Arnav Di is NOT your responsibility,Dadi is Right - Page 2

Originally posted by: Risha.J

I dont know when it happened but I am now officialy a member of the'hate this effing Poojali' club. I mean wth? This delusional women and all her clinging aspects urggghh!! You are absolutely right. Arnav should justlet her go live with her precious Shyam ji and Ill see how she still loves him. But Arnav has too much of a brother's heart to push his own sister inthe lion's den just to teach her a lesson :(.

As for Arnav'ss hurt and his blazing whirlpool of anger and emotion, all I can say is fhat I felt really bad and my heart went out to him but despite all that, deep down inside, I am just dying to see him react thesame way for Khushi. The over-protective natur, that fierce determination to shield andthat scathing anger to rip Shyam in pieces. I mean Shyam hurt Khushi as well, yet I never saw Arnav going to those lengths for Khushi. He never beat him up for Khushi alone. Even when he was thrown out, all the attention was Di ko dhoka nai de sakta bla bla. I mean I would expect him to go wild on anyone who even glances her way and Shyam was lusting after her for months. Where did all the anger go that hadburstforth so dramatically when he got to know of khushi's engagement.

On a side note, Im glad Khushis standing by him throughhis tough times. Perhaps that is the answer to all my queations. Khushi would never need protection from him to the extent that Anjali does because a) shes a strong girl unlike anjali and b) arnav and khushi are just too equal as individuals, no matter how different they are.

Love! (damn this is looong)

wonderful post... 😃
anjali is the epitome of selfishness 😡

Originally posted by: chandana.s

Res

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Totally agree with u...

I'm pissed up with everyone concern towards ANJALI as if she is 1 moth child n they dont have any other work than consoling her/crying for her/thinking about her/feeling bad for her/pampering her etc 🤢 ...there day starts with Anjali n end with Anjali...Plz get a life... 😡

I dont think Arnav never gonna understand that she is not his responsibility unless his soo called Di tell him on his face that its none of his bussiness n its her life,she can make decision in her life... 😡

Buy seeing Shyam trying to make Anjali to stand against Arnav's decision...Hope Arnav learn his lesson that he is over thinking about his Di n he must consentrate in his life...

Khushi also think Shyam has changed..well what better can we expet from a star parivar Bahu... 😉 😆

Glad Arnav is stick to his decision but he has to bend down in front of his Di's emotional blackmail...

Plzzz Just bring the creep back n just end this out i'm fed up with this drama... 😡 🥱

If Dadi or Anjali see Shyam lushing for Khushi still they will blame Khushi only...

One good thing is everyone came to know that Shyam has gone to meet Dadi in Ashram,thats the reason of her arrivel...

Wonderfull post hun... 👏 👏

Originally posted by: -sweetgal19-

Totally agree dear !! That was the only thing Stopwa said right others al bakwas !!😡 Khushi yes I agree with you,it is her nature only to always do anything which will bring happiness to the ones she loves ! But I'm glad she agreed with him in the end ! ASR is certainly using his brains nowdays !! 😃

Originally posted by: pinky89

Nice post sonii !!!! Agree with u ... Am happy Arnav used his brain & asked Dadi everything ...

Originally posted by: .._sonii_..

DEAR RAIZADA'S/MALIKS or anyone else ..

ANJALI IS NOT A BABY !! SHE NEEDS TO LEARN HOW TO SOLVE HER OWN PROBLEMS WITHOUT ANYONE GETTING INVOLVED .. SERIOUSLY IF SHE COULD HANDLE HERSELF, HOW ON EARTH WOULD SHE HAVE COPED WITH A BABY !! IMAGINE THE SCENARIO'S LEAVING THE BABY WITH FAMILY.. While she Romances .. !! YOU ALL WRAP HER UP .. LET HER EXPERIANCE THE UPS AND DOWNS .. PUSH HER OUT OF THE HOUSE .. You know like a Bird Does and LET HER FLY.. If she falls .. She will Try and Try again ..!! Or like a baby when they hurt themselves when playing with something dangerous they know not to do it again .. !!

