Dadi was right actually - Page 9

Originally posted by: charlotte74

Firstly, Arnav is extremely protective of is sister as she is the only link he has to his mother. (somehow he doesn't care that much for his mother's mother)

Arnav thinks his Di will be lost without him because she is married to a worthless piece of scum. Right from the beginning it has been shown that Shyam gets an allowance from Arnav. I guess Arnav thought it best to keep his Di with him where she will be able to live a decent life.

After knowing how low he can get how can he let her go off and live with him?

But what he needs to do right now is look her straight in the eye and tell her what Shyam told him on the wedding night

"RANI SAHIBA IS THE ONLY OBSTACLE BETWEEN ME AND KHUSHIJI' Even after that if she doesn't believe him then he needs to let her go.

Originally posted by: Cyberpsychooo

Aaj subha se likhna chah rahi hun, par kar nahin pai...

So of course u r totally right!

Why doesnt dadi give the idea that she and anjali will leave with shyam, to their house! so 3 idiots together...

When ipkknd started anjali moved in RM... Before that she lived wid creepwa! So back to roots plz!

We know na, that asr wont let her go. But why didnt they think about this option? Khaas taur par dadi!

Its sad, but I gotta agree with you. Arnav should just let Anjali discover it by herself.

Originally posted by: meeyaa

Actually that one gesture of Arnav to house her sister and giving her all rights to own and rule the house like her own has costed him a lot... she is supposed to be a master of parampara and doesnt even know the basics ...

and the best...as we say in tamil..."jaadiketha moodi"...(the right lid for the jar)...his wife Khushi also agrees and believes thats how things should be... a normal lady would first question...but Khushi will be called names if she even dares to think or suggest that...she has to even sacrifice her own life for the sake of her enemies...

the serial is aptly named !

More than Anjali's blind love for Shyam...it is Arnav's blind love for Anjali that is creating issues for himself...let his head rule for a min wrt Anjali and he would understand that its her fault all the while...more than Shyam's...

the CVs have destroyed the credibility of Arnav's character...here they show him saying Shyam cannot enter the house...and in the next scene...they show that Shyam enters the house, without any trouble and plots against him sitting inside his own damn house...what worth is ASR's dialog then...

its absolutely disgusting and repelling to say the least...this is the only serial where the villain is glorified instead of the hero...and Anjali cannot get any worse further...

Originally posted by: newipkk

Hi Rima,

Just commenting on the concept...I completely DISAGREE with the idea that a married woman is a husband's responsibility. I think the biggest problem of our society is this thinking which very much works against working woman because a husband is made to feel that he is the primary bread winner and should provide for his wife. If society accepted the role of a woman as a primary provider and a husband as a supporter, we would truly become a progressive society.

The second idea which I disagree with is a woman has no rights on her maternal property after marriage. Society makes us believe so which I find wrong. Can you imagine how nice it would be if a girl doesn't have to leave her parent's house after marriage just for the sake of so called RESPECTABLE thing to do. Why can't a couple decide to live in a house which is most convenient for them---be it the girl's house or boy's house?

After reading so many comments on your thread, I am disappointed with the opinion and thinking of so many educated women...I am not bashing anyone. Just sad at how many ages it will take to change such thinking! Education hasn't helped much.

I totally agree with the second part of your post that Arnav should give Di a chance to live her own life. I have always believed that Arnav being so protective and possessive about his Di has a major contribution to her becoming this weak (Anjali is ofc responsible for her situation but her family has not helped either). There are two ways to support a person --- one where you just take every decision for them and second where you give them all facts and make them take their own decisions and make them responsible for their decisions. Arnav by choosing the first way has hurt his Di very much. It is sad to see so many women viewers on this forum to never bring this forth as you did and keep making HATE filled posts for Anjali.