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Hey everyone. I generally dont write much on most posts but i am an avid reader here and love peoples comments. Its a great thread.
ok to my point now...Many people here have been saying why Khushi wants this after 6 months. In her defense I want people to remember she was never willing for this wedding. It was forced on to her. It wasnt even a wedding. He dragged her to a mandir and shoved sindoor and a mangalsutra on her. But whatever he did it came with a termination period hanging above it. She was aware of it and thats why there was no need to ask for more. Why take the pheras when this was only for 6 months.
The most important at that point was that why, why was this done to her. For a while even her faith in her Mother her Devi maiya dwindled. She was so stuck in this relationship and if she broke the contract her jijis marriage was at stake.
When she finally managed to find out the truth at time it became not about saving the marriage but about clearing her name. It hurt her to think that anyone esp Arnav had thought so low of her. So still with her name slung in mud and now her her knowing the reason for it where was the need to ask for those phere still??
Then came the kidnapping track where she realized what Arnav really meant to her. But where was he?? Then his I love you came and her mind was consumed by the fact that there was something wrong and then her search for him started. So still no need to talk of pheras when the man and love of her life was in trouble.
Then finally when he came home still all was not well. The whole shyam fiasco and didi ki saut fiasco started. And that had to be dealt with. Just when she was still trying to be sure what Arnav may feel for her the DKS came up time and time again with Arnav again reminding her of the contract and that the relationship was not forever.
She reakky tried to leave thinking this was the best. For Arnav and his family.
He didnt think so. He had reached to a point where like without Khushi was not a life worth living. He did say it to his sister. But not her. With her initially it was about wooing and then about games. So it seemed to her. To any girl it would look like that. After what was said and done between them would a few gifts have been enough? I think i would want more. I would want words. I would want security.
FInally he manages to get her home and as things were about to get better Dadi shows up.
Meanwhile he does manage to show her how he feels by giving her the pearls. They start taking their first steps together as a couple now. She accepts him and his love. But accepting someones love and accepting someone as a husband is two different things.
He forced her to live with him as a husband and wife for the world for the last six months. They have become comfortable with the game now but now it feels real. Is that enough?? It is for him. But for her??? She was just coming to terms with the fact that her Arnavji wants this to be real and forever. But what next??? What about when the contact expires?? Where does the validity of this marraige if thats what it was stand??? It all started as a hoax. It was MEANT to throw wool on peoples eyes. now what?? do they continue it even though they both believe it and mean it to be real.
Arnav thinks so but Khushi just recieved a rude awakening. A marriage which was performed half baked for all the wrong reasons has no validity in the eyes of the most important person in her life. He Devi Maiya. Neither does it hold importance in her families eyes or Arnavs family. Just because they dont know the truth does that make it fine??
Its one thing to live with Arnav as his wife and let the people think so because till this time she was forced to do so. But if they both want it for real doesn't Khushi deserve this?? Why does Arnav want to live with his family and have Khushi live there as well when these same people believe in the same traditions as Khushi. They will never give her the respect she deserves. This Arnav will see for himself.
If Khushi had a choice in this matter from day one and they had fallen in love in a traditional way would Khushi had called Arnav her husband and herself his wife till the wedding was done with the blessings of all elders the way it was to be done??
I personally believe that Since Arnav has been the initiator in all this he needs to really stop and think. Is this how My Khushi would have wanted it. If Arnav would not have taken the first step towards love or hate I believe Khushi being a traditional girl would not have pursued him. What about her made Arnav love her?? He loves her for who she is. That she stands up for what she believes in. That she is firm in her values. Otherwise he had Lavanya for physical needs and could've found more women who were willing.
Why Khushi?? And if khushi then he needs to give her what she wants. As of now it has been first about his di and then about him. Now he needs to do this for Khushi. To want to do it for her, A simple traditional girl. Orphaned at age 8. Brought up by an adopted family. Pushed into an engagement with the wrong guy for all the wrong reasons. Forced into marriage by a guy she was falling in love with for all the wrong reasons. He dreams shattered and her family dissapointed by her after she had spent a life time pleasing them. Time and time again threatened by him, mistreated by him and called various names by him. He played with her feelings to make his own, his sister happy. She brought him back from the jaws of death almost loosing her life.
Finally he realizes what she is worth. Now he wants he for himself. He's become as obsessed lover whose every breath has Khushi's name on it. But even now the threats dont stop. The reason may be love but the ways still have similarities. But she is looking behind the ways and trying to understand the reason.
What about him?? Doesn't he feel she deserves this?? Something that he may not feel is necessary but he knows every girl wants and is very aware that society demands. Or is it ok to just shed the clothes and have the sex and call it as being one. For arguments sake if this is not Arnavs first time then he has become one with many many times. But thats a whole new topic not going there.
So is it ok for one to say I LOVE YOU and then jump into bed. Which by the way was not really said properly before. Maybe for some its cool. For khushi it is not.
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