Rituals are not all that important . . . - Page 2

Originally posted by: Deb_Barun_Arnav

Oh please go ahead . . . I have no problem that you are not agreeing with this!

I am sorry if I offended you in any way... I usually like and agree what you write.Its just that my explanation will be very long hence the reason for a separate post.

Originally posted by: dnyd

First of all let me start of by saying what Ipkknd taught us. Baat sach ya Jhoot ki nahi vishwaas ki hai. I got married in a Gurudwara had a grand wedding 10 years ago. I am married to my jaan the love of my life. Now the way you put it then all the people following any faith or religion can be wrong as well. This is Khushis faith. She is not forcing him but simply saying for this marriage to move forward for me to allow you to touch me this is what I need. It is Arnv who wants to move forward and for that he needs to understand her vishwaas. Otherwise she will and has walked out of his home and life before. I would do the same. No matter how much I loved someone I would walk out because I cannot comprimise on my faith. It makes me who I am.
Now for some people registered maraige may work but for people like me they don't. I not saying they are wrong just for me it's not my way. Also to counter your argument. I know many people who have had beautiful weddings end in divorce but also many that work and work beautifully. I have also seen many marriages done without rituals but also end in divorce or unhappiness. So you can't say one is right or wrong. If Khushi would have given herself to him today maybe ASR would have gotten what he wanted but for Khushi she may have never gotten that fulfillment. Maybe she would have considered what should be the most beautiful night of her life as the biggest mistake.
So what u say may be right for u and some but not right for others.

Originally posted by: rini_kat

Exacly.i agree with u .feelings should be considered with much importance. To me this rasms all that r all showoff things..nothing else...

Major problm in this epi I think execution... A girl shown though forcefully married now forgiven her husband , now wants to share his sorrows, presently sharing the bed... Suddenly remember of all the pheras and declared that their marriage is incomplete...when her husband tries to get intimate with her...

Originally posted by: uktamil

I am sorry if I offended you in any way... I usually like and agree what you write.Its just that my explanation will be very long hence the reason for a separate post.

Completely agree with u. There is nothing in this rituals.Love is the most imp part of marriage which is there in Arhi's relationship.So it really does not matter whether they have performed all those rituals of BIG FAT INDIAN MARRIAGE. Today even if u have had those rituals u have to register ur marriage. Rituals are only for fun.

Sorry to say but there's no single opinion to this topic. It's everyones personal POV. And I don't think there's any right or wrong in there either. I respect both opinions. Personally I'm married with all rituals and I believe in that too. God's and elders blessings and rituals does count. I have heard each and everything that the pandit was saying to me and my husband ( and that was first time I had heard all those things ). But trust me it's amazing when you hear real reasons behind all those rituals ... teaches you the real meaning of marriage ( be a arranged or love marraige - I believe in both ).


PS - this is just an opinion related to real life . Nothing to do with IPK I just loved today's epi. Watched it 7 times already. 😊

rituals are important but love is what is the utmost essence of a relationship...the bond that binds the two individuals despite being thousand tons opposite in their choices and their prospectives of life but still bowing down when it comes to each others wishes...that what i call is true love!

Here \i tell u my story... I m Hindu and I was Brahmin not now I married to diff cast but he is hindu too...
But v didnt have Ritual marriage...(some other reason)..and now its 15yrs of our marriage and I m still happily married...and he loves me and I love him( LESS THAN BARUN😆)

Originally posted by: xxChanga_Jixx

Here \i tell u my story... I m Hindu and I was Brahmin not now I married to diff cast but he is hindu too...
But v didnt have Ritual marriage...(some other reason)..and now its 15yrs of our marriage and I m still happily married...and he loves me and I love him( LESS THAN BARUN😆)

Originally posted by: icegurl789

rituals are important but love is what is the utmost essence of a relationship...the bond that binds the two individuals despite being thousand tons opposite in their choices and their prospectives of life but still bowing down when it comes to each others wishes...that what i call is true love!

not that arnav doesnt approve of the institution of marriage but hez been a reserved guy hiding away his true self...but he did end up with the pheras that khusi so wanted!

i soo liked todayz episode!

epicness is what the cvs maintained today!:)