The Apology -- Did it Hit the Mark? - Page 26

Originally posted by: hereandhappy

Agree that Arnav's character is not consistent anymore,and i have my doubts that he will support Khushi in future like he is doing in front of Dadi(will leave that for future)...

I believe Arnav was always against the rituals which was very evident during Lavanya track(not joining Janmasthmi aarti , Kanya puja etc ...

Regarding his current behaviour towars the shaadi ritual i don't know if it is consistent with his behaviour during Payash marriage but personally i agree with his point of view that more than any customs or rituals it is feelings that matters and if both of them acknowledged each other as their partners than these rituals hardly matters . which was also beautifully summed up in the last scene of yesterday's episode , when Khushi said hum aapke ho jaayenge and Arnav replied as if you are not mine now :)

I agree with you about the way the apology scene was directed. It could have been more emotional and should have conveyed the sincerety of Arnav's realisation. Actually I sometimes feel someone from the iss py..team reads the IF and they try to fit in minimal amount of whatever is necessary to make the audience a little bit happy.The episode where he says his first sorry was more heartfelt and showed that he really had a good sensitive heart. But that scene especially touched us because it was asr's first sorry. The drama of practising in front of mirror, anger at not being able to say those words, his hesitation and khushi anger at asr made the scene even more memorable.

Originally posted by: Maverick29

Hey Chaitra -- Hooligan 1 and Alibaba Guruji have started a discussion just on this topic here

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/iss-pyaar-ko-kya-naam-doon/3153846/is-this-possible-or-are-we-expecting-too-much

LM is really who we need back to get the "rat pack" back in action to give us what we deserve.

Cheers.

Thank you, Hooligan 1.. Reading it now... Will post my thoughts on that one soon. We need to start a LM laao dharna soon!

Originally posted by: rima

alibaba is pleased with that thread hooligan 2

Ok alibaba and hooligan no.1, for some strange reason i'm not able to like the comments. please consider them liked . Even IF is acting inconsistent. 😆

Originally posted by: chaitra2011

Ok alibaba and hooligan no.1, for some strange reason i'm not able to like the comments. please consider them liked . Even IF is acting inconsistent. 😆

Originally posted by: Harshitha

i thought i was the only one, i m facing the same problem in another thread

It's working fine now.. 😊

Originally posted by: Maverick29

1. He cared about her "tears".

2. He understood that he was WRONG.

3. He expressed his thoughts/feelings to a mirror in order to make sure he apologizes right.

4. He waited for her to come home that day -- but she didnt so he started inquiring about her arrival home.

5. He found out that she was going to a party with Lavanya

6. He went to the party location -- got into an argument with her. But calmed himself down to get himself to understand that he was on a mission.

7. He went to the gazebo -- found her there. He had trouble saying the words but did.

8. The way he said them showed the most important thing -- he meant the apology.

Originally posted by: Emerald-

That was done nicely. It wasn't easy for him because it was the FIRST time he was going to apologize to someone. Do you get me? But anyway, I agree with everyone. It was rushed and they forgot the flashback where he calls "characterless". Ek episode tou show karte is pe...

Great post Maverick!

Originally posted by: Jameelah52

Harshitha, here is where we differ yet again. The character of Anjali really intrigues me. I can almost say I know her and hence I dont mind if I see more of Anjali. The thing is people like Anjali do exist. Helpeless, clingy, stupid people who would blindly trust their loved ones and give them the authority to walk all over you in the name of love!! I have a friend who is just like Anjali and I pity her!! No matter how much you try to reason with people like them, they wouldnt listen no matter what. They would act all normal for a couple of days but then they would go back into denial! Just like the present Anjali. She acts all normal in front of the family but deep in her heart and mind she doesnt believe a thing!! Maybe thats why I keep saying if played fair, this character can be dealt with in a much better way!

Dadi on the other hand is pure evil!! She is siding Anjali and Shyam blindly. I would say dadi is really helping streghten the bond of Arhi. The evilness is bringing them closer. So it works for me, too.

Originally posted by: Harshitha

i think the problem which i found was Anjali was being portrayed as a saut (i dont want to use this term) instead of a sister something went wrong with the execution here many people had given her analysis on the forum quite nicely

i need to say this - i dont think the CV's will able to handle the way ur saying it that required researchlogically& their entire story since MU is quite illogical.

they may be wanting to show what ur saying but they goofed up big time & they didnt give arshi enough for romance from the audience perspective

such disorders should be treated with care & the present CV's dont seem to be capable of it

example :for me they ruined a lovely bro - sis relationship with drastic change in Anjali - i have a brother too which is why i know how to play a sister's role - but the way they had shown Anjali didnt work because theaudiencevery well knew that Khushi is right & shyam is wrong - i guess that may be also the problem

now Anjali is shown in scenes very differently - lets see if that isacceptedor not

Wait, saut to khushi?? Or khushi being the saut to Anjali?? Sorry, hum confusewa gaye hai..

I quite agree with you, after the MU there was hardly any logic left in the show. Now see when it comes to Anjali acting all jealous of Arhi's bond is something that I sternly disagree. Its the matter of perspective. Look, you see it the way that she is literally jealous of Arnav and Khushi but the way I see it, its merely insecurity. A sister can never be jealous of her brothers love. Now when the shit actually hit the fan, Anjali was all messed up, which is acceptable given the person she is.

Then comes Arnav celebrating khushi's birthday- she dint think Arnav was wrong. She thought that ' my chote is no longer there with me in my time of need'. Now take a look at the character- his female has always been pampered. She has put on a happy face for a quite a long time, since her parents death. If you see the flashback of their past its Anjali's wedding day! The damage has been done more to Anjali than to Arnav. He dint need to hide anything. He turned hardcore. But what about Di? She remained all mushy mushy like she was for the sake of her brother.

She threw those roses not because they were for khushi but because she was lonely. Now I am not saying that if she is upset then everyone should cry with her. But look at the situation she was trying to thank Arnav for the flowers, when in reality, those were not meant for her. She felt stupid! In her head, the world always revolved around her and to some extent it did. And now things have changed drastically, her husband gets thrown out without reason (according to her) , her brother is busy living his life when he had promised to be with her always and with that one person who is the root cause of her distress (according to her) .

Like you I too have a brother and if I am upset over something I expect him to find a solution to my problem because he has always done that. Call me selfish but its always been like this.

As for Arshi romance is concerned. Yes it may be messed up, but I seriously was all saddled up for a quite alot of tears from Arnav Khushi and Di. They should have talked about it- the whole Shyam issue.

Anjali jumped to the concluion that Arnav threw Shyam out without an explanation. She never ASKED, she just kept on blaming and crying!!!
Khushi never asked Arnav that what made you believe me after three fkcing episodes? (lol ok not like that, but she should questioned him atleadt)
Arnav bitwa should have apologized to khushi about MU'ing her right after taking that much needed bath!

The thing is, we at the forum and come here and analyse things whereas the TRP audiences will only see whats been shown to them and thats why the CVs need to be more careful of how they portray a character.


P.S- sorry for the late reply!