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Posted: 13 years ago
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For the love of ArHi
For the sake of the audience
For the sake of your own damn story.
Leave this character the he** alone.

You are writing her up to dilute her own marriage, her feelings and her relationship with her "husband". Haven't we been through a mockery of a marriage 6 months ago??
You show her to be mature beyond her years in one frame and then a giggly little girl who doesn't tire of playing rasam rasam.
You make her forget what comes first, suhaag raat or phere in one episode and make her give a lesson is roka 101 in another.
You make her wear a mangal sutra and sindoor and then make her say that she is not yet the wife??
By her own admission, she is already his, then how would a ceremony make her "more" his??
Why put her through these contradictions???

Either make it about them, or move on. These contradictions are killing the essence of this story.

She could have asked him for the rituals because they mean something to her, not because of what the lack of them did to a mythological couple that existed in a different time capsule.

He could have given it to her because they meant something to her, not because he was forced into them by caricatures of the loonkind.

The marriage should have been about them, about her, and about the sanctity of the tradition. Not because the Dadi of rukaawats said so, in the most horribly written dialogues to unfold a plot that you still haven't written.

If you need someone to make a mockery, there are enough people waiting on the sidelines. Use them. Please leave Khushi alone. We know and we have seen that she is much much more than what you are projecting currently.

PS. They have shared so many more moments that are more symbolic to their relationship than what you are scripting right now. Everything in the current track pales in comparison to the bandagement & teej fast break. Those moments belonged to them, within the realm of practiced traditions. We saw the meaning in them. Remind them. Remind us.

EDIT -

Nothing compares to these!

Teej Scene -
[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RwcmHCDRDN8[/YOUTUBE]

Bandagement Scene
[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dYaOCME5ZEA[/YOUTUBE]
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Posted: 13 years ago
#2
YES Please!!!! she needs to be left alone. Such a beautiful story and they are toying with Khushi's moods as if they are changing channels of a freaking TV... pun intended.

I understand her wanting a wedding of her dreams but what we are seeing is pure torture and it only just begun. I can't believe the CVs didn't show her Flashbacking to any of the symbolic stuff these two went thru... how could they not mention anything about them? how???

She is made to act like she is meeting the groom's family for the first time wearing sindoor and mangalsutra... come on, please if you wanna do this the so-called right way, atleast be consistent. Her wearing sindoor and MS, does that mean, they will skip that part of the wedding?

How silly was it to see her saying, Im not Singh Raizada yet... there isn't any concrete wall to bang our heads!

Today Mami was so right... they were roomates for 6months, is it really necessary to bring up "you cant see me until..." angle? really?

The girl that wanted all riti-riwal wedding, wasn't shown having a pre-shagun moment with Babuji or didn't feel the need to halt the shagun until Amma came home. If you want to do her dream, do it right CVs. No-one minds cute romance during the royal style wedding but that doesnt mean they (one or both of them) have to act like last 300 episodes didn't happen. You cannot have Khushi be the only way to build the side characters. Find another way... Pileej!
I can't stop wondering why the PH always underestimates the IQ of the audience?? whyyy?

Mommy... thank you for making the post... this had to be said out loud. 🤗
Edited by DCgirl - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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A post with the sense that the CV's have yet to comprehend!
It's bizarre the way that Kushi has been portrayed so far. I absolutely agree with you that this mass (pun intended) of contradictions is grating on the nerves. Rhyme or reason, I guess, have no place, in the reel world, eh?
Edited by kbtr - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i get what ur saying... but i dont agree

yes they are man an wife in a spiritual sense but not in legal sense. they accept each other. this is enough for arnav but is not wrong for khushi to want it legal in society. making ur marriage legal is important in society.

there marriage is not complete/legal.

hindu marriage are not considered complete without a pandit present. just like a priest has to be present for a christian wedding and a judge for a court marriage.

just putting sindoor and MS on someone does not make them ur wife. khushi does consider him husband in her heart so the conflicting dialogs. but i get y the marriage needs to happen again. they can go to court but this is a show so all the rasams are being shown.

ur right in that the cv's didnt not explain this correctly in the show. they keep talking abt pheras rather than the legality of their marriage. bec they want to maintain the "spiritual marriage" as well.
they want to have it both ways... they want to show love is above any rituals but also show that rituals and traditions should be also respected (SP show's requirement). so her thoughts are coming off as contradictory.. and as usual khushi character is being used.. she is the most flexible character so they bend her thoughts as they see fit.

i hope my train of thoughts made some sense...
Edited by geetmaanluv - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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khushi always follow this rituals n all these rasameys as she brought up her in this way...
Edited by shillu.arshi - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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The issue is NOT whether Khushi has a right to riti and rivaaz. Every single woman has that right.

The issue is why make a mockery of it. Let's show the spirit of the rasams being followed, as was done with all their symbolic rituals of the bandagement and mehndi and haldi, instead of being used as a vehicle for Dadi to try and stop the marriage. It sucks the meaning out of everything and drags this remarriage to no end.

