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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Soloperson


Awww...🤗..just imagine Arnav saying "sssh it's ok it's ok" sab teek hojayaga"...


that would be lovely to imagine arnav at this point - perfect timing Priya - feeling a lil better now

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Posted: 13 years ago
frankly i ust adored anjali . simply adred her
i am upset with this portryal of her
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Posted: 13 years ago
Reminds me...the new promo is such a cliffhanger, no? 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: -SmileAway-


Exactly! They aren't doing a perfect justifiable portrayal of a woman in denial. And that is exactly what I meant when I said that's the reason most people then start to view them as negative, selfish or stupid people. I am not blaming the viewers for this perception at all. In fact it's actually the writers' fault for not being able to do their job for the character they created, properly.

However I am still willing to give her that benefit of doubt, and believe that she is definitely someone who is in denial, preferring to live in her own fantasy world where everything is perfect.
And my posts were only to reflect on the other side of the situation - or in other words, look at it from Anjali's POV.
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I agree ... Because of their troubled past the siblings have certain issues. If Arnav's is distrust, then Anjali's is denial. It is similar to a character in the movie jaane tu ya jaane na. The girl believes in an imaginary world and refuses to accept that her parents hate each other.
Such characters exist in real life as well. It is their defense mechanism against the harsh realities of life.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: -Aimz-


Oh My God, you just spoke out my...imagination.
This would have been beautiful. Simply beautiful.

Is it because they didn't want to make it too predictable?
Well guess what, we'd rather have predictable than horrible.
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It shouldnt be about predictability. Some instances in real life are always predictable. Its biz world, TRPs matters. It would have done wonders with TRPs and we would have been back in top 5.
Let me tell you In the above scenario Arnav's character wont be out of his character traits as CVs believed if he says sorry its out of ASR character. When he can breakdown for his sister, and believving that Khushi cheated him, why not after realizing his mistake. Infact it would have taken his character to greater heights.😊

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: aath

I fast forward her scenes too when I am watching online.


who doesnt do that
i saved my self from hospital epi i saw it flash backs my bad luck
i have bunked all her scenes during online when i relish over arhi & Khushi that brings my mood back

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Harshitha


that would be lovely to imagine arnav at this point - perfect timing Priya - feeling a lil better now


Harshu do me a favor, while u r at it, give him a tight hug and also finish that adhoore kiss too...I can rest in peace...😆
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Harshitha

smileaway the more i read ur posts (its not bad quite a good argument) the more depressed im getting & the more irritated i feel at the thought of Anjali

acha bala character ka kya haal kiya CV's ne
the lovely sister i saw before is gone away


But we do see that happening in real life as well harshitha ... People are often torn apart between sibling and spouse.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: -SmileAway-


Once again, I understand where you are coming from when you posed all those questions. As a viewer, trust me, even I was frustrated with how she was behaving. But then I thought over it, and tried looking at it from her POV (which as I have pointed out before, the CVs are doing a terrible job of doing)

She literally believes that she can mend the family back together. Going behind Chote's back was to meet Shyam and ease out her insecurities.
Going behind Chote's back because she knew that what she was doing was wrong. And she didn't want to create more problems than necessary.

Maybe, Shyam has cleared the air for her. And so she takes his word on things. Remember when Mami accused Shyam of cheating, she refused to believe it. It was almost as though she was physically pushing that thought away.

When Khushi accused Shyam, she looked at Shyam to clear the confusion.

So after all the fiasco, she runs after Shyam again. However this time, without Arnav as she knows that he won't like it.

She thinks that as time goes by, the wounds will heal and Arnav will forgive Shyam - maybe that's the coping mechanism she took when her parents passed away? She thinks that she will be the saviour and protect her family from shattering. What she doesn't realise is that she is driving the family apart with her antics.

I am probably reading wayyy too much into this, however I am just trying to analyse her actions and hopefully get some insight into her thinking. Not justifying her actions at all - rather I am getting them out in the open for debate :)


Yes dear I got that u r just trying to analyze her..just like me. Anjali has a control sensitive personality driven by insecurity. People who are control sensitive have adopted means to control life so that mishap does not happen. Her strategy is doing excessive pooja's to please gods and clinging on to people specifically chotte. What makes me angry with her is she does not even attempt to look into how she has approached her life so far?? She keeps on blaming some MU for life? Rather I dont know what she is blaming for right now... anyone person in her position would attempt assess their life not just blindly move ahead like a car on dark road without headlights...Another thing we has put me off personally is since the day the truth is revealed she is just trying to be the focus of everyone's attention, not once has she thought how her brother is affected. So no matter whether I understand her this selfish aspect she displays makes me want to scream every time I see her on screen

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: -Aimz-

Reminds me...the new promo is such a cliffhanger, no? 😊


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