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Well said Tisha. Must say job well done.

I really feel sorry for whatever loss u hv gone thru and
admire u for so strong enough to move on in ur life instead of sitting and
getting depressed. Ppl have to b strong enough to have that courage.

Ok lets come back to topic'.thnx for not giving me the name
of dat rockerz otherwise I wud hv bashed her here itself which is not welcome
in this forum (as it is said). If u really looks to my posts I have more
newbeis and groupies than rockerz and dazzlerz and I don't regret that. I
personally never open a thread just for the name sake and never gv comments
just for name sake. U can find my comment in the niebie post too. Wen a person
is joining forum he/she has equal rights as any other sizzlerz. If I like the thread I comment. Liking a post
is difficult for me bcoz of network connection but the posts I love I do
comment just to put my pov.

Before adding someone to my list I never chk he/she is newbie or sizzler. He/she has made a request to b a friend of mine and I sud respect that. I welcome evry1 and add evry1. that is y I have so many friends here. There r many members whom I know personally, even had a talk wid them on phone and there are many who share their own personal problems with me. I don't know what comfort zone they receive from me but there are many who do tell me their personal problems and I never disclose to ne1 else. i try to calm them as far as I can, help them if I can and try to understand them. That's all I do and trust i really got respect n blessing for that.

Regarding Barun n Sanaya's case I think barun has more comments and likes
bcoz this forum has majority of members in this forum are ladies and dey prefer
barun more. But I am happy that even sanaya has so many followers.

For the posts I wanna say there are many posts which r
repeated like u have shown "loved d epi" post. There are so many analyses
coming in the forum about the epi so if they really wanna discuss this they can
do in that. Ppl normally prefer to discuss the episodes in those posts. What I want
to share is when I was new to this forum I also used to make few posts with 0
likes. Can u believe my first OS in this forum had gone to "0" likes. It was a
love scene for which ppl now wait. It happens gradually like it happened with u
too.

I wanna add there has to be somethg unique with ur post
which no other is making then ur thread will be liked by many. I know one vm
maker who used to make 1 min funny vms and I used to love those but she in absence
of not so many likes stopped making. I didn't liked and her creativity is
lost, dat was sad for me bcoz her future potential of creativeness was
crushed.

Also I wud like to add there is so much negativity spread in
the forum and sometimes its really hard to breath. Many times I have come up
wid a thread to spread positivity appealing not to bash and I am bashed for my positivity.
Bashing posts in name of CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM say nethg and that is welcomed.
Ppl are filling pages and pages for the
negative posts unnecessarily. What they r discussing is haircut of barun, dress
of sanaya, ring was original or not, barun n sanaya was original or not, PH is
kanjoos and blah blah blah. Frankly I don't open such posts and if I open I
bash them.

For an actor criticism is all welcome and discussing is OK. But
discussing their personal lives that wat her boyfriend must hv thought or how
his wife must be reacting, is ridiculous. I never bashed ne actor. All r doin
gr8 jobs, its just that I like barun. Some body else like some other actor but
loving barun doesn't mean I am bashing others.

Phew bahut likh diya na...ab koi padhega bhi ya aivanyi jayega. 😆

Let me share something with you all, I am member of this forum since 2009 as a silent reader. I started posting and commenting since June 6th, 2011 (when IPKKND started). I have posted 50 - 60 topics and commented very few topics. I love reading all the SS, OS, FF and I admire writers here. I spend almost 9 - 10 hrs on IF, that too IPKKND forum, mostly and the most silent reader.