Sushpective: The real question is...!update P7 - Page 2

Originally posted by: premparbat

Sush

To be honest I am a bit baffled about todays episode ...or should i say I have mixed feelings.. While I agree with the "differnce in thinking..." of the two and the story we were promised at the start , its the timing and presentation that I am miffed about.

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True to their nature Arnie never believed in marriage and was happy to have Lavanya at his side for his physical needs. Then came along Khushi who he forced to "marry" to put the MS and sindoor in a temple coz he felt that was imporatant to her. Why did he not ask her to be his Live in girlfriend when he could have done so ? Why does he want the label " Husband" and her acceptance of this haque ? If Love is the only thing that matters then why NOT give in to the rsepect and dignity that "marriage" grants a realtionship. Its because he still has not understood what Total & Absolute commitment is . Does not understand the meaning of each and every vow... Sush it doe snot have to be with pandits around with familly around ...Vows are required promises to each other...He is still sitting on a fence.

Khushi who has lived for 6 months, till a few days ago was willing to walk away from the contract has now grown a concious and wants all the trappings. Is she not the one who thinks that Love & DIL are the two things that you need in a raltionship , the one thing that her Arnie dear so lacked. Was she not the one a few days ago said "I don't want to change you ..." now wants a
pwedding with all teh reeti-rivaaz . What she had committed to 6 months ago how was that acceptable to her that she has silently accepted him as her husband going ahead... why this sudden need of tradition. If she was so strong in her beliefs why does she not lay down her condition of this marriage - I want a proper wedding... Why this playing around. She too is sitting on a fence.

All in all Sush , yes both will have to find a middle ground or maybe forced to tie the knot knowing its a Family TV channel . My peeve is the flip flop by the csv and the toying with characters as and when they please...

If the new creative team gets this ie. please stick to the original characters and story board then I will be a happy camper. For now I am still unsure what tomorrow will bring...

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Originally posted by: premparbat

Sush

To be honest I am a bit baffled about todays episode ...or should i say I have mixed feelings .. While I agree with the "differnce in thinking..." of the two and the story we were promised at the start , its the timing and presentation that I am miffed about.

True to their nature Arnie never believed in marriage and was happy to have Lavanya at his side for his physical needs. Then came along Khushi who he forced to "marry" to put the MS and sindoor in a temple coz he felt that was imporatant to her. Why did he not ask her to be his Live in girlfriend when he could have done so ? Why does he want the label " Husband" and her acceptance of this haque ? If Love is the only thing that matters then why NOT give in to the rsepect and dignity that "marriage" grants a realtionship. Its because he still has not understood what Total & Absolute commitment is . Does not understand the meaning of each and every vow... Sush it doe snot have to be with pandits around with familly around ...Vows are required promises to each other...He is still sitting on a fence.

Khushi who has lived for 6 months, till a few days ago was willing to walk away from the contract has now grown a concious and wants all the trappings. Is she not the one who thinks that Love & DIL are the two things that you need in a raltionship , the one thing that her Arnie dear so lacked. Was she not the one a few days ago said "I don't want to change you ..." now wants a wedding with all teh reeti-rivaaz . What she had committed to 6 months ago how was that acceptable to her that she has silently accepted him as her husband going ahead... why this sudden need of tradition. If she was so strong in her beliefs why does she not lay down her condition of this marriage - I want a proper wedding... Why this playing around. She too is sitting on a fence.

All in all Sush , yes both will have to find a middle ground or maybe forced to tie the knot knowing its a Family TV channel . My peeve is the flip flop by the csv and the toying with characters as and when they please...

If the new creative team gets this ie. please stick to the original characters and story board then I will be a happy camper. For now I am still unsure what tomorrow will bring...

Originally posted by: -Sush-

Ha ha...made the entire post without saying anything about I LOVE YOU DAMMIT! Thanks for the reminder Meens😳 OK...to me.,...that sounded like...I WANT YOU! Very flattering...but almost thrown out as an argument FOR what he wanted to do...a justification...

I am glad he said it...but as an argument this was not as convincing...It was an admission to justify the means to an end...😛

Originally posted by: premparbat

Actually Sush When he said that I kind of expected a response from you on it as we have alwyas on your thread in the past said that this is how he will say it.

And I dont think the admission was a means to the an end... He is struggling to show his feelings to her and what she means to him. He has exposed himself more than he would like to and all that ever comes out from him is in anger... so he goes I LOVE U Dammit...

and I simply loved that part...

Originally posted by: Vistaa

🤗Sush,

Yes, it is one of those kind of days when the smiles just don't stop coming..😃

Great post and absolutely valid questions. And Khushi looked delectable...I was surprised he took it so slow and gentle 😆 No wonder his absolute bewilderment and annoyance at her reluctance.

*Sigh*

The trouble with me is that I can't take issue with either one of them and what they did and din't do today...Yes Khushi is the traditionalist, yet it is her who has been living with him for six months without the full-fledged wedding. and he calls her out on it..."what is wrong with you?"

And yes, he is the one who doesn't believe in marriages, who does fine with live in relationships. Yet he was the one who dragged her to the temple and put the sindoor and mangalsutra on her in front of her DM.

Much water has flown under the bridge since then and now both have acknowledged their love for each other and all he can think of now is taking it to the next level. Khushi would have happily followed him, cause she is helplessly in love...but then how could DM have allowed her most favourite bhaktin, her friend to live in sin😆...and thus she intervenes with the help of Naniji and Payal...she knows, all she has to do is introduce the worm in the mind of her Sanka Devi...and the rest will take care of itself. 😃 Poor Khushi, ...she thinks, I love him, he probably loves me...so let's make this truly official and then we can do our business. After all, scores of people first fall in love and then marry. Love and marriage, in that order, are not really mutually exclusive...right?

ODB, on the other hand, is relatively sure of himself and his position in Khushi's heart...in his mind, he has taken care of all the lose ends...Shyam is out, misunderstandings have been ironed out, his Di is now in a happy place because he has convinced her that she is th emost important person in his life, Khushi's bid for freedom has been foiled and she is firmly esconced in his heart and hearth, even Dadi has been suitably rebutted, ...all in all, things are sorta kinda where they should be.

All that remains to complete this picture of relative bliss...is his wife Khushi's cooperation . Poor soul...little does he know what is crawling in her head...😆

Oh, what I would do to give these two a long, warm hug?😃