Rituals are not all that important . . . - Page 3

Originally posted by: Drmsnap

Sorry to say but there's no single opinion to this topic. It's everyones personal POV. And I don't think there's any right or wrong in there either. I respect both opinions. Personally I'm married with all rituals and I believe in that too. God's and elders blessings and rituals does count. I have heard each and everything that the pandit was saying to me and my husband ( and that was first time I had heard all those things ). But trust me it's amazing when you hear real reasons behind all those rituals ... teaches you the real meaning of marriage ( be a arranged or love marraige - I believe in both ).


PS - this is just an opinion related to real life . Nothing to do with IPK I just loved today's epi. Watched it 7 times already. 😊

Originally posted by: Deb_Barun_Arnav

Roka, Kuldevi ki pooja, Sangeet, Mehendi, Haldi & Saat Phere . . . etc. These rituals are extremely important in Hindu customs - then what about the registered marriages? Those who strongly believe in rituals - why do they prefer registered marriages? Then, according to today's episode (mainly Khushi's insight) every single registered marriage around the globe is fake even if it has been 6 months or 6 years or 26 years - they should be seperated immediately because none of them followed all these rituals. Thus, even if there is pure love - it doesn't matter because these rituals are not complete. Individual's who thought Arnav is wrong - he should have followed the rituals . . . here is a question to you all . . .

Anjali got married to Shyam with all these rituals - what happened to her marriage? Her marriage only consisted of rituals - not pure love.

Payash also followed every single ritual before and after marriage - do they have that bonding between them like Arhi? No, because the rituals are there but the true purity in their love is not there.

Also, there are many marriages around the world that happen with all the required rituals but they end up in a divorce because the true love is mostly absent.

On the other hand;

A simple temple marriage or a registered marriage lasts forever because the bond of pure love that develops between the couple.

My mom told me a true incident about her neighbours in Kolkata:

There was a family with 2 daughters. A family gave the older daughter a marriage proposal but she denied because she liked someone else, the family chose the younger daughter and she agreed. The older daughter's boyfriend did not believe in any rituals so she decided that she will get married without any rituals - they will do a registered marriage. The family decided to get the younger one married first because of what society will think if the older one did a registered marriage (I think they wanted to imply that they did not have enough money for the older daughter's marriage or something). Anyhow, the younger one got married with all the rituals and within 4 months got divorced; whereas, the older one is still married for 25 years.

My mom told me that Arnav is correct according to him - she said LOVE matters a lot. Rituals are important but that does not mean that if you perform all the rituals the love blossoms or becomes pure.

We know why Arnav does not believe all this - still he did get married to her with sindoor and mangalsutra. If the rituals are so important to Khushi - Khushi should have explained it to him properly, not start becoming hyper randomly and creating unnecessary tension (everytime she sees the RadhaKrishna murti).

Today Dadi found out about the pheras because of Khushi and tomorrow the entire family will know.

Anyways, according to Arnav's personality and character - he is correct.

BTW, Khushi still didn't confess in front of Arnav - who did she say it to the great SHYAM. Why is she showing so much attitude? Even after Arnav's strong character - he confessed twice . . .

I can't say much about the Rituals been important or not because I'm a Muslim but one thing I do agree on is that Love is most important in a marriage and that said we all know Arnav truly loves Khushi after today's episode and that the rituals don't mean anything to him but it does to Khushi so why can't he just do the rituals to make Khushi happy.