Yeah Dadi Is Right .. Arnav Di is NOT your responsibility. SHE is her HUSBAND'S Responsibility .. Yeah Anjali Has fully Rights to Live with her Hubby .. So DADI .. You Believe in Ritual ect Over religious ... Don't You believe that Once the GIRL is married they Go to their own house .. !!

Why is she at Arnav's House .. No one can Force her to stay there .. She has HUMAN RIGHTS .. Dadi Do us a Favour .. You take Shyam and Anjali and Live at their House.. That WAY Everyone Wins .. !! And we will See How Long Your Granddaughter Will Survive with Shyam Looking after her .. You will See how your Perfect Damaad Ji will provide and care for Anjali .. I bet She won't even survive a Week .. !!

Looks Like the Whole family are Gulliable and Believe everyone .. Khushi Believing Shyam is Upset W*F, Dadi Believing Shyam, Anjali Believing Shyam,Arnav USED to Believe in Shyam, Buaji Used to Believe in shyam too ..

Is shyam some Magician that puts his magic on people and makes them believe that easily .. Or is his Looks that Hot that people Melt on the spot ? !!

Im glad Arnav is out of his jaadu .. and Believes his a fraud .. !! Thank Goodness he didn't agree to khushi But I expected khushi to do this .. Because it HER NATURE .. The PEOPLE around HER she LOVES and WOULD DO ANYTHING TO MAKE THEM HAPPY .. and she knows if Anjali Has Shyam .. Then Hopefully SHE can spend time with Arnav 😆 I joke .. But looks like he might change his opinion for Precious DI .. !

I hope this Info about Khushi and Shyam doesn't come out .. Otherwise this Bhuddi .. will do anything with the help of shyam to separate them ..and Ofc She Believe's that Women are Wrong .. !

Maybe seeing shyam in the house.. we will se him still lusting and Anjali or dadi noticing !! Maybe their Lightbulb will work or listen to shyams creeping convos with khushi .!!

I totally agree with u...but when it comes to pujali... everyone in RH become blind n dumb n deaf...🤢

Agreed yaar jhalli behaves like she is mirror doll who can touched n hell bent it can tarnished.

I totally agree with you. Anjali was and is pampered to the max. I agree she faced hardships in life but that doesn't mean she should be given everything in life with a silver spoon.

I just want to add few of my thoughts

Anjali (As they are portraying as a BECHARI)

1. Lost parents (But she was not a kid when it happened and also has a brother who loves her more then himself).
2. Her marriage was stopped.
2. Her Husband cheated on her (Ok this she doesn't want to believe as she is BLIND)
3. She lost her baby (This pain I agree is very big. But she is using it to manipulate everyone instead of trying to cope. Also unfortunately many people go through this trauma and its painful. But she went mental and lost her brains).

KUSHI (Who is always neglected, pushed a side and taken for granted by everyone)

1. She lost her parents at a very young age then Anjali
2. She was humiliated in front of everyone in Lucknow. (Courtesy Anjali's CHOTE)
3. Shyam cheated her and her sagai was broken.
4. Arnav insulted her at every chance he got at the beginning because he was attracted to her.
5. She almost died twice because of Arnav (Guest house and suicide attempt).
6. He married her for 6 months (Which is worse situation for any girl).
7. Blackmailed, manipulated and forced her back to his house when every she protested.
8. Every body she loved hated her for the marriage (The reason for that she didn't even knew).
9. Her husband tortured her almost every day both mentally and some times physically.
10. She heard horrible things about her from the man she loved more then herself.
11. She was asked to prove herself when she exposed Shyam. Even Arnav was silent and didn't support her till she literally begged him to believe her because his DI will feel bad.

Now who suffered more and needs some pampering or happiness. Also in all these scenarios Kushi was never wrong. But Anjali blindly trusted Shyam even after her Brother whom she says loves more then anything told her Shyam was bad. This led to her miscarriage (So in a way its her fault she lost her child).

So CV's please get over sympathizing with Anjali and move on. I really hope Arnav realizes how much Kushi suffered and give at least some effort to pamper her and leave Anjali with her mahaan pati. I also want to add Arnav its not your fault Anjali is in this mess. You can force a horse to go near water but can't force it to drink water. Same way you can tell Anjali what is good for her but can't be responsible for her actions.