The spirit of the shagun is that we accept your daughter to be our daughter in law. What was the need for the woman who has been living in their house for 6 months to come out like she was meeting them for the first time. I agree Renu, it looked like she was doing some kind of role play.
Similarly each one of these rasams has a meaning, but where the meaning is moot, why push it.
The man considers her his wife, what is the point of you are no longer allowed to see her. And even bigger point, if Akash was allowed to, why this ridiculousness over people who lived together for 6 months?!? They should have gotten to the pheres because that is what makes them married in the eyes of Hindu scripture and finished it.

And why oh why oh why did they write that the woman wearing sindoor and mangalsutra saying she is not his 'wife'? Can they not add something in the script to show that she considers herself his wife, but she needs this in front of society. And she is suddenly so well versed in all the ways of shaadi, except for the order of saat phere versus suhaag raat. *head desk* When are they going to stop manipulating her character to look flaky?

I just want a little acknowledgement that Khushi realizes that ASR and she have a relationship that goes beyond these rituals. He acknowledges her need for the rituals because she needs to feel whole within it and for her family and his to accept them fully, she needs to acknowledge that in some ways the rituals are a show for an already existing deep connection...that there exists a relationship that matters to her. Why can't the CVs script that understanding. Forget Dadi and Di, can you concentrate on the female lead please!
Edited by momma1128 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Renu totally agree tamatar and mangoes with every tthing, will never understand this, just like ASR said she needs saat phere, why don't they show that and be done with. What's with all the rasam and riwaz and they both are beyond all that, just like Maami said they have freaking been together for the past 6 months. Also they have shared everything symbolically, so what's the point, she is acting all shy and coy like a new bride still wearing sindoor and magal sutra?😕. Also puri vidhi ke saath, rasam, rith and riwaaz. I hope they don't drag this wedding track, am already getting a head ache, waiting for the drama thats going to hit us after this. We still have to endure roka, kul devi ki puja, haldi, mehendi, sangeet, phew! the wedding. Also didn't she have "A" written on her hand during Payash's Mehendi, what happened to that? Then comes grihapravesh, muh dhikaayi and finally SR, when it comes to this they will put a huge brake. I am already feeling dizzy and don't tell me Khushi will be unaware of what she feels and keep continue to pretend go thru everything as a first time bride, its scaring the hell out of me.

All I am asking to save Khushi from further degradation of her character and feelings, can we go straight to the marriage with saat pheres and be done with it.😡
Edited by Keshriya - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Oh my thoughts exactly. Mind reader you are.

I honestly cringed when she didn't remember that suhagraat phera thing. Hello did they forget same ladki taught Lavanya about wedding and gave her lectures and lessons and same one forgot?Exactly the marriage should be because Khushi telling Arnav that taking pheras and all the rasams mean alot to her and she always dreamed about having all this and Arnav would have obliged but here toh he had to because of his Daadi.Great. Khushi deserves all the glitz and galmour there is to a wedding but but somehow why am I not getting the same feeling I had during the first one? Maybe it's the execution of it all.

The mangalsutra and sindoor thing I did not understand what was that all about. She is Khushi Kumari Gupta not yet singh raizada so shouldn't she have taken it off?

So please do leave her character alone and do something about Manorama and make her remember she had a husband ( okay this is just because I want Mamaji back) oh and do something about Aakash really why won't he shut her up. Calling Gupta house his wifes house a refugee camp🥱.
Edited by pisces25 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Can I say this marriage thingy is not making me happy in any which way in the world - but making me more unhappy and more depressed than ever? I really enjoyed the first wedding - however it was - it was something. However this one seems like one that is layed out in complete confusion where the female lead is complete unsure of what her current relationship status is! 🥱

First she should have known this before that she did not do saat pheras and the marriage is incomplete (though I still do not believe in this - but whatever 🤔) She of all people who holds marriage in such a high regard needed Nani to make her realize this. Chalo for one moment I will take it - that she "forgot". But did she "forget" it even when Arnav was busy flirting and teasing her about it. Could not she have then taken a stand!?

Mangalsutra and Sindoor bit - madame Khushi Kumari Gupta Singh Raizada - if you chose to remain Khushi Kumari Gupta then please wipe off even these remnants of a marriage that you I am not sure consider a marriage or not. They are not needed then I guess till the proper marriage happens with rituals.

Third, "Hum aapke hi hain" and "hum phir aapke hojayege..." Baba re seriously decide what do you want! Whether you are married to him OR you are not.

Lastly - please Arnav just get done with this marriage - drag her again to the temple with panditji for sure this time and the family following suit (ignore Dadi 😛) and for god sakes just get married! I am so done with this marriage track - not making me happy at all 🥱

Lastly Barun Sobti only for you and Arnav I am watching this show. I lub you! ❤️

Love

Anna

P.S : Lovely post Renu! 😊


Edited by --Anna-- - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@ Anna how I wish the last part comes true but it won't. We will have a grand wedding and Khushi deserves a full rasam and all the glitz and glamour but I don't know the way they are executing this I am not getting the same feeling and not seeing the same magic as we did for the first one. I wonder why???

Edited by pisces25 - 13 years ago

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