Understanding Anjali...

Siri22

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Posted: 13 years ago

#61

Originally posted by: rightknell11
NO ANJALI IS NOT WRONG.

IT WAS KHUSHI'S DEFENCE THAT WAS NOT SUFFICIENT.

IT WAS ARNAV'S FAULT THAT HE DID NOT LET ALL THE FACTS KNOWN TO ANJALI.

IT WAS RH'S MISTAKE TO HAVE KEPT QUIET WHEN SUCH OVERWHELMING WITNESSNES SPOKE AGAINST SHYAM.

BECAUSE MAMI AND AKASH WERE QUIET, ANJALI BECAME EVEN MORE DOUBTFUL.

IF ALL FACTS WERE KEPT IN FRONT OF ANJALI AND SHE WOULD NOT BE CONVINCED, WHICH SHE WILL NOT EVEN WHEN THE FACTS COME OUT CLEAR, I CAN UNDERSTAND. THAT IS BECAUSE SHE IS NAIVE AND TOO INNOCENT TO UNDERSTAND THAT SHYAM COULD BE EVIL.

IT IS ARNAV AND KHUSHI'S JOB TO BUST SHYAM AND FOR THAT THEY NEED TO BRING HIM HOME TO TRAP HIM. THAT IS THE ONLY WAY, SHYAM'S TRUTH WILL COME OUT IN THE OPEN.

INSTEAD OF PATTING HER LIKE A PET, THE RH MEMBERS SHOULD SIT AND TALK. NOT HIDE IN THE CORRIDORS KISSING EACH OTHER.

Ok. But then why is she more accepting of Khushi? Saying she wants to move on and leave everything behind?

And I didn't see her asking chote for proof now did she? If she can give give bhashans about how chote changed so much can't she ask one simple question as to why he kicked shyam out.

Give me a break.

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Kookiemonster

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Posted: 13 years ago

#62

Originally posted by: rima

kookie you are a tough kkookie

how can you not say anything dammit

quite unlike you damit

anjali can't do this to you dammit

and yes i am wondering where DKS is dammit

I ranted a lot last night.

I ranted so much that I got sick today and my boss told me to go home and rest.

Anjali is just too much.

DKS is also exhausted tonight.

He also cant rant much.

He will come around.

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Sahana2

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Posted: 13 years ago

#63

Rima,

Nice post and in complete agreement with you. I think now onwards , things will get worse before they start getting better for Anjali.

Shyam will move and create chaos in their lives. Arhi will fight tooth and nail with Shyam that will upset Anjali. It is at that point she may decide to move out with her husband (at least I hope they show her growing a spine).

After that, Shyam will do something even worse to hurt her. When Anjali finds out about Shyam's truth, she'll realize what a fool she has been to go against her brother and sis in law.

Right now Anji's character is not making sense.

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Cetronia

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Posted: 13 years ago

#64

Now for any person who went thro a trauma of a childhood , the person comes out as physically strong right...or in our case completely broken down, fragile...two extremes, one route the brother took and the opposite route the sister has taken...Rima, my most favorite character in the show is Anjali, despite being shown as utterly brainless, clingy, pampered , still there was always a genuine goodness in her..so when people makes posts like she is manipulative, selfish etc, I just don't seem to agree...

As you said in ur post she absolutely loves her husband , who treated her as his queen and he still does even after her own blood threw him out..that's what Anjali thinks...

To be doing things behind Arnav's back shows how desperate she yearns for Shyam and she is trying her best to hold on the hopes of having a family for her newborn...

She has not still witnessed any of Shyam's conniving ways and till that happens she will be in absolute denial...now adding fuel to the fire , Dadi has joined their coalition and that convinces Anjali ,that what she is doing ,is for love for her husband is right with the blessings of Dadi...

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trina2010

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Posted: 13 years ago

#65

Rima you are absolutely right. I understand her being delusional about her hubby. Many women are. It's not abnormal.
What bothers me is her attitude towards her lifestyle. She wants to live in her brothers home, using his money for her luxurious lifestyle, letting her hubby spend her brothers money . If she loves him why can't she go with him and stay there.
Yeah she met Arnqv behind his back and bashed Arnav and Khushi when they wanted to spend some time with each other.
She was jealous because Arnav bought some gifts for Khushi where she spends her brothers money for herself as well as her hubby.
She never asked Arnav about his kidnapping.
What kind of a sister is she?
I really wanna see something like Arnav bashing her for secretly meeting Shyam and also saying something like he tortured the love of his life for her benefit where she betrayed for a two timing cheat.

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rightknell11

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Posted: 13 years ago

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my question: if she loves her husband why did she not go with him? just why?

even now why is she not walking out?

she can hurt chote by betraying him and not walking out for her husband?

of course she is selfish

she was unhappy with chote's romance

but she did the same when she met shyam when they went to temple

CVs will never raise that issue, because if they do, one would have to know where Shyam is living. Obviously he is not living at any respectful place and has no where to take a wife. And Arnav will never let him take his Di. He will make certain this does not happen. So that is why that issue is not being raised.

Yes she was unhappy with Chhote's romance because Arnav took everyone by surprise by marrying Khushi and did not tell Anjali why. Anjali took this enviously taking that Khushi is so much a part of his life now that he did not bother telling his Di. That is Anjali's contention against Khushi, though indirectly.

However, now that there is nothing Arnav can achieve by hiding why he married Khushi, he should tell Anjali in the first instance why he did that. He did not tell Anjali at all. Till today! So again Anjali is in the dark. And when a naive and innocent woman like Anjali is in the dark, she will of course be inclined to think that Shyam is being misunderstood.

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rima

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: kookie2020

I ranted a lot last night.
I ranted so much that I got sick today and my boss told me to go home and rest.
Anjali is just too much.
DKS is also exhausted tonight.
He also cant rant much.
He will come around.

u poor babies

yeah too much ranting happened yesterday when my dam net conked off

anyway no amount ranting will help with this show😊

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rima

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: rightknell11
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my question: if she loves her husband why did she not go with him? just why?

even now why is she not walking out?

she can hurt chote by betraying him and not walking out for her husband?

of course she is selfish

she was unhappy with chote's romance

but she did the same when she met shyam when they went to temple

CVs will never raise that issue, because if they do, one would have to know where Shyam is living. Obviously he is not living at any respectful place and has no where to take a wife. And Arnav will never let him take his Di. He will make certain this does not happen. So that is why that issue is not being raised.

Yes she was unhappy with Chhote's romance because Arnav took everyone by surprise by marrying Khushi and did not tell Anjali why. Anjali took this enviously taking that Khushi is so much a part of his life now that he did not bother telling his Di. That is Anjali's contention against Khushi, though indirectly.

However, now that there is nothing Arnav can achieve by hiding why he married Khushi, he should tell Anjali in the first instance why he did that. He did not tell Anjali at all. Till today! So again Anjali is in the dark. And when a naive and innocent woman like Anjali is in the dark, she will of course be inclined to think that Shyam is being misunderstood.

Samjheev?

a good wife will never stay where hr husband is not respected. CVs first failure

Sudden marriage was 6 monhts back ad anjali thinks he married for love

so why did she grudge chote some happiness

arnav should tell the truth. but she also can find out. she is not helpless you know

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Sayali_23

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: rightknell11
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my question: if she loves her husband why did she not go with him? just why?

even now why is she not walking out?

she can hurt chote by betraying him and not walking out for her husband?

of course she is selfish

she was unhappy with chote's romance

but she did the same when she met shyam when they went to temple

CVs will never raise that issue, because if they do, one would have to know where Shyam is living. Obviously he is not living at any respectful place and has no where to take a wife. And Arnav will never let him take his Di. He will make certain this does not happen. So that is why that issue is not being raised.

Yes she was unhappy with Chhote's romance because Arnav took everyone by surprise by marrying Khushi and did not tell Anjali why. Anjali took this enviously taking that Khushi is so much a part of his life now that he did not bother telling his Di. That is Anjali's contention against Khushi, though indirectly.

However, now that there is nothing Arnav can achieve by hiding why he married Khushi, he should tell Anjali in the first instance why he did that. He did not tell Anjali at all. Till today! So again Anjali is in the dark. And when a naive and innocent woman like Anjali is in the dark, she will of course be inclined to think that Shyam is being misunderstood.

Samjheev?

sorry to interrupt like this...

But Arnav already explained Anajali why he married Khushi... he explained how when he married Khushi he didn't love her... He married Khushi for Anajali and her baby... if she was not convinced with those explanations... she had the perfect opportunity to demand answers to her questions...

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rima

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: Soloperson
Now for any person who went thro a trauma of a childhood , the person comes out as physically strong right...or in our case completely broken down, fragile...two extremes, one route the brother took and the opposite route the sister has taken...Rima, my most favorite character in the show is Anjali, despite being shown as utterly brainless, clingy, pampered , still there was always a genuine goodness in her..so when people makes posts like she is manipulative, selfish etc, I just don't seem to agree...
As you said in ur post she absolutely loves her husband , who treated her as his queen and he still does even after her own blood threw him out..that's what Anjali thinks...
To be doing things behind Arnav's back shows how desperate she yearns for Shyam and she is trying her best to hold on the hopes of having a family for her newborn...
She has not still witnessed any of Shyam's conniving ways and till that happens she will be in absolute denial...now adding fuel to the fire , Dadi has joined their coalition and that convinces Anjali ,that what she is doing ,is for love for her husband is right with the blessings of Dadi...

priya sorry ma

anjali used to be my fav too

her goodness warmed my heart

but that was till she got angry with asr for being with his wife

that was till she refused to walk out with her husband when he was thrown out

then i lost it for her...genuinely lost my respect for the character, though i still don't think she is bad

but yes, she is completely self centred now and always uses chote's weakness to her advantage

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