IF MUST ANSWER 2 DIS!URGENT DISCUSSION WITH PROOF! - Page 4

Originally posted by: sarunrocking

good post dear n love ur post !!!!!!!!!!👍🏼 really people should atleast comment n write there views n ya by saying some good lines about good topic makers n their posts it would'nt be wrong n i do comment even on newbies post too ... n being a sarun n arhi fan people should respect them too n other actors n this show too😊

Originally posted by: rushshri

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Well said tiashaa. Must say job well done.

I really feel sorry for whatever loss u hv gone thru and admire u for so strong enough to move on in ur life instead of sitting and getting depressed. Ppl have to b strong enough to have that courage.

Ok lets come back to topic'.thnx for not giving me the name of dat rockerz otherwise I wud hv bashed her here itself which is not welcome in this forum (as it is said). If u really looks to my posts I have more newbeis and groupies than rockerz and dazzlerz and I don't regret that. I personally never open a thread just for the name sake and never gv comments just for name sake. U can find my comment in the niebie post too. Wen a person is joining forum he/she has equal rights as any other sizzlerz. If I like the thread I comment. Liking a post is difficult for me bcoz of network connection but the posts I love I do comment just to put my pov.

Before adding someone to my list I never chk he/she is newbie or sizzler. He/she has made a request to b a friend of mine and I sud respect that. I welcome evry1 and add evry1. that is y I have so many friends here. There r many members whom I know personally, even had a talk wid them on phone and there are many who share their own personal problems with me. i don't know what comfort zone they receive from me but there are many who do tell me their personal problems and I never disclose to ne1 else. i try to calm them as far as i can, help them if i can and try to understand them. That's all I do and trust i really got respect n blessing for that.

Regarding Barun n Sanaya's case I think barun has more comments and likes bcoz this forum has majority of members in this forum are ladies and dey prefer barun more. But I am happy that even sanaya has so many followers.

For the posts I wanna say there are many posts which r repeated like u have shown "loved d epi" post. There are so many analyses coming in the forum about the epi so if they really wanna discuss this they can do in that. Ppl normally prefer to discuss the episodes in those posts. What I want to share is when I was new to this forum I also used to make few posts with 0 likes. Can u believe my first OS in this forum had gone to "0" likes. It was a love scene for which ppl now wait. It happens gradually like it happened with u too.

I wanna add there has to be somethg unique with ur post which no other is making then ur thread will be liked by many. I know one vm maker who used to make 1 min funny vms and I used to love those but she in absence of not so many likes she stopped making. I didn't liked and her creativity is lost, dat was sad for me. Bcoz her future potential of creativeness was crushed.

Also I wud like to add there is so much negativity spread in the forum and sometimes its really hard to breath. Many times I have come up wid a thread to spread appealing not to bash and I am bashed for my positivity. Bashing posts in name of CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM say nethg and that is welcomed. Ppl are filling pages and pages for the negative posts unnecessarily. What they r discussing is haircut of barun, dress of sanaya, ring was original or not, barun n sanaya was original or not, PH is kanjoos and blah blah blah. Frankly I don't open such posts and if I open I bash them.

For an actor criticism is all welcome and discussing is OK. But discussing their personal lives that wat her boyfriend must hv thought or how his wife must be reacting, is ridiculous. I never bashed ne actor. All r doin gr8 jobs, its just that I like barun. Some body else like some other actor but loving barun doesn't mean I am bashing others.

Phew bahut likh diya na...ab koi padhega bhi ya aivanyi jayega. 😆

Originally posted by: pieryrose

good post dear! actually an eyeopener for everyone in this forum!!!!! 👏

Originally posted by: fan145

dhmaka post agree o each and evrything even whn i was nwebie nobody comments o my post even now but i used to comment o others post tths how i got to here ..and abt sanayas pfile i doo keep tth equality if i comment on barun immediately comment o sanns too

Originally posted by: cutelittleangel

its awes0me post]..

and seriously this is the prob of this f0rum...

abhi kuch dino pehle mere sath bhi yehi hua...! i posted some of my vms and just got 2 comments...can u believe it!

and i was too much hurt...

seriously we shud think about otherz feelings...and wht if the person is newbie...we shud help her to get settled...and yeah to everyone with high ranks---> DON"T FORGET THAT U WERE ALSO A NEWBIE ONCE!!

so dun treat the newbies like crap...!

i agree with ur all points!

but the 1st one surprised me..lik the IF-dazzler n newbie thing.bcoz i accept every1's buddy req n i don't see wether she is newbie or other.

and ya the comments thing also makes me a little bit sad,lik ppl love 2 follow n comment n those ppl's post who r popular and they comment thr even if they don't understnd the post!😕

but thnz 4 the post like it atleast som1 said this!:D