mama & recent addition dadi in line
and funnily there is no one for his wife
6) No comments for Dadi she is a completely different issue for me - i go pages on her
dadi is a waste
ASR has to a large extent brought this situation to him on his self - Anjali should not be blamed completely.
worst part is he has also created compkications for his wife

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Posted: 13 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: -SmileAway-

I agree with your post to an extent. What I don't however see eye-to-eye is,

"CVs how about correcting this biggest blooper in the serial where a married woman is fighting a battle to get her legally married husband into her maternal home which is not at all as per Indian culture?"

Why is it frowned upon if the man lives with the woman in her own house?

And yeah, Anjali is no one's responsibility, to be honest. Every adult is responsible for their own actions.


well that is the 'traditional' indian concept in this traditional show
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Posted: 13 years ago
#15

Originally posted by: Fazila~

Ab in cvs ko main kiya naam doon...If u see the serial from first epi...u will see that Anjali came to stay at RH for 8 days only...God knows when her 8 days will end...🤔


Gr8 post.👏...q is...are they listening????😉

yeah
now that u mention it i remember it was just 8 days😊
who knew then it will be forever
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Posted: 13 years ago
#16

Originally posted by: Angels11



I ve been yelling this frm the rooftops for quite some time now Rima. I am totally fed up now! if her pati is indeed parameshwar to her then y the hell is she still staying in her brother's house. Why cant she go live with her hubby DAMMIT 😡

kyunki pati ke paas paisa nahi hai na
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Posted: 13 years ago
#17

Originally posted by: sampin

And how can a conservative and traditional woman like Daadi support this whole concept?


An already married couple has to fight against the whole world to live together as a couple in the husband's house...

And a lecher,a murderer is welcomed into his in-laws' house to live as a ghar-Jamai off his BIL's hard earned money!!

Care to explain,dear CV's??!!

exactly
the way dadi was fighting and saying shyam only wants his wife back
so let him take her and leave and leave asr in peace
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Posted: 13 years ago
#18

Originally posted by: cagirl

too much to ask for, dear. heaven forbid we actually get any kind of logic or consistency from the CVs.

logic and cvs don't go togehter
Edited by rima - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#19

Originally posted by: .._sonii_..

Yeah exactly.. I wrote something similar yesterday..

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3181175

will check it out buddy
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Posted: 13 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: priya_86

I loved that line of yours (in red), how can a grown up/an adult ever be the responsibility of anybody until and unless he/she is mentally retarded or incapable of taking decisions by himself/herself ? An adult woman is responsible just for herself, no one is responsible for her...not parents, not siblings, not even husband😊

true
only the completely disabled and children are other peole's responsibilities
anjali is neither
she just has a limp